Posted by saw on September 28, 2004, at 4:44:08
In reply to Effexor XR and orgasm, posted by jadasam on September 26, 2004, at 19:03:03
I see two problems. 1) not wanting to have sex with your wife, and 2) long time in reaching orgasm with masturbation.
Are these two problems related? Do you battle to reach orgasm when having sex aswell?
In a past relationship, I encountered a similar situation. I gently (and provocatively) asked this man to masturbate a bit less and suggested that it may help in reaching orgasm during sex. Though it still took him long (which I loved!) he was at least able to achieve his orgasm that he couldn't whilst masturbating a couple of times a day.
I hope this frustrating problem comes right for you.
Take care
Sabrina
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