Posted by HappyGirl on August 21, 2004, at 11:51:05
In reply to Don't know if anyone can help, but I'll try anyway, posted by pretty_paints on August 21, 2004, at 5:17:04
Hi:
Sounds like you have 'depression' that causing those 'issues,' including your mother's 'unattentive' attitude towards you.In my experience, in depressive stage, ... there is/are 'sad'/unhappy feelings that goes a way back to the childhood. Every small things seem 'negative' to me, even though in my heart, there is 'love' between my close relatives and me. For that reason, most of pdocs. rxes 'anti-depressants' to bring up 'good feelings' that in turn makes NOT hold any 'ill/sickly feelings' towards to those who we love.
However, I can NOT be sure, ... because this is simply based on my personal experience during my 'sad' days. Anti-depressant has DEFINITELY a positive and powerful effect on 'unsolved' isses. But then, ... it might be NOT in your case, because there is 'love'/old guy' issue involved. It seems like you still have some 'tender' feelings towards this guy, ... that is causing you 'nagging/unsolved' problem? I can not be sure, ... but if you still have 'feelings' towards him, then you may need a therapist who is 'capable' to give an appropriate advice on this issue, because 'love' issue takes quite awhile to get over.
H.G.
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