Posted by captain on June 23, 2004, at 20:23:14
In reply to can someone lend an ear?, posted by hopeful74 on June 23, 2004, at 20:06:05
Hi Hopeful,
I just wanted to write you back to let you know that I read your post. I am a 28 year old female, and although I don't have the same issues that you have, I figured I could still chime in my 2 cents.
I firmly believe that everything happens for a reason. Your birth mother obviously wasn't going to be a fit parent and you were SOOOO lucky to have found a wonderful family. That family is where you were supposed to be.
It sounds like your husband is very supportive and that will be a major help in getting better. I am not an overly religious person, but my boyfriend grew up in a religious household. I can tell you that since he has introduced it to me, I have felt a better sense of self, belonging, and just NON lonliness than ever. It took a while for me to feel comfortable with something I was never sure existed, but I can honestly say that I have a sense of peace I didn't know I could have. I am sure you have seen the book the Purpose Driven Life - it was a great beginning for me.
Also- one more thing - maybe you need a girls night! :) If you have some close friends nearby, or even if not, invite them into town. Have a night of girlyness - can do the soul wonders.
Wishing you all the best!
Captain
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