Posted by snarley on February 25, 2004, at 0:46:43
In reply to Re: Fluoxetine and Alcohol--please help, posted by inthegloaming on February 24, 2004, at 22:30:22
Sorry about the guy comment, i put in at the last moment, guess since i'm a chick who's had stuff happen like that with loser guys in the past i'm biased toward that as a first guess.
Sounds like you tried your best to voice your displeasure about it despite your dazed state. AND since the friend knew your stance on sexual stuff before that point, that makes it even worse. What they did to you was definitely wrong anyway, and even more so after what you just clarified, and at the very least you should not call them your "friend" anymore. Someone who does that once (and knew you were against it like they did) will probably try it again if they think they can get away with it in the future.
In the meantime, you might try getting some counseling/therapy (maybe from one of those sources listed in previous posts to this thread). It can really eat at you over time, especially if it was your first time doing anything like that. I was raped in high school and I didnt get help until a few years after the fact. My experience should have warranted me pressing criminal charges, but i was too overwhelmed by it all to do anything at the time. Talk it out with people and if it will make you feel better to take some sort of action, go for it. It's good to see that you are dealing with it now, instead of just keeping it bottled up and suffering.
Working through it now like you are will save you a lot of grief in the future. Good luck!
Snar
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