Posted by mariarp on February 5, 2004, at 12:39:09
In reply to Re: Spontaneous orgasms: amineptine » mariarp, posted by Chairman_MAO on February 5, 2004, at 8:06:39
My point was not that sex all together is a bad thing. I agree that sex is a very good thing. However, it is not all there is to life.Sex helps relieve tension and stress, yes, there is no arguing that. Nevertheless, I believe the negatives outweigh the positives on this subject.
I know people who enter society only to find someone to have a little fun with and then throw to the dogs. Of course I am not implying that everyone who likes sex is like this. Per contra, I am implying that the majority of people in not only committed relationships, but also in short-termed relationships never quite fully have a grasp of what they are putting at stake.
Safety is my key concern with today's public. When you pick someone up in a bar, and perhaps if you are "lucky" take them home, do you ever stop to ask have you been tested for any VD?”,n most cases, no is the answer. Te other few percent that do think to ask such a question usually continue the act if the reply is "Yes, I have been tested, and no, I have no VD." If someone of stable mind had planned out a murder, do you honestly think they would plead guilty? This is one in the same, because knowingly transporting VD to a non-carrier, if life-threatening, IS consciously conspiring a murder. Therefore there are even a smaller percentage of people who decide not to go through with the act unless the partner has been tested, and once tested witnessing the proof first-hand.
Many people are also unaware that they can be with their partner for years, and never see any signs of HIV. HIV can lie dormant for years before it ever turns into AIDS or it could never even progress into anything other than HIV. That does not mean because your partner has HIV, but it has been dormant his whole life, means that since you contracted it from him it will lie dormant in you.
On the other side of the spectrum there are the people who believe that a condom is the answer to their problems. While condoms have an 85% annual success rate in protecting against pregnancy. That's a 15% failure rate. But a woman can get pregnant only about 6 days per month. HIV can infect a person 31 days per month.
Latex rubber, from which latex gloves and condoms are made, has tiny, naturally occurring voids or capillaries measuring on the order of one micron in diameter. The human immunodeficiency virus is one half micron. So what's all this stuff about safe sex?
Now I don't know about you, but I know that sex is not more important than my life, no matter how depressed I am. If you are concerned with having pleasures in your life find something else to do besides risking death, or adding to the overpopulation problem.
If anything focus on pleasuring yourself by expanding your mind. It is true that a mind is a terrible thing to waste, and the normal human being only takes advantage of 10% of the space in his brain so there is 90% more storage to use. If you focus on bettering yourself before you know it your depression will fade (although medicine might help as well). It is also important to know that just because you are on medicine for depression doesn’t mean you don’t have to work to get better. If you think the medicine won’t work, more than likely it won’t. If you help along your medicine by learning and trying hard to think positive no matter what, before you know it you will be better. It is all about mind over matter.
It has been found that stimulating your mind you will also cause about a 63% lower risk of dementia in the future.Trust me, I have been there, and I never thought I would get better. I was suicidal, and was to be put in a mental ward. Sooner or later it is either help yourself, or disappear. It’s your choice.
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