Posted by headachequeen on January 3, 2004, at 15:01:55
In reply to on the rude lady, posted by ocdforyears on January 3, 2004, at 10:24:26
> She deserved all you said and more; sticking up for yourself like that has to be good for you.
>
> And admitting you were hurt...also good. Great share.Someone said she might think before saying something hurtful to others in the future. I don't think her type ever does or will. In her mind I am the rude and insensitive one and I have to admit I don't care. It felt good at the moment and it still feels good.
I am not the type of person to generally admit that someone or something has hurt me or my feelings... raised to keep that stiff upper lift you know...
but I think you are quite right and it does o
help to admit once in a while when something someone does or says hurts...
as for telling her off, back in the days when I worked in talk radio, this was what I was paid to do, to come up with the fast repartee, the fast response...
but for a long time that ability has evaded or eluded me... hence my friends' pleasure in my 'return'...
and yes, that felt good too...
but it still annoys me beyond measure to think that there are people out there who think that we are 'doing drugs' for pleasure...
the smoke is still billowing from my ears and nostrils at the thought...
but it has taken my mind off the depression and the epilepsy and the side effects and the rest of it...
maybe she did a good thing???? LOL
kat
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