Posted by Krissy P on March 16, 2003, at 21:15:35
ok, I posted this in Psychological babble too. But please I need help.
Okay, I don't know what to do. My mother is really getting on my nerves LITERALLY. Don't get me wrong-I love her a lot and we equally do things for each other-I pull my weight-BUT, is this worth my mental health? I know I have to find a place to rent, I just need the space bad!!!!!! I am not meaning to blame, and I hope it isn't taken that way, I eat more, I smoke more, and my nerves are on extreme edge when she starts pissing and moaning and complaining, yelling at the dogs. She is a nice person with a great heart, but.........
I mean you guys, she is a complainer about a lot. I dump the trash, I clean, I do errands for her, I take care of MY puppy, I clean up my bro's and I both dogs' poop, I deposit money into her checking account for her when she needs me to-(she works), which she complains about that too-(damn I wish I had a career)all when I am full time in school trying to handle that too. I keep my side of the street clean! She can never see most of the positive of anyting in life.
What can I do??? This is getting worse. I'm not depressed, I'm not manic-I posted once I believe about my mom and I. Damn, am I married to her??
-I don't think so! This is crazy. Something has GOT to change! I've tried, but I can't do it any more.
I really need your guys' input here-please. Total honesty is something I can take. Please advice????
Kristen
poster:Krissy P
thread:209814
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