Posted by IsoM on January 11, 2003, at 15:01:40
In reply to Re: SP/ADD/Idiot doctor ruining my life, posted by utopizen on January 11, 2003, at 8:31:27
I'm glad to hear you've made an appointment with a new pdoc. Just a pointer for you (probably already know this though) but I want this to turn out well for you..
Present a calm, rational demeanour when you talk with this doctor. That doesn't mean you want to act as if you're completely fine & need no meds, but if you come across as a reasonable person in need of psychiatric/medical help who's educated themself about meds, he'll be more likely to consider your views.
This new doctor's an older guy so he's bound to be more traditional in his manner of patient/doctor interaction. You'll want to be courteous & respectful. It'll help with building a rapport with him. Many older people are in despair over the lack of traditional courtesies that once was commonplace. You won't believe how far a friendly hand shake & thank you's & please's go. (Not that I'm imply you're not a friendly courteous guy, but the concept of what's courteous with diff generations can be quite different to each.)
It may also be helpful in future visits to print out information for him from reputable web sites - e.g. NIHM (National Institute of Mental Health)or perhaps university sites. I'm sure you know this, utopizen, but in case you're not aware, I'll mention something. By typing in site:edu or site:org or site:gov (along with the other terms you wish to find info) on in the search box on Google, you'll get info from specific sites this way. Edu are university sites, org are organisation sites, & gov are governmental sites. It eliminates a lot of dross & commercial nonsense that tends to show up.
Good luck in getting the help you need!
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