Posted by MaKi on January 16, 2002, at 18:51:27
In reply to Re: just a note from me. » MaKi, posted by dee on January 16, 2002, at 17:49:55
Hi Dee, you don't have to thank me, I'm just another
person with the same problem as you. It feels good to
talk about how we feel, even though we are strangers,
sometimes we get more out of it than if we were to talk
with our family and friends. Maybe your husband isn't
really responding to you or your letters because he might
not know how. Maybe he's afraid and doesn't know how
to handle it. Have you ever tried talking him into seeing
a counsellor with you? I asked my husband a few times if he
was willing to go to counselling with me but he totally didn't
want to hear of it! Like I said, we've been able to talk more
now so things are better. Plus, we have two young kids so we
have to make it work for ourselves and our children. Getting
myself better is the first step, once that is dealt with, we'll
work on other things.Again, good luck and hang in there. How 'bout we keep our fingers
crossed for one another?Joanne
poster:MaKi
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