Posted by Gracie2 on August 3, 2001, at 1:30:46
In reply to Re: When do you switch Pdocs? » paxvox, posted by jojo on August 2, 2001, at 23:07:26
First of all, whether it's your psychiatrist or your neighbor or the guy that sprays your shoes at the bowling alley, you simply will not "click" with everyone you meet. If you don't like your psychiatrist as a person, I would forget about him or her right away. You have too many other issues to work through without being distracted because you're talking to a jerk.I don't like it when doctors will not answer your questions, particularly about medication.
You have a right to know what sort of pills you are taking, why you are taking them, what effect they are supposed to have, what side-effects you might expect, and how long they will take to work.
The "trust-me-I'm-a-doctor" attitude is outdated and patronizing. As far as I'm concerned, that dog will not hunt.If you are afraid of being square-pegged, prehaps
your doctor is not keeping up with current information or is afraid to try new things. I am familiar with this mindset, as I work in an orthopedic office. Two little boys came in with minor arm fractures; one of them saw a young doctor, and one of them saw a doctor nearing retirement. The boy treated by the young doctor emerged from the exam room with a lightweight fiberglass cast decorated in neon sports emblems.
The other boy emerged with a heavy, uncomfortable, white plaster cast. If the boy in fiberglass accidently wets his cast, he can blow it dry with a hairdryer. If the boy in plaster wets his cast, the skin underneath will deteriorate and he will probably require a new cast.*It is so important for your doctor to stay informed and be willing to try new things. If you have a suggestion for a different medication or treatment and your psychiatrist disagrees, he should take the time to explain the reasons why
your suggestion is not practicable.The worst psychiatrist I ever had did two things thatI found unforgivable. She pointedly watched the clock during our appointments and would practically stop me in mid-sentence when it was time for me to go. She also made several unannounced trips home to Pakistan without referring me to a doctor that I could contact in her absence. I thought this was highly unprofessional.
Anyway, there are many doctors to choose from and no reason to stay with one you find unhelpful.
Good luck in your search-
Gracie*Footnote - fiberglass casts are suitable only for minor fractures. Severe fractures and post-operation casts require the stability of plaster.
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