Posted by Dr. Bob on August 21, 2000, at 1:05:26
In reply to Re: live and let live » Dr. Bob, posted by Greg on August 19, 2000, at 17:40:27
> You're right, we don't need further provocation here. So, my question is, What are YOU going to do about it? This current string of BS has been going on for over 5 months now and all I ever see from you is "Please be civil".
> it's time for you to start defending the people who REALLY care about PB and rid us of those who don't.
I think everyone deserves to be defended against incivility. Unfortunately, however, my ability to control what goes on here is limited. Usually, reminding people to be civil is enough, so I think it makes sense to start with that. But I do block people from time to time, most recently misterB.
> How many more valuable contributors have to be pushed away before you start getting pro-active about these constant disruptions? What about the new people who come here looking for help and support and are frightened away? You have options to make this stop and you know it.
Unfortunately, we're going to lose some valuable contributors. What "options" do you have in mind?
> If something isn't done soon, I will join the others who have had enough and leave Babble for good.
Unfortunately, we're going to lose some valuable contributors. I hope we don't lose you, but everyone has to weigh for themselves the pros and cons of being here.
Also, in response to Steeler Tookahn:
> The urge to respond is even stronger when someone else is being hurt. One feels compelled to let the abused know they are not deserving. It's hard to let other's pain go unanswered. It's human nature.
Yes, please do try to support the person who's hurt -- but not to attack the "abuser". Oh, I see now that michael already made this same point. Thanks!
Bob
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