Posted by shar on August 6, 2000, at 16:26:41
In reply to Hi Shar!, posted by Greg on August 6, 2000, at 15:50:34
Yes, I read your post (kind, generous person!) and felt really ashamed of myself for asking you about being mad at me. I have your e-mail address written down and have started to write you several times, but my "you dumb-ass" voice starts up and I abandon it.
I do not believe you did one thing at all to make me think you did not like me. I can do that all by myself by reading into something; I'm good at it!
It sounds so stupid now. I guess I felt out of touch, and knew you weren't feeling too good, and wanted to reach out, and your reply seemed sort of "just the facts" to me and I read into that that you must not want to have a personal relationship with me (I know, I know. I do this to myself! It was not you!).
That's pretty good, eh? Mind-reading via the internet.
So, then I obsessed for a while, and read other posts of yours, and mind-reading, and determined that I must have offended you.
Am I good at this or what????? (so embarrassing)
So, I think it was very thoughtful, kind, and generous of you to respond to me in your very caring way instead of "Ohhh, Bozohead.....What the hell are you talking about???"
I know you are busy, you are not feeling tip top, and you put a LOT of energy into this board and people. I do not need to mind-read you. You seem to tell someone if they hurt or upset you. So, you take care of yourself while caring for others.
Sigh. I took Tina's suggestion and registered for the Ladies of the Lite board.
I hope you are doing better, and even better every day. Thanks for your warm sharing, comforting words, and soothing manner.
Idiotically yours,
Shar
> Hey Shar,
>
> Wanted to check in and see how things are going. Did you read my post to you a few threads above this one?
>
> Hugs,
> Greg
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