Posted by Kath on July 3, 2000, at 21:22:05
In reply to Amen - Re: please be civil, posted by dj on July 3, 2000, at 19:33:05
Tdaneen - I am thinking of you. The part of it I've experienced is the divorce part & the "back & forthing" of my ex-husband. He'd want to get back together...I'd buy in emotionally...once I had, he'd say, no - he didn't want to be with me...I'd be crushed...he'd say crummy stuff about me...he'd say he wanted to get back together again...I'd say no...he'd say he needed me, etc....I'd buy in (low self-esteem; thought I NEEDED him to be worthwhile, loveable, etc.)...he'd say no, he wanted to find another woman...and on and ON and OOONNNN!!! Finally (!!!) I stopped buying in!! You have my profound warm thoughts & prayers. Hang in there. I wish I could give support about the other parts. I DO say, that you sound like a wonderful person & you deserve people around you who care for you and value you.
Thinkin of ya'. Kath
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