Posted by Abby on June 29, 2000, at 19:47:35
In reply to Re: I can't handle being schizoaffective » noa, posted by kerry B on June 29, 2000, at 17:45:11
My husband gets angry with me, he tries to help and understand but it's hard for him because I always abuse him and I don't know I'm doing it. As for the kids, the older one, 10, has had a really hard time because of me. I guess I've ruined his childhood dreams of being a happy normal family, my daughter, 8, is oblivious to it all I think.
Kerry--I'm sorry that things are so hard for you. Please tell us more about your medication and diagnostic history. What you said about your family really struck me, because I can't say that it isn't very hard for your kids. My mother is probably schizoaffective, and growing up was extraordinarily difficult, but there are some positive things I see in your message.1.) First and foremost, you are aware of your illness and the need for treatment. You don't want to change your whole family.
2.) You are able to consider the needs and feelings of others. Don't feel too guilty while you're trying to get your meds in order, but worrying/considering how one's own actions will affect others is an important aspect of leading a full, adult life.
So, when you're ready, fill us in on all the information Noa was talking about.
When did your symptoms first appear, and how were you diagnosed? What medications have you taken and for how long? What was your response? You mentioned side effects. What were they?
Take care,
Abby
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