Posted by JudithC on May 2, 2000, at 15:03:35
In reply to Re: Very worried about Vesper too!, posted by Noa on May 2, 2000, at 13:56:24
> Did any of you read my message under the thread about bob, ie, where is he?
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> I told Vesper about why I had been ignoring him for the past 2 months or so. I did not mean to hurt him, just to explain my ignoring him. But now I think I probably did hurt him and that might be the reason he left. I know maybe it seems a bit heartless to not read his posts or respond, but I had to for myself, because of how upsetting the incident in February was, when he was suicidal.
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> The UCLA thing is that they stopped providing services because he didn't keep to all aspects of his contract with them. I don't remember the details. Janice will know, probably.
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> Or does his departure have something to do with registration?
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> Either way, I am worried about him, too. I never stopped worrying about him, but I just don't know if I can deal with the worrying.Noa,you obviously do care about Vesper's emotional health very much;however,it seems that you have a lot on your plate right now coping with issues which need to be addressed so let the others in this "group" give Vesper the support he needs for now and you take a "breather"....we all need to step back at times in life and sort things out for ourselves which means that Vesper must understand that you are strapped at present.
Vesper,you do have so much support and care from these people....I am deeply touched by all of this love,yes,love. I don't know your problems;I don't judge your problems;I just know that from all that I have read,you are supported in gracious and tender form.
JudithC
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