Posted by Pollyanna on March 15, 2000, at 15:24:07
I feel isolated in this problem. Emotionally and sexually, I like being slapped by men. I don't like really being injured, but I like the sting and the shock. I try to figure it out, and I think that I often feel that my anxieties are out of control, and the sting of a slap snaps me out of it: imposed control when I feel out of control. It lifts my depression too. In the past, I was with a man who wouldn't do it because he didn't like to hurt women. I explained that I didn't really want to be hurt, but he was not comfortable with it. Now I have a somewhat casual relationship with a man who will do it, but not often enough, and sometimes the tone of the game becomes abusive rather than controlling. Any mature feedback would be appreciated.
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thread:27130
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