Posted by NikkiT2 on April 10, 2005, at 15:12:52
In reply to OK, oldsters...a call for advice, posted by allisonm on April 9, 2005, at 19:48:31
Oh hun *hugs you*
Living with someone with aspergers can't be easy.. as you know, one of my best friends hs aspergers and he can hurt me SO much.. but he doesn't get why it hurts me. Remember that someone with aspergers has totally different ways of thinking about things.. hve you maybe commented on your weight gain and he's picked up on that, thought about it and simply not understood that its someting he should work out in his head and not voice it?
Its a typical thing for an aspie to do..
The only way I have really found to deal with it, is to rant like h*ll to someone else.. You know you can rant all you like to us here. Just try and focus on the fact that he doesn't mean to hurt you at all..
*hugs you again*
Nikki xx
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