Posted by Noa on July 16, 2004, at 20:03:43
In reply to Re: Why is it the same old triggers.. » Racer, posted by NikkiT2 on July 12, 2004, at 8:01:17
Nikki, I have had money problems, too. I finally went to a community based debt counselor and got into a repayment program and got onto a liveable budget.
I know that there can be so much emotional baggage involved which makes it even more overwhelming--the self-critical stuff you mentioned.
I think that you can address the money problem, but first you need to see it as a problem to deal with, and not as who you are (all those critical things you say to yourself).
Can you get a short term plan together with J to get you through the next couple of weeks and then see a financial debt counselor to work out a long term plan to deal with the issues?
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