Posted by finelinebob on May 18, 2004, at 6:27:18
In reply to Seeking advice, posted by Racer on May 18, 2004, at 1:38:04
If cancelling means saving a few $$ that you can put away to defray costs for a consult with a pdoc, do it. And while you are at it, tell yourself how successful you are -- cutting loose from a situation that is not helping you and making positive steps toward finding something better.
If cancelling doesn't mean saving a few $$, then use the time to come to some sort of closure (particularly one that affirms what progress you have made ... and DON'T say you haven't made any because, at the VERY least, you have found out what doesn't work for you and knowing a negative is better than not knowing anything).
If you don't think you can bring it to any sort of closure, then cancel anyway and treat yourself good -- vacation time! Heck, we've been announcing vacation time for lots of people (or so it seems) lately here on Babble: it MUST be your turn, Racer!!
flb
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