Posted by allisonm on August 1, 2002, at 19:23:40
In reply to You are a true friend.. » allisonm, posted by Phil on August 1, 2002, at 17:27:41
Phil, don't go. We need you here. I need you here. When I was having run-ins on Admin over the 2000 board (and actually got blocked for a week), I took a break from even reading Admin. I glance now and then to see what's going on, but I won't get involved like I was before. It isn't worth the stress and loss of peace.
I'm an ACOA too. My pdoc has been showing me lately how I am putting too much of myself into things... caring too much... because I don't want to treat people the way I was treated. But then I never get out of what I put into something and that leads to disappointment, depression, withdrawl from the world.
Maybe take a little break and breathe? Then come back.
Love ya,
AllisonPS: It's hot as hell here in upstate NY, but we don't melt pans on asphalt like you Texans. We steam everyone to death by keeping the humidity real high. Even my roommate, who is from Kenya, is complaining. And sweating.
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