How do you get someone out of your head/heart?

Posted by allisonm on June 29, 2002, at 14:38:23

I broke up with my bf about 3 weeks ago. We had been dating for a little over a year. I had been feeling increasing ambivalence from him and asked him about it, whether his feelings had changed.
He said this would be hard. That he was not in love with me (never was, which I knew but that was OK - I wasn't looking for "in love") and did not feel as connected with me as he used to, blah, blah, blah, I'm a good woman, blah,blah,blah, he needs to spend time alone and work on himself, blah, blah, blah...
OK fine.
How do I get him out of my head? This question is probably oversimplistic. Maybe time is the only answer. He's just been in my head all day and I'm tired of it. We are meeting for coffee tomorrow so that we can return the stuff we left in each other's houses. Maybe then he'll get out of my head. I have been antsy to get rid of his stuff. It's been hanging over me. I don't know what else to do.

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How do you get someone out of your head/heart? allisonm 6/29/02
Re: How do you get someone out of your head/heart? » allisonm Greg 6/29/02
Re: How do you get someone out of your head/heart? » allisonm shar 7/1/02
I've often thought of a lobotomy... Phil 7/1/02
Thanks all, you're the best allisonm 7/1/02
Cats are good. They don't lie. (nm) » allisonm Phil 7/2/02
Re: sorry to hear this Alli tina 7/2/02
Re: Cats are good. They don't lie. And dogs..... shar 7/2/02

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