Posted by v on April 12, 1999, at 17:21:16
In reply to Am I gay?, posted by Ashley Hendrickson on April 11, 1999, at 15:26:33
ashley,
i would like to add that you needn't BE one or the other... that the ability to love a person sometimes isn't defined by their gender
that you love at all is a good thing... :)
i don't think you should have to take sides...
perhaps it's like a continuum... and most people are capable of falling somewhere in the middle or even being in a different place at a different time in their lives
that said, i would like to apologize for not responding to your post sooner but cheryl's response so upset me in the light of recent goings on that i reacted to that instead of to your plea... again, i am sorry - i never meant to slight your confusion or your pain
certainly it would help if you had an openminded professional you trusted to talk to... i don't know where you live, but many areas have gay hotlines (among others) for people experiencing your dilemma and no, you needn't be identified as gay to use them
i agree with others that this forum should be used to help support people in finding their own way - not directing them from some personal agenda
i wish you the best on your journey...
v
> I've been going out with this guy for about 5 months now but I have a best friend that I am REALLY attracted to. She has been my best friend for almost 3 years now and I am very physically attracted to her. Not only physically but in every other way. I always think about her in bed. What should I do? Should I tell my boyfriend that I feel this way? Should I let her know that I feel this way? What should I do? Help me please.
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