Posted by judi on January 14, 1999, at 11:14:21
In reply to What is "normal?", posted by Bethany on January 14, 1999, at 1:17:31
> What is the line between normal and abnormal feelings or behavior? Fairly often (perhaps on a weekly basis), I became strangely conscious that I am anxious and nervous for no apparent reason. I become irritable and snappy when my family try to speak to me. I feel like I have to go off by myself; I become very "stir-crazy," and tear away from all human contact. I am 18 years old, and I should be enjoying all kinds of social activity. Instead, I am withdrawn and disinterested. I fear failure in every aspect of my life. I drive my boyfriend up the wall with my constant insecurities. I wonder if how I am feeling is a "normal" part of my changing from a child to a woman, culturally related, or innately part of who I am. If not, I wonder what I should do to prevent my insecurities and feelings of anxiety.
Hi Bethany,
I'm sure your age is a major part of your feelings
but I think the easiest way to sort things out
would be to talk to a counselor. Are you in high
school or college? I'm sure your school would
have somebody available. As far as feeling nervous,
that's fairly common in panic disorder, it just
depends how disabling your feelings are. Are they
interfering with your relationships and school/job?
If so, you owe it to yourself to see someone. I wish
you the best of luck.
poster:judi
thread:2382
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