Psycho-Babble Medication Thread 1117134

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Why do I have to coax people to be my friend??

Posted by Jay2112 on September 30, 2021, at 21:17:20

I just don't understand. Seems like I have to spend money on others, and they might be nice, and 'maybe' a friend to me. When I do unto others, maybe they will talk to me.

So, for example, a friend that I knew from highschool, will talk to me only when I text/talk to him. I just got some extra money to go back to university. I took him out for a nice dinner and drinks, and paid the bill...just because I thought it would be a nice and kind thing to do. Afterwards..I didn't hear zip from him. No text, no nothing. He has a beautiful family, great job, all that. So, he was driving the bus I was on today. He see's me swipe my university card to get on the bus. He say's "Oh, mister bigshot university guy..". I tried to joke, and the whole time, he just seems annoyed with me. So, I exit the bus, he doesn't even say "bye".

Other people, except my little family, same thing. Someone made the comment (many times, actually) that I was too "depressing". I am a very outgoing, socially happy guy, despite being a bit overweight. I am self-deprecating, humble...but the only way people seem to like me is when I give them "things", spend money on them, having to do this or that for them. I get treated like some hobo bum, because I don't own a home, or drive, or don't work full-time. (I am on disability, but working on my second university degree. I get good grants because of my grades and disability, to go to school. But, 'friends' and women think I should be 100 percent 'established', etc, etc. Being intelligent and kind doesn't seem to count for much :(

Well, that's my pity party for today. But, hey, my cat loves me, and I have a brother and his family who do too. <deep, deep sigh>....

 

I'll be your friend..

Posted by linkadge on October 1, 2021, at 15:50:32

In reply to Why do I have to coax people to be my friend??, posted by Jay2112 on September 30, 2021, at 21:17:20

(for a small monthly payment)

Kidding, I'll be your friend for free.

Linkadge

 

Re: I'll be your friend.. :) linkadge

Posted by Jay2112 on October 1, 2021, at 19:38:28

In reply to I'll be your friend.., posted by linkadge on October 1, 2021, at 15:50:32

> (for a small monthly payment)
>
> Kidding, I'll be your friend for free.
>
> Linkadge

Ahhhh..thanks Link. :) Do you ever find your illness isolates you? I feel like Steve Martin in "Lonely Guy"..lol. Seriously!! Maybe I should get cut-out friends and have a party! :) LMAO...

Jay

 

Re: Why do I have to coax people to be my friend??

Posted by alexandra_k on October 2, 2021, at 1:39:14

In reply to Why do I have to coax people to be my friend??, posted by Jay2112 on September 30, 2021, at 21:17:20

It could be (through no fault of your own) a sign of the times.

I mean to say...

It could be that people are offering you a little slice of their life. What it is to be them.

If you are in a position of power... Of authority... Of means... If that is perceived...

Then you are, thereby, placed into a position...

Of holding.

Let's say.

It is whatever it was that authorized us (in some very liberal sense of 'us' to 'ride' (as it were) Dr Bob). Somewhat relentlessly (some may say).

Because of his perceived position or place of esteemed privilege / authority.

Some may say.

I mean to say that the more you attempt to protect yourself with the air of privilege -- the more you can expect other people to expect you to be able to 'hold' their crap. Or... The worse time of it you may expect to have...

Because they trust you.

Because they believe you (they want to believe you they want to believe in you and your esteemed privilege)

Do you understand?

(If you cannot do it -- then surely no-one else can)

 

Re: Why do I have to coax people to be my friend??

Posted by alexandra_k on October 2, 2021, at 1:47:45

In reply to Re: Why do I have to coax people to be my friend??, posted by alexandra_k on October 2, 2021, at 1:39:14

I mean, good grief. what do we really expect of doc john. with his pysych phd from who knows where...

or of various 'counseling' people from who knows where...

don't get me wrong -- the little guy can surprise us...

but people expected most-est of Dr Bob from the University of Chicago. Oh yes sir ee Bob they surely did.

And so on.

And I appreciate the entire world is de-volving and de-generating and all over falling apart... Such that things have only gotten worse and worse and worse an worse..

In my generation.

And i did not sell out with them (for which I must surely be punished)

And their tastes are decidedly teenage (well beyond my years) therefore I am expected to curl upl and die..

Voluntarily consent to my euthansia drugs. My covid drugs. I'm so demented I cannot even tell anymore.

Don't worry. NZL government will decide what is right for them in the face of their desireing many teenage girl to f*ck

mmm

yeah

etc

 

Re: I'll be your friend.. :)

Posted by linkadge on October 2, 2021, at 11:57:39

In reply to Re: I'll be your friend.. :) linkadge, posted by Jay2112 on October 1, 2021, at 19:38:28

Absolutely. Mental illness can impact the desire and ability to engage in meaningful social interaction. At the moment, I seem to be perfectly able to interact with people, I just have no desire to do so. I tend to gravitate towards isolation which seems to worsen things for me.

Linkadge

 

Re: Why do I have to coax people to be my friend?? Jay2112

Posted by alexandra_k on October 2, 2021, at 20:48:17

In reply to Why do I have to coax people to be my friend??, posted by Jay2112 on September 30, 2021, at 21:17:20

sorry, i got lost in my own crap.

sounds like he isn't that into you for whatever reason.

i would go 'plenty more fish in the sea' and move on...

you can't make people like you. who knows what's going on for him. sometimes people just don't click very well. for whatever reason. not your fault.

i'm feeling pretty lonely these days, too.

having been excluded from everything.

apparently other people get to pick and choose and i'm supposed to put a smile on my face and pretend to like it otherwise i get nothing.

or similar. i don't know. i don't know what the thing is.

things are very corrupt, here. people are ocd about what you are supposed to do at various phases or stages of their lives and they are angry or whatever with me that they think i am trying to steal all of the things that belong to their kids for myself.

or similar.

i don't know.

there isn't anything for me, here.

 

Re: Why do I have to coax people to be my friend??

Posted by alexandra_k on October 2, 2021, at 20:54:47

In reply to Re: Why do I have to coax people to be my friend?? Jay2112, posted by alexandra_k on October 2, 2021, at 20:48:17

it is about incentivising with money, i suppose.

i was supposed to follow the money.

i was supposed to do that which would be most lucrative.

which would have involved my hanging off of my supervisors sleeve 'what do you need to sign me off? what do you need to sign me off? what do you need to sign me off? what do you need to sign me off?' for the 3 or 4 or 8 or 10 or 30 years...

to get the PhD and apply for jobs... and apply for jobs... and apply for jobs... and always apply for jobs... and take the one with the biggest paycheck.

and apply for jobs...

and take the job with the biggest pay check.

if people aren't motivated to comply with following the trail of money then how do you get them to comply?

you take things away from them.

you take more things away from them.

you take more and more things away from them.

you murder them in their sleep.

that's the sort of life strategy they are going for right now.

taking the things away.

taking the things away.

enforcing conditions of deprivation.

what was it about again?

who knows.

so much fun!

taking all the things. all the things away. re-distributing me-wards.

don't remember what it was about in the first place.

just take all the things away.

all the government records.

all the fake government records.

all the studnet loan debt of $100,000 +++ for courses of study the government doesn't acknowledge anymore.

for falsified transcript with incorrect enrolment dates and fake details.

all the government debt for borrowing from the government for the most basic of things like fridge-freezer

no job.

no job.

the government is the major employer.

the private system (what little there is) only is here because of the government handouts they get. the government contracts. the government money.

that is to say there is no private sector.

taking the things away.

all of the things away.

false records.

criminals of us all.

'we don't believe in bonding -- we believe in branding!'

we maim our people so nobody else will want them!!!

and in this manner we get to keep alllllllllllll the slaves.

tis what new zealand voluntarily aims to be!!!!

the mighty leaders of the garbage heap of the rubbish land!!!

 

Re: Why do I have to coax people to be my friend??

Posted by alexandra_k on October 2, 2021, at 21:02:09

In reply to Re: Why do I have to coax people to be my friend??, posted by alexandra_k on October 2, 2021, at 20:54:47

i said in the medical interview about how the money comes in through Duke... and the people of north carolina have cancer care.

so, because they are psychopathic, like... they chose to do business with people who are saying they are mayo clinic. minnesota.

because, you know, minnesota has been so nice to various states that needed a little help. like iowa. it wasn't like trump had to bend their ears or anything like that to get them to get with the f*ck*ng programme and manufacture the things that were actually needed domestically and then ship those things out west (rather than selling them off overseas to the wealthy tyrants of developing nations).

so the ideology is... the government is choosing to invest in them... here is the ideology of why they get the money from the nz government.

they will provide the CHEAPEST cancer care in the world. and it will be the CHEAPEST in the world because of AUTOMATON. that is to say the aim is to eliminate / remove skilled workforce (who you would need to pay). that's the whole goal or aim or point or purpose. to eliminate the need for a skilled workforce. so don't worry, you won't have to train people and you won't have to employ them. you can just rely on AUTOMATON.

that's the goal or the aim or the vision that the new zealand government chose to buy into.

so it can say 'see see see! you have cancer care!!'

when what happens is that they take biological samples... then they rely on ethics committees (they are implying USA but actually probably the least developed ethics committees they can find they said specifically not new zealand ethics committees i don't know where there is a more corrupt ethics committee than new zealand...)

they take biological samples...

yes.

i get that part.

and they send them to the US or wherever.

yes. they take.

that's right.

_______

sigh.

Hey, Jay... Why not ask your brother and the people who like you what it is about you that they like?

I don't know. Just a thought.


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