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Posted by adam canada on January 9, 2005, at 22:40:12
I am so sick of them. My mom and my grandma. And my sister. My mom is alone. No husband. Hates men. Grandma is the same. And dad is a loon who needs anger management. They are divorced. My mom and grandma are alone because no one wants them. And for good reason. They are sick ruthless people. Bitch bitch bitch. JUST SHUT UP ALREADY. I dont want to hear it. They just dont shut up. I dont bother anyone and mind my own business and she has to find things to yell about!
My mom caused my mental illness anyway. Because she kept urging me to take a toxic medication called accutane which RUINED my life. I used to be normal. I used to be happy. Now I live with heavy depression and anxiety. Mostly dysmythia or however you spell it.
And she expects me to work??? Whatever! I tried it. Many times. I break something or do something wrong. I cant handle that crap. I cant concentrate on this nonsense. She ruined my life so NO I will NOT work. I will mind my business and leave me alone. I used to have interests. I used to enjoy life. I used to be able to SPEAK to people. I used to have a life and I used to have friends. Now I have no one. I dont feel normal. And the mental agony is a lot to deal with. So I wish she'd just leave me the hell alone.
And she should stop drinking!!! I am sick of her acting like an angry butch male just because she had too much to drink. I have never been more scared of her than when she got drunk on new years. What a mental case.
I hate my life and I am sick of these family members around me. I get yelled at for everything and it is disgusting. I SOMETIMES WISH I WAS DEAD
Posted by Fallen4MyT on January 9, 2005, at 23:16:04
In reply to family mistreats me. Leave me the hell alone, posted by adam canada on January 9, 2005, at 22:40:12
Adam from what I read I would be mad at my family too they seem to have a lot of problems that are complicating yours I can hear your pain in your words and am sorry. I wish I knew how to help you but maybe a T or family therapy or even moving in with some other family members you get along with better would help.
Posted by Cass on January 9, 2005, at 23:19:13
In reply to Re: family mistreats me. Leave me the hell alone » adam canada, posted by Fallen4MyT on January 9, 2005, at 23:16:04
I'm so sorry to hear of your predicament, Adam. The situation sounds unfortunate. May I ask how old you are? If you can't work, can you apply for disability which might allow you to move out of the house?
Posted by ed_uk on January 10, 2005, at 3:09:34
In reply to Re: family mistreats me. Leave me the hell alone, posted by Cass on January 9, 2005, at 23:19:13
Hello Adam,
I was hoping you'd return to babble. You seemed to feel so much better when you took the viloxazine. Have you managed to obtain any viloxazine? You could always try reboxetine if you can't get viloxazine.
I was sad to read your post. You are in so much pain at the moment. Like Cass, I was also wondering how old you are. Your family sounds like a nightmare, perhaps you would be happier if you lived somewhere else- maybe with an aunt or uncle??
I also took Accutane. It made me very tired and depressed so I dropped out of college. After spending a year at home I felt ANGRY all the time and hated everyone. I ended up on a psych ward but that was a few years ago now.
I think you need to start doing things that allow you to get away from home. Do you have any hobbies like music or sport that would allow you to meet new people. You need friends, everybody does, I'm sure that you'd feel better if you had someone to talk to. Send me a babblemail whenever you like.
I'm not sure how old you are but.... Could go away to University? You wouldn't have to deal with your mum all the time and there would be lot of opportunities to meet new people. I know it would be a big step but it'd probably make you feel much better in the long run. From what you wrote on the relationships board, I know that many people would like you.
Please reply....
Ed.
Posted by rainbowbrite on January 10, 2005, at 8:02:58
In reply to family mistreats me. Leave me the hell alone, posted by adam canada on January 9, 2005, at 22:40:12
I remember reading your other post in relationships and i just want to tell you that i think you are totally 'normal', whatever that is. so many people struggle with similar things. i don't know what your situation is and if you can do anything to get out of it but from the sounds of it you really need to move out. are you not working becasue of social anxiety? someone else suggested going away to college, is that an option? i think you may find it could change your life. i can't live with my parents. if i am with my mom for too long i go insane, seriously i get really messed up. the best thing i ever did was move out. are you in therapy? I hope you are feeling better. btw are you off accutaine?
take care
rain
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