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Posted by OzLand on August 11, 2007, at 15:27:59
I sent a new thread and must have deleted it due to being so upset. What I said is that one of the things that I have truely liked about the Psychology Babble is sharing insights from therapy, connecting the dots as DAisym says. This has been truely encouraging for me, and I hope that my comments have been mostly helpful to others.
Some of us have really good therapists, and we are truely blessed in this regard. I wish everyone had a really good therapist.
Now I do not feel I can write about MY therapy. I hope I can be helpful to others. I had hoped it would be reciprocal, but I do not see that it would be wise for me to reveal anything more from my therapy. I may babble mail folks from time to time rather than post and when it relates to something the person may have posted and that I can relate to. Okay, bad last sentence. Can't help it. I am still pretty upset.
Please everyone; just be careful what you post, who you babble mail, and who you email.
OzLand
Posted by OzLand on August 11, 2007, at 15:29:56
In reply to First angry and now sad, posted by OzLand on August 11, 2007, at 15:27:59
Sorry; I thought the first one did not go through.
Oz
Posted by muffled on August 11, 2007, at 22:56:39
In reply to Re: Sorry, posted by OzLand on August 11, 2007, at 15:29:56
so bad Oz :-(
Its the sh*ts when stuff like this happens.
I am glad you seem willing to stay.
I guess if there's anything good to be said bout it all, is that its a WAKE UP!!! call to ALL babblers to BE CAREFUL about what they say in b-mail, e-mail etc.
I am sad too.
I was thinking, maybe another thing us babblers could do to help one another, is to b-mail or post to other babblers if they feel they are revealing too much. Its a hard call, but I have felt I should B4, and regret that I didn't :-(
Just like I tell my kids.....there's wormy apples in every barrel(NOT inferring anyone in particular...), but MOST people are OK. So lets try our best to watch out for each other, and be safe.
I have enjoyed reading your posts Oz, and I thank you for what you have shared.
Muffled
Posted by Quintal on August 11, 2007, at 23:35:32
In reply to Geeze, I'm so sorry you got burned » OzLand, posted by muffled on August 11, 2007, at 22:56:39
Yeah, muffled I second that sentiment. And it's not only an issue with this one person, as I found out today, another babbler who I considered a friend betrayed me too, and on that very thread. Just sucks all round.
Q
Posted by Quintal on August 11, 2007, at 23:57:24
In reply to Re: Geeze, I'm so sorry you got burned » muffled, posted by Quintal on August 11, 2007, at 23:35:32
I'm sorry muffled. I think I should rephrase that, I was feeling angry when I wrote it and my judgment was poor. I found out today that a person I considered a friend did something I considered unsupportive, and I felt angry as a result. I appreciate the sentiments you expressed on this thread.
Q
Posted by Deputy Dinah on August 12, 2007, at 0:28:09
In reply to Re: Geeze, I'm so sorry you got burned, posted by Quintal on August 11, 2007, at 23:57:24
> I found out today that a person I considered a friend did something I considered unsupportive, and I felt angry as a result.
> QI understand that you are angry, and I appreciate the apology, but please be sensitive to the feelings of others even if yours are hurt. Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down.
Dinah, acting as deputy to Dr. Bob
Posted by Quintal on August 12, 2007, at 0:31:53
In reply to Please be civil » Quintal, posted by Deputy Dinah on August 12, 2007, at 0:28:09
Posted by Dinah on August 12, 2007, at 0:35:06
In reply to Okay, sorry (nm) » Deputy Dinah, posted by Quintal on August 12, 2007, at 0:31:53
Posted by Fivefires on August 12, 2007, at 13:44:15
In reply to First angry and now sad, posted by OzLand on August 11, 2007, at 15:27:59
I've learned something from reading your posts re: therapy.
I've learned Ts do more than just 'nod' or say 'uh-huh' at your every statement.
I would love to find a therapist who seemed to truly care about 'the me' in me here.
I can see it could get a little personal, but feel this would be a better way, than my way, which is 'no way'. I have pretty much no relationship w/ my T. In over a year, T has prompted me to realize just one important thing.
(I've tried not to share whether T is a man or a woman in prior paragraph. Yes, we need be discreet.)
feelbetter, 5f
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