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Posted by susan47 on September 15, 2008, at 0:06:35
Tonight, you finally said it to yourself.
The thing that's the God's honest truth, and you know it, Susan.
Finally tonight you were able to say with finality,
He's not good enough for me.
This would never work for me.
And it's time to close the door and walk away Forever,
because even though most see my ex-h as some kind of wonderful,
I see him as some kind of horrible, destructive, vindictive man.
And it's time to heal yourself, and walk away forever,
from what you really know is the truth.
He really is your father, you really did marry the devil (indisguise of course, in blue eyes dis-guise ... his voice gives him away though, the vindictive little boy humour, the *ssh*l* admitting proudly that he is one,
proudly he hails he cares for no one's opinion .. least of all an ex-wife, one whom he loves in his mind only, for the truth is that unless he's getting something out of the "deal", he will abuse you forever emotionally and you know it, and it's time to say "Stop." Stop falling for the abuse, just walk away.
From whomever and whatever you need to, for your own daughter's sake, for the sake of your own future, care for yourself for once, Susan.
I love you.
Love yourself, too.
Love yourself as much as you see him loving his *ssh*l* self no matter how badly he behaves, how roughly he throws you around emotionally .. and he's not the man he says he is, and he knows it and it is THIS knowledge that makes him so angry with me. Because I see through it all, I see through him better than anyone.
And now, he is going to prove to the world what a wonderful guy he is, he's going to go out and do "good things" for the world.
Leaving you to remember that you were his emotional punching bag for awhile, and only you and your children, in their adulthood, may perhaps see it for what it was. And a few close friends and relatives. Your mother's been telling you the truth for a long time, trying to get you to see it, Susan. It's time to be proud of yourself, even if you're no longer what you were once ... you can be that and More.
You can.
You will.
Posted by WaterSapphire on September 16, 2008, at 11:13:54
In reply to Rush, posted by susan47 on September 15, 2008, at 0:06:35
YOU GO SUSAN!!!
You can do it...You are worth it...
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