Psycho-Babble Social Thread 1072002

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Wtf am i social services?

Posted by Lamdage22 on October 8, 2014, at 14:31:05

The word got around in rehab that i am a kind, respectful and empathetic person. Word also got around that i hand out things like a taxi drive (that i would have taken on my own anyway).

So, the next thing you know, people come to me and ask me to drive in the taxi with them (and pay, thats the culprit). They push me to do it. Then, i heard them talking some garbage the other night. "Lets take Julian with us, then we have to pay less. He offered me (what i offered)." So i offer something once to a particular person and the next day everyone thinks they can squeeze some $.

F*ck*ng low life people.

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Re: Wtf am i social services?

Posted by Tomatheus on October 8, 2014, at 21:15:43

In reply to Wtf am i social services?, posted by Lamdage22 on October 8, 2014, at 14:31:05

I don't have a whole lot to say, Lamdage22, but I think it's too bad that this happened to you. And I think it's unfortunate that there's a price to be paid for being perhaps too giving to others. It seems like for situations like what you described, it would be a good idea to set clear boundaries on what you're willing to do for others before making any offers.

Tomatheus

Re: Wtf am i social services?

Posted by Lamdage22 on October 10, 2014, at 7:42:27

In reply to Re: Wtf am i social services?, posted by Tomatheus on October 8, 2014, at 21:15:43

Yes i clarified it. There is one person very obviously more fond of my wallet than of me. Fortunately this individual wont be with us for more than another week. I have hears from others that he is greedy like f*ck although he claims to hate greediness. Perhaps in the way that he likes to extract money from other peoples wallets despite the fact that he has more than them. Giving nothing back.
It seems like his rule about greed doesnt apply to himself.
He LOVES himself. I wonder who has had the nerve to raise a child like that.

Doesnt mean everyone who asks for a favor is that way.
I am okay again.

Its a thin line between being a condescending bunghole and being used by others. But its certainly possible and i will better myself.

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