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Posted by SLS on January 6, 2013, at 12:52:51
In reply to In memory of Maxime, posted by Dr. Bob on January 6, 2013, at 12:22:57
I have nothing to contribute just yet. I would just say that, upon reading this about Maxime, I reacted with a gasp, my hand held over my mouth, and a small trickle of tears. I guess that shows how real people are on the Internet, even when they know each other only through cyberspace. I am profoundly sad. Maxime was very likeable and a hard worker. She suffered.
- Scott
Posted by SLS on January 6, 2013, at 12:55:06
In reply to Re: In memory of Maxime, posted by sigismund on January 6, 2013, at 12:50:21
I smiled whenever I saw her name posted on the board. I guess that means something.
I am still profoundly sad.
- Scott
Posted by Emme_V2 on January 6, 2013, at 14:05:28
In reply to In memory of Maxime, posted by Dr. Bob on January 6, 2013, at 12:22:57
Thanks for passing along this information. I am very sorry indeed to read this. I know she suffered so badly and wish she could have known better days. She seemed like a really good soul.
Posted by rjlockhart37 on January 6, 2013, at 14:38:41
In reply to Re: In memory of Maxime, posted by Emme_V2 on January 6, 2013, at 14:05:28
me and maxime used argue with eachother for a couple years, we disagreed on alot and faught with eachother but eventually in about 2007 i became friends with here on babble, i didnt want anymore friction between us....god, i can't believe it....i've been asking where she is....i posted stuff.....i can't believe it, she almost became a close friend in the end of our conversations in 2007....
Maxime you soul will be rerembered and I will look up and rerember everything you posted. Even the disagreements. I still am sad....she was a good person, and understanding even through her hard battle with depression and self hatred that helped me learn about her and some of myself.
r
Posted by gardenergirl on January 6, 2013, at 21:22:50
In reply to In memory of Maxime, posted by Dr. Bob on January 6, 2013, at 12:22:57
I was so sad to hear about this. Her presence here added so much, and the story of her struggles was so poignant.
I especially enjoyed getting to know her more personally in chat, and I will be forever grateful for her teaching me the French name for the traditional French Canadian dish my family enjoys every holiday season.
Au revoir, Maxime, a truly beautiful soul.
Posted by Beckett on January 6, 2013, at 22:24:08
In reply to In memory of Maxime, posted by Dr. Bob on January 6, 2013, at 12:22:57
Maxime was a good friend to many here, me certainly, and I felt her departure from babble keenly. Extraordinary? Yes, yes she was. I admired her wit and intelligence that belied her depression. Her compassion and fierce defense of the underdog.
I don't know what else to say right now.
Posted by Beckett on January 6, 2013, at 22:25:47
In reply to Re: In memory of Maxime, posted by Beckett on January 6, 2013, at 22:24:08
Then there was her love of more earthy humor that would make me snort whatever I might be drinking through my nose....
Posted by Phil on January 6, 2013, at 22:26:05
In reply to Re: In memory of Maxime, posted by gardenergirl on January 6, 2013, at 21:22:50
I was reading some of our posts. She was so sweet to me.
I cry now I celebrate your life tomorrow. We are all one.http://i297.photobucket.com/albums/mm216/pearljo/vincent_willem_van_gogh-depression.jpg
Posted by Phillipa on January 6, 2013, at 22:46:06
In reply to Re: In memory of Maxime, posted by Phil on January 6, 2013, at 22:26:05
Maxime & I had an on and off relationship. We were close at times and then separate. She endured many hardships both with work and her Mother. How did you come to find out of Maxime's Untimely death? May her soul rest in piece. Love Phillipa
Posted by 10derheart on January 7, 2013, at 19:20:35
In reply to In memory of Maxime, posted by Dr. Bob on January 6, 2013, at 12:22:57
Thank you for telling us, Dr. Bob.
Oh, I just don't know the words.
She once posted something so kind and supportive to me on the Eating board. I'd link to it, but obviously I can't.
I'm still processing this. I used to pray for Maxime. I always worried....but you figure there is always hope :-(
I can't think straight about this yet. I'll try to post something coherent after I can take a full breath when I think of this. Not right yet though.
Posted by Phillipa on January 8, 2013, at 0:04:30
In reply to In memory of Maxime, posted by Dr. Bob on January 6, 2013, at 12:22:57
Dr Bob I can't find any posts after 2010 how did you find out? Phillipa
Posted by 10derheart on January 8, 2013, at 1:39:38
In reply to Re: In memory of Maxime » Dr. Bob, posted by Phillipa on January 8, 2013, at 0:04:30
Phillipa,
Don't you think that if Dr. Bob wanted to share such sensitive and private details, he probably would have done so in his initial post? He normally says what he has carefully decided to say, especially in matters as serious as a poster's death, and then no more.
Do you really imagine he will answer questions about this here? I don't.
Why don't you email him if you have questions? I don't mean to be difficult or to pick on you, but Dr. Bob asked if we could remember and say goodbye, not discuss this aspect.
I find these questions jarring to read here.
Posted by Jeroen on January 8, 2013, at 4:27:27
In reply to In memory of Maxime, posted by Dr. Bob on January 6, 2013, at 12:22:57
she was nice to me i remember her, this is shocking news :(
R.I.P Maxime we all will miss you :(
Posted by Free on January 8, 2013, at 21:51:47
In reply to In memory of Maxime, posted by Dr. Bob on January 6, 2013, at 12:22:57
Posted by g_g_g_unit on January 9, 2013, at 5:55:26
In reply to Re: In memory of Maxime, posted by 10derheart on January 8, 2013, at 1:39:38
I am not lying when I say I thought to myself, just the other day, "I wonder how Maxime is doing?"
This is so disheartening. I hope she found peace.
Posted by sleepygirl2 on January 9, 2013, at 18:10:03
In reply to Re: In memory of Maxime, posted by g_g_g_unit on January 9, 2013, at 5:55:26
I never got too much into the meds page, but I certainly remember her.
I remember thinking that she suffered a lot, and I know a lot of people here cared about her.
I'm sorry that it turned out this way.
Posted by Willful on January 10, 2013, at 20:34:16
In reply to Re: In memory of Maxime, posted by sleepygirl2 on January 9, 2013, at 18:10:03
I remember how much pain she was always in. Sometimes she said she couldn't go on. I remember trying to find ways to say that there was hope and that her life could be different. But sometimes I found it hard to believe because the pain seemed so palpable and suffocating in her writing. She really could make you feel the immediacy of it-- how much she suffered and how relentless it was.
I remember once when she lost a job.
It's awful if it never got better.
Posted by Jeroen on January 11, 2013, at 5:46:29
In reply to Re: In memory of Maxime, posted by Willful on January 10, 2013, at 20:34:16
i've sent her messages a year ago and never got a reply back, i knew something was going on because she wanted me to contact her :(
Posted by rjlockhart37 on January 12, 2013, at 21:14:48
you know all the arguements and fights i got in it with her....she was a vary nice person in the end when i became .. maybe somewhat friends...i stopped being negative and deragotory to her...there's many many many more posts but this is the post that was on google search with my name on it....everyone on the net can read this....i need to get it removed....
this all started in 2004 and arguements and friction lasted i think till....what 2008-2009? i don't know. She was a good poster and provided info and support to others even when she was suffering herself.
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/20050322/msgs/474819.html
thats my old posting name...i've had many over the years and ill evnetually reveal them....but most of them where rjlockhart...but they had diffrent numbers on the back of them.
just thought id post this...
r
Posted by Glydin50 on January 15, 2013, at 20:41:15
In reply to In memory of Maxime, posted by Dr. Bob on January 6, 2013, at 12:22:57
I am sorry to learn of this.
Posted by PhoenixGirl on January 22, 2013, at 16:17:08
In reply to In memory of Maxime, posted by Dr. Bob on January 6, 2013, at 12:22:57
Did she commit suicide?
Posted by B2chica on January 30, 2013, at 12:36:32
In reply to In memory of Maxime, posted by Dr. Bob on January 6, 2013, at 12:22:57
I remember her, She fought so hard, for So long.
She had such a strong personality.
I had hoped that she was well as reason for no posts.
Her manner of death doesn't matter to me.
She is gone. I feel a pain of sadness in my chest.
I will light a candle for her that she may have eternal peace. she Certainly deserves it.
Bless you Maxime, thank you for touching my soul.b2c.
Posted by Roslynn on February 23, 2013, at 15:39:05
In reply to In memory of Maxime, posted by Dr. Bob on January 6, 2013, at 12:22:57
Dear Maxime, Rest in Peace.
Posted by marygold on March 29, 2013, at 5:33:44
In reply to Re: In memory of Maxime, posted by Beckett on January 6, 2013, at 22:25:47
Mainly to all but after teading RJLockhart37 comment/reply, thanks
Thanks for posting this, I also have had other names, and forget them so sign on with others too. Tonight was one of those times, and somehow I came across the rememberence of Maxime. Can't say I even remember her, but after reading her post, that you posted, it brought tears to my eyes, just to see her pain and how the whole psychiatry tried but failed with her case, and in the end did not really help her. Im not making judgment on the psychiatry world, here, just could imagine like she says dealing with someone speaking another language trying to help you, etc... As we all know there is good and bad in everything. Just that Dr.Bob, has made this site is showing how great a Dr. can be and helpful too. But, her post through RJLockharts, also shows this person having a very BIG heart, to say those kind words, to the other posters while fighting the fight.Seeing this also reminds us of our own destinies, and that there will be an end one way or another to life. Cherish, your good moments, talk about your bad, and try and get some happiness out of life. And somedays it might be as little as burying my face in my cats fur, or eating a bowl of ice cream. I know in my own life, that the bad can seem to have a way of taking over even the good, the small moments of happiness., in a way where its all you relate with. Almost like it becomes so common, its hard to even feel good. Almost like you dont deserve it or something. All you can relate with is a painful life. But we must prevail, force ourselves to get up, take a walk. a hike, run, drive your car, sit under a big tree, have a cup of coffee, read a book. Have you ever sat around feeling terrible, only to let it ruin the day. But then have you ever forced yourself out, and have actually turned your day around. Action does help. So in this rememberence of Maxime, I would just like to say her life wasnt in vain, and she did help people, and her posts are here for the world, to reflect, learn, and maybe help ourselves. We live in a society (well the us), that is uncaring, thrives on taking advantage of people, doesnt care about the aging, insensitive, cutthroat, and it really is getting worse and worse, selfishness is a good descriptive word. Its hard out here, we need to start caring about one another. Maxime, and alot of other people that have a caring side dont do well in this world (I believe), and that doesnt help with any kind of mental issue, and probably is the cause of many. Finally I would just like to say Thanks Maxime...
Posted by gadchik on May 4, 2013, at 18:43:30
In reply to Re: In memory of Maxime, posted by marygold on March 29, 2013, at 5:33:44
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