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Going on a date...

Posted by yellowbird01 on June 27, 2009, at 13:30:13

Have I completely lost my mind???

I'm going on a date tonight. At least I think it's a date. A coworker gave a male friend of hers my number (with my permission). He called yesterday, and called him back today... which is itself an accomplishment. I tend to avoid social contact like the plague. We're meeting for dinner tonight at 6pm and then he suggested we catch a movie or walk around downtown for awhile.

I'm quite anxious about this! I was in a 2 year relationship that ended in the beginning of Feb. I wouldnt say I'm 100% over my ex, but I'm definitely getting there.. and I do think I'm emotionally ready to be dating again. I'm just very, very nervous.

My T likes to point out all the ways in which I dont do what I need to be healthy, have friends, etc... what is more risky than essentially a blind date? So there! :)

 

Re: so how did it go? (nm) » yellowbird01

Posted by Tabitha on June 28, 2009, at 12:34:44

In reply to Going on a date..., posted by yellowbird01 on June 27, 2009, at 13:30:13

 

Re: Going on a date...

Posted by manic666 on June 30, 2009, at 3:10:21

In reply to Going on a date..., posted by yellowbird01 on June 27, 2009, at 13:30:13

my dateing skill,s were perfect if she is a lady , treat her like one , if she is a scrubber shag her an go for a burger .

 

Re: so how did it go? » Tabitha

Posted by yellowbird01 on June 30, 2009, at 17:12:07

In reply to Re: so how did it go? (nm) » yellowbird01, posted by Tabitha on June 28, 2009, at 12:34:44

It went pretty well I think. I'm not sure yet, to be honest. He is definitely a nice person, and I do like him as a person, but I'm not sure yet if I'm attracted to him or not. Often you can tell right away, but.. I'm just not sure. We had dinner, walked around downtown for awhile (we live in a small town), stopped for ice cream, and rented a movie afterwards. Quite a long evening for a first date! I went a bit further than I really meant to go physically on a first date... although I can say that he was very respectful and appropriate the entire night, without exception. He said he would call me, and he did - good sign! He wants to see me again. I'm going to go out with him again soon and see how things progress. Either way, seems like a good person to have as a friend.

Thanks for asking Tabitha. :)

 

Re: Going on a date... » manic666

Posted by yellowbird01 on June 30, 2009, at 17:13:08

In reply to Re: Going on a date..., posted by manic666 on June 30, 2009, at 3:10:21

I dont know. I'm more of a fan of... if she's not a lady (or your type, etc) get out of there and dont look back. Minus the shagging. Just a recipe for disaster...


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