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Posted by Kath on March 15, 2007, at 19:34:11
My son called us & asked to come over:
GF's in big trouble
She & her new 'interest' have been kicked out
Son asked if we could pick him up so he'd be here at the phone if GF called (on our 1.800 #)
So he's here now:
She did call him
She was at a phone booth .... I should say, she & new 'friend' with all her bags
My son was frantic
He was saying he HAS to SAVE her; he can't give up on her; he loves her; his life is worthless etc etcHe was saying he wants to pay for her to stay at a hotel; now he's saying that maybe he should 'cut his losses' & give up on the relationship & find another girl.
Now he's saying he needs to take care of himself right now & that all he wants is to go to a bar & get totally drunk.
He's telling a friend right now on the phone that when the police came to evict them, they were 'cooking' drugs!!!!!!! And that there was writing all over the walls, etc.
He's saying that "A (her name) is gone. She's lost now & she. She's also ******* this other guy, too!"It's actually good hearing him (what seems like) realize that.
You know it's really surrealistic or something that all this is happening in my life!! I'm just a normal, respectable person. The fact that all this is happening is SO hard to believe.I'm doing not too badly!! I feel pretty calm!!!!
Whadayaknow!!??
Kath
Posted by Phillipa on March 15, 2007, at 21:57:35
In reply to Newest Big Drama. can't believe this is for real., posted by Kath on March 15, 2007, at 19:34:11
Kath well you know where to find me and I think you may be in shock. I would be I think. Love Phillipa
Posted by Kath on March 16, 2007, at 13:40:28
In reply to Re: Newest Big Drama. can't believe this is for real. » Kath, posted by Phillipa on March 15, 2007, at 21:57:35
Yeah Phillipa. I think I was/am? in shock.
Do you think I should have put ***trigger*** on that post?Actually today I'm feeling not bad!!
Saw son today. He's been using alcohol to cope.
Weird that he's way easier to talk with when he's had a beer or two.
He's planning to try to communicate with GF via the internet; feels she'll be able to 'talk' more privately with him that way.
He's moved into a 2 bedroom basement apt with a friend (who's a nice guy; he lived with us for several months a few years ago & always stops by on Christmas with gifts for us.)
The apt is about 5 minutes away & right around the corner from his mental health office.
I'm feeling healthily detached.
Thanks P ..... take good care of yourself ok?
hugs, Kath
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