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Dr. Bob is Robert Hsiung, MD,
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Posted by Deneb on July 10, 2006, at 17:38:33
How would you feel if I loved you like I love Dr. Bob? Would you mind if I thought of you everyday and wrote about my love almost everyday? Pretend you are Dr. Bob, how would you feel? What would you think? Would you handle my love the way Bob does?
Do you think Dr. Bob will take advantage of me? I don't think he would do that. Would someone else take advantage of me? What if Dr. Bob were someone else?
Do you think Dr. Bob thinks it's weird that I love him so much? Do you think he understands and is not freaked out by it? Do you think Dr. Bob kind of thinks I'm crazy for loving him so much and saying, "Dr. Bob, I love you Dr. Bob" to myself sometimes?
Do you think it's okay for me to write to Dr. Bob on the boards all the time? I like writing to him, even though he doesn't reply. Do you think Dr. Bob minds? Maybe he thinks, "It's fine".
I love Bob. :-)
I love you Bob. I sometimes think about you when I'm upset or scared. I think about you when I'm doing random things like grocery shopping and washing the dishes. I wish you could meet my hamster Buttertart. I wish there wasn't a three post rule. I would write about loving you everyday.
Deneb*
Posted by curmudgeon on July 10, 2006, at 18:45:37
In reply to How would u feel if I loved u like I love Dr. Bob?, posted by Deneb on July 10, 2006, at 17:38:33
I guess I just wish you had someone to love you back.
Posted by Deneb on July 10, 2006, at 19:11:40
In reply to Re: How would u feel if I loved u like I love Dr. » Deneb, posted by curmudgeon on July 10, 2006, at 18:45:37
> I guess I just wish you had someone to love you back.
I wish I had more people love me. I know my Mom loves me. I think my Dad does too. I don't know about my sister.
Deneb*
Posted by Jost on July 10, 2006, at 20:11:59
In reply to Re: How would u feel if I loved u like I love Bob » curmudgeon, posted by Deneb on July 10, 2006, at 19:11:40
I think Dr. Bob accepts your feelings for him, and understands some things about them.
I also wish you had someone whom you could love and with whom you could have a more immediate relationship, too.
Maybe the feelings you have for Dr. Bob will help you in working toward finding more things that are satisfying and fulfilling.
Jost
Posted by Deneb on July 10, 2006, at 20:22:07
In reply to Re: How would u feel if I loved u like I love Bob, posted by Jost on July 10, 2006, at 20:11:59
> I think Dr. Bob accepts your feelings for him, and understands some things about them.
That's really good to hear. I needed that. Thanks.
> I also wish you had someone whom you could love and with whom you could have a more immediate relationship, too.Relationships scare me.
> Maybe the feelings you have for Dr. Bob will help you in working toward finding more things that are satisfying and fulfilling.
I hope so! I think it's teaching me how to love someone unconditionally.
Deneb*
Posted by Bobby on July 10, 2006, at 20:38:00
In reply to How would u feel if I loved u like I love Dr. Bob?, posted by Deneb on July 10, 2006, at 17:38:33
How would you feel if someone loved you the way that you love Dr. Bob? Would it scare you off---even if you've never seen them in person? Do you think that maybe you love bob because perhaps he is out of reach--so there's no real danger of hurt--like in the real world? Do you think that if you met somebody who you could love in the most intimate of ways---your love for bob would wane? you are sweet Deneb and I'd like to think that person is out there for you.
Posted by Deneb on July 10, 2006, at 21:12:16
In reply to Re: How would u feel if I loved u like I love Dr. Bob? » Deneb, posted by Bobby on July 10, 2006, at 20:38:00
> How would you feel if someone loved you the way that you love Dr. Bob? Would it scare you off---even if you've never seen them in person?
I think I would be okay with it as long as she/he didn't expect me to love her/him back.
I've actually met Dr. Bob, during the Babble Party. He said my love for him is "fine". He let me hug him. I think he's okay with the Bob love. :-)
>Do you think that maybe you love bob because perhaps he is out of reach--so there's no real danger of hurt--like in the real world?
Yes, I do. I can write about loving him all I want and never be rejected.
>Do you think that if you met somebody who you could love in the most intimate of ways---your love for bob would wane?
I don't know. Maybe. Maybe my boyfriend will have to accept my Bob love. Bob love is different from romantic love.
> you are sweet Deneb and I'd like to think that person is out there for you.
I hope you are right. I don't know how to find this person. Are you out there? Hello? LOL
Deneb*
Posted by Phillipa on July 11, 2006, at 12:27:33
In reply to Re: How would u feel if I loved u like I love Dr. Bob? » Bobby, posted by Deneb on July 10, 2006, at 21:12:16
Deneb did you just say you have a boyfriend in real life? Love Phillipa
Posted by Deneb on July 20, 2006, at 22:45:42
In reply to Re: How would u feel if I loved u like I love Dr. Bob? » Deneb, posted by Phillipa on July 11, 2006, at 12:27:33
Oops, sorry I missed your question Phillipa. I don't have a boyfriend.
Deneb*
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