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Posted by Dinah on May 12, 2006, at 21:31:47
It's the big moment. Everything's come together and it's time to put the bid on the house.
And my feet have turned to blocks of ice.
What if it's the wrong thing to do? Better the devil you know...
Posted by Dinah on May 12, 2006, at 21:43:42
In reply to Cold feet! Cold Feet!!!, posted by Dinah on May 12, 2006, at 21:31:47
It is NOT an adventure.
Posted by jammerlich on May 12, 2006, at 22:00:49
In reply to no no no no no no no no no, posted by Dinah on May 12, 2006, at 21:43:42
You're right, Dinah. It isn't. Sh*t is what it is, no matter how you look at it. It isn't fair and I wish you weren't faced with the decision.
(((((Dinah)))))
Posted by Phillipa on May 12, 2006, at 22:11:08
In reply to Re: no no no no no no no no no » Dinah, posted by jammerlich on May 12, 2006, at 22:00:49
Well are you comfortable sharing where the decision is if not it's okay but we could be neighbors. Love Phillipa
Posted by annierose on May 12, 2006, at 22:23:45
In reply to no no no no no no no no no, posted by Dinah on May 12, 2006, at 21:43:42
It is an adventure. It's an uncertain one. And it's scary as hell. But I think it is the right thing to do. You need a fresh start. You need to move forward. Your son will adjust. It won't be overnight. I will keep you in my prayers tonight.
Posted by Estella on May 13, 2006, at 0:09:38
In reply to Re: no no no no no no no no no » Dinah, posted by annierose on May 12, 2006, at 22:23:45
FWIW I think it is the right thing to do as well.
Don't get me wrong...
Sounds like a hard decision to make
A really really really hard decision to make
You have been there for a while
And if you are anything like me change can be hardBut from a relatively objective point of view
Things have changed and there is no going back to the way things were
:-(I honestly think it would be worse to stay
Because there will be constant reminders of the way things were...
And so hard to move beyond that...But to move...
You will still have the good memories.
And you can visit if you want...
But yeah...
It is a kind of adventure.
Can be scarey
Can be terrifying
But I honestly think things will be better...
Posted by gardenergirl on May 13, 2006, at 10:43:57
In reply to Re: no no no no no no no no no, posted by Estella on May 13, 2006, at 0:09:38
It is scary. It's a huge commitment. If you didn't have some worry about it, I'd worry.
I really believe it's going to be okay, though. You can borrow that from me if you need to.
Take care,
gg
Posted by MidnightBlue on May 16, 2006, at 10:31:45
In reply to no no no no no no no no no, posted by Dinah on May 12, 2006, at 21:43:42
Dinah,
Everything is going to be okay! REALLY it is. It just doesn't feel okay. Take a deep breath!
MidnightBlue
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