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Posted by lynn970 on September 30, 2005, at 17:10:09
The people here on babble dont like you? Like they dont want you to post to them?
Maybe, it is just depression.
Posted by lynn970 on September 30, 2005, at 17:18:13
In reply to Do you ever feel like...., posted by lynn970 on September 30, 2005, at 17:10:09
Like they dont want to respond to your posts.
Posted by JenStar on September 30, 2005, at 17:38:46
In reply to Do you ever feel like...., posted by lynn970 on September 30, 2005, at 17:10:09
hi lynn, I like you and I like reading your posts! How are you doing? Are you feeling depressed right now?
JenStar
Posted by spriggy on September 30, 2005, at 20:03:14
In reply to Re: Do you ever feel like.... » lynn970, posted by JenStar on September 30, 2005, at 17:38:46
Anytime I find myself depressed (or super anxious) I seem to feel that way in general about people-- I overly obsess about whether or not they like me, if I have offended them, what they think about me etc..
I think it kind of comes with the territory.
I am learning to not take it personal and to recognize my thoughts are probably not real.
I know I sure don't feel that way about you. I'm so glad you're here!
Posted by Phil on September 30, 2005, at 20:54:54
In reply to Do you ever feel like...., posted by lynn970 on September 30, 2005, at 17:10:09
You're a math teacher, Lynn! You know how some people feel about math. : )
Really, I think all of us must feel that way at times. Maybe we can call it Babblenoia.
If I feel alone here I just post something mean. Then I know that at least Dr Bob or the deputies will chat with me.I don't feel that way on the board as much as I do in real life. It's much more of a problem for me in person. Here, I'm just a four letter word.
Bottom line is I enjoy your posts.You have pals here. Like the suit guy says.."I guarantee it."
Phil
Posted by lynn970 on September 30, 2005, at 21:08:12
In reply to Re: Do you ever feel like.... » lynn970, posted by Phil on September 30, 2005, at 20:54:54
I am back from eating out with my family. I am feeling much better now.
Thanks so much all of you. I am sorry to hear that you guys feel that way too sometimes. It is not a good feeling. I feel that way in "real" life as well.
Love you guys.
Lynn
Posted by wildcard on September 30, 2005, at 21:43:51
In reply to Do you ever feel like...., posted by lynn970 on September 30, 2005, at 17:10:09
I did at one point but i was adjusting meds. and new. I try and focus on the people that seem to like me and post to them and try to get others to join w/ silly posts.
>>>And Lynn~U are VERY well liked and loved here! U are a very sweet and caring person who has ups and downs like the rest of us.(((hugs)))
Posted by lynn970 on September 30, 2005, at 21:54:53
In reply to LYNN ** I think ur great !!!, posted by wildcard on September 30, 2005, at 21:43:51
I really do appreciate and like you alot. : )
Posted by spriggy on October 1, 2005, at 11:19:35
In reply to Re: Thanks Wildcard, posted by lynn970 on September 30, 2005, at 21:54:53
You are one of my favorite posters to read because you have such a unique sense of humor.
You crack me up.
Especially the "deputies will chat with me" bit..ROFL
Posted by Phillipa on October 1, 2005, at 14:07:17
In reply to Hey Phil.... for the record.., posted by spriggy on October 1, 2005, at 11:19:35
Hey lynn just wanted you to know I like you too! Fondly, Phillipa
Posted by dominique on October 3, 2005, at 21:01:05
In reply to Do you ever feel like...., posted by lynn970 on September 30, 2005, at 17:10:09
> The people here on babble dont like you? Like they dont want you to post to them?
>
> Maybe, it is just depression.I think that we sometimes make ourselves believe that others don't like us or that we are the misfits in the bunch. However, I also know that there are some people out there, not necessarily babblers, that don't want you in their "gang of friends" or that you are not with the "in crowd". But those are the same people who will have to answer to a higher being later in "life". In the mean time, I'd just believe that if someone is posting something, than it is meant to be read and answered, if not, the person writing, shouldn't post.....
Smiles
Dom
Posted by dominique on October 3, 2005, at 21:05:15
In reply to Re: Do you ever feel like...., posted by spriggy on September 30, 2005, at 20:03:14
> Anytime I find myself depressed (or super anxious) I seem to feel that way in general about people-- I overly obsess about whether or not they like me, if I have offended them, what they think about me etc..
>
> I think it kind of comes with the territory.
>
> I am learning to not take it personal and to recognize my thoughts are probably not real.
>
> I know I sure don't feel that way about you. I'm so glad you're here!Lynn, I've read some of your posts and I know that you also babble in the religious postings. So I may be assuming when I say this, but I'm sure that you have a belief in heaven and hell. According to some Christian beliefs: worrying, anxiety, and depression is the work of the devil trying to bare down on us and get us to not trust in God. If this is your belief, than know that according to this thinking: you can combat the demons (anxiety, fear, worry, etc), rebuke them, and strive to live a less stressful lifestyle.
But that would be easy... which is why we are battling all the time....
Smiles
Dom
Posted by Phil on October 4, 2005, at 12:10:47
In reply to Hey Phil.... for the record.., posted by spriggy on October 1, 2005, at 11:19:35
That's nice of you Spriggy, thank you. Humor keeps me sane...sorta.
Phil
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