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Posted by spriggy on August 13, 2005, at 13:10:59
How old were you when you had your first real kiss??
Posted by rjlockhart98 on August 13, 2005, at 13:16:54
In reply to Question of the day (Saturday), posted by spriggy on August 13, 2005, at 13:10:59
ALRIGHT!!!
16 in my car driving with my old girlfriend.
Posted by 10derHeart on August 13, 2005, at 14:42:47
In reply to Question of the day (Saturday), posted by spriggy on August 13, 2005, at 13:10:59
I can't remember. How sad is that? :-(
(my memory *ucks lately....hormones, I suspect)
Posted by Tamar on August 13, 2005, at 14:54:49
In reply to Question of the day (Saturday), posted by spriggy on August 13, 2005, at 13:10:59
> How old were you when you had your first real kiss??
I was 14. I'd been dating my boyfriend for eight months. It took us six months to get around to holding hands, and then another two months before we kissed! It was quite romantic, if I recall...
Posted by Tamar on August 13, 2005, at 14:57:38
In reply to Re: Question of the day (Saturday) » spriggy, posted by 10derHeart on August 13, 2005, at 14:42:47
> (my memory *ucks lately....hormones, I suspect)
That asterisk represents an 's', right? Otherwise I want to know more about those hormones...
Posted by messadivoce on August 13, 2005, at 15:14:35
In reply to Question of the day (Saturday), posted by spriggy on August 13, 2005, at 13:10:59
I was 15, and it was with a boyfriend who was a complete bastard. I'm kind of annoyed that I wasted my first kiss on him.
A few years later I got kissed by my now-fiance, which was much more passionate. And then he immediately moved in for another one. :-)
Posted by linkadge on August 13, 2005, at 15:16:40
In reply to lost consonants » 10derHeart, posted by Tamar on August 13, 2005, at 14:57:38
Nobody's kissed me other than my mommy.
Linkadge
Posted by Deneb on August 13, 2005, at 17:24:45
In reply to Question of the day (Saturday), posted by spriggy on August 13, 2005, at 13:10:59
Posted by ed_uk on August 13, 2005, at 18:26:38
In reply to Re: lost consonants, posted by linkadge on August 13, 2005, at 15:16:40
>Nobody's kissed me other than my mommy.
I've never had a proper kiss either. People have tried but I always turn away........
~Ed
Posted by 10derHeart on August 13, 2005, at 20:37:44
In reply to lost consonants » 10derHeart, posted by Tamar on August 13, 2005, at 14:57:38
...yes it was an 's'. Guess I won't be writing it quite like that again...hmmm...funny, I usually remove the second letter...?
Just trying to be extra-civil, but I forgot about the extra-dirty minds here...;-)
Posted by gardenergirl on August 13, 2005, at 21:04:07
In reply to Tamar, you are sooo bad.... » Tamar, posted by 10derHeart on August 13, 2005, at 20:37:44
Posted by linkadge on August 13, 2005, at 21:24:49
In reply to Re: lost consonants » linkadge, posted by ed_uk on August 13, 2005, at 18:26:38
"I've never had a proper kiss either. People have tried but I always turn away........"
Thats funny.
Linkadge
Posted by ed_uk on August 14, 2005, at 10:14:18
In reply to Re: lost consonants, posted by linkadge on August 13, 2005, at 21:24:49
Hi Link :-)
>>"I've never had a proper kiss either. People have tried but I always turn away........"
>Thats funny.
Why?
~Ed
Posted by ed_uk on August 14, 2005, at 11:20:20
In reply to Re: lost consonants, posted by linkadge on August 13, 2005, at 21:24:49
>Thats funny.....
As an ex-social phobia sufferer, kissing is difficult. I prefer to have sex without kissing! Even when I've had a lot to drink, I don't like kissing... and alcohol boosts my generally (low) libido.
~ed
Posted by Phillipa on August 14, 2005, at 13:16:13
In reply to Re: lost consonants » linkadge, posted by ed_uk on August 14, 2005, at 11:20:20
What's wrong with you guys? I was l2 and I used to go to parties where we always kissed! Fondly, Phillipa
Posted by ed_uk on August 14, 2005, at 17:02:03
In reply to Re: lost consonants, posted by Phillipa on August 14, 2005, at 13:16:13
OK, now I feel stupid.
~ed
Posted by linkadge on August 14, 2005, at 18:22:58
In reply to Re: lost consonants » linkadge, posted by ed_uk on August 14, 2005, at 11:20:20
It's funny cause I can picture somebody trying to kiss you, and you running away. Don't worry, simple humour.
Linkadge
Posted by linkadge on August 14, 2005, at 18:28:37
In reply to Re: lost consonants » linkadge, posted by ed_uk on August 14, 2005, at 11:20:20
I don't find anything specifically appealing about a kiss. Although I cannot say for sure.
I am very figity around people. I usually retract when people touch me.
My mom was sick when I was young, I didn't get handled a lot.
Linakdge
Posted by ed_uk on August 15, 2005, at 2:27:17
In reply to Re: lost consonants, posted by linkadge on August 14, 2005, at 18:28:37
LOL, I don't run away. Well actually... I did once..... but that's another story.
>I usually retract when people touch me.
Yeah, I don't always like being touched either.... but sometimes I do.
~Ed
Posted by caraher on August 15, 2005, at 10:31:17
In reply to Re: lost consonants » linkadge, posted by ed_uk on August 15, 2005, at 2:27:17
and it was a strange situation, she was a friend who'd become interested in me while I was obsessed with someone else. I liked being kissed but I was passive about it as I wasn't really with the one I wanted.
I always look on it with regret, softened only by reminding myself that I can't expect myself to have handled the situation as I would, in retrospect, have liked to given my inexperience at that age
Posted by sleepygirl on August 15, 2005, at 11:29:51
In reply to Question of the day (Saturday), posted by spriggy on August 13, 2005, at 13:10:59
12-too young, I hated boys then, but it was sort of a peer pressure thing
I didn't enjoy it until I was 17. :-)
Posted by zeugma on August 16, 2005, at 16:40:54
In reply to Re: lost consonants, posted by Phillipa on August 14, 2005, at 13:16:13
> What's wrong with you guys? I was l2 and I used to go to parties where we always kissed! Fondly, Phillipa
hi Philippa,
don't forget there are social phobics here. I had panic attacks at parties at 12, and to this day do not like to be around large groups of people.
-z
Posted by KaraS on August 16, 2005, at 18:02:10
In reply to Question of the day (Saturday), posted by spriggy on August 13, 2005, at 13:10:59
> How old were you when you had your first real kiss??
I was in grade school believe it or not. I met my "boyfriend" in a quiet secluded place so we could kiss. He gave me a peck of a kiss and then I said something to the effect of "no, like in the movies" and then I grabbed him and started making out with him. ROFLk
Posted by Declan on August 21, 2005, at 15:38:10
In reply to Re: lost consonants, posted by ed_uk on August 14, 2005, at 17:02:03
Do you think kissing is something you enjoy more as you get older? When I was younger I was always worrying if I was doing it right, and never enjoyed it. Now I worry much less about it. Rapidly approaching death helps, sounds melodramatic, but the sense of time changes.
Declan
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