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Posted by trucker on October 28, 2004, at 19:21:41
In reply to Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas, posted by jlynne on October 28, 2004, at 17:33:15
hey dear i never left.. i think a part of the problem is folks thought you and i had a falling out of sorts and that is why you weren't posting. and they missed ya... when i actualality you were regrouping and preparing for a wonderfull future and needed a break... glad you are back i been reading daily and posting more recently... love ya (((sista)))
trucker
////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////> Hey, I am still here, and I don't plan on leaving any time soon:~) It is unfortunate that some of our sistas felt the need to leave our thread (and babble). I think we have all found some comfort here, and I honestly believe that we can re-establish our bond, if we really want to.
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> Even in "real life" families there are times when hurt feelings get in the way of healthy communication, but just as in "real life" families, I believe it is possible to heal the wounds and continue toward emotional growth.
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> I love everyone I have met in here, and I would love to see all of us find our way back together for the sake of healing. These threads are, after all, the best place in the world to practice relationship skills.
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> I am here for anyone who is willing to give it a try, and I appreciate how hard it will be to come back after such an emotional break. Please, keep this in mind . . . these boards were set up by a group of people who are objective and, for the most part uninvolved with our lives. We, on the other hand, are real people reaching out to other real people, and we all need to learn how to deal with life in a healthier way.
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> I am willing to stretch my emotional boundaries, if that is what it takes to bring people back, and I hope that everyone who left will look inside and recognize that we all need a better way to handle our emotions. Let's talk, ok?
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> I love you all.
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> ((((sistas))))
>
> . . . jlynne
Posted by NewWife on October 28, 2004, at 22:18:56
In reply to Re: Where is everyone????, posted by sexylexy on October 28, 2004, at 12:10:47
sexy, jlynne, how are ya. i wanted to say hi. i just got done being blocked for reasons i still dont get, but i am over it. i hope yall are well, come join us more often at the yo yo site. it is so fun and way more freeeeeeeeeeeeeee! free like a bird!--lol-----jess
Posted by NewWife on October 28, 2004, at 22:22:56
In reply to Re: Where is everyone????, posted by Mrs. C on October 28, 2004, at 15:06:58
glad you finally posted on the other site. your a trip. i feel so confined here. but i wanted to shoot you a quick hug. hey to you!
Posted by Zena on October 29, 2004, at 11:10:28
In reply to Re: Where is everyone????, posted by Mrs. C on October 28, 2004, at 15:06:58
> It seems that everyone got turned off by comments made here recently. Me included. Join us at our new site. We can cuss and tell people off without getting into trouble or being redirected by Dr. Bob (no offense Dr. Bob) If interested let me know. Mrs. C
Mrs. C.,
How do I get to your new site? Thanks.
Zena
Posted by Mrs. C on October 29, 2004, at 23:08:45
In reply to Re: Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas » jlynne, posted by trucker on October 28, 2004, at 19:21:41
If I remember correctly, and I think I do, all of the yo yo's were trying to console Trucker in Jlynne's absence. Trucker was feeling like she did something to cause her to leave the site. But according to Trucker, the yo yo's are a click of women that excluded her from any comfort or friendship. Feelings were deeply hurt and we have joined a private site where we can all feel free to be who we are. I am happy with that. Mrs. C
Posted by jlynne on October 30, 2004, at 3:04:14
In reply to Re: Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas, posted by Mrs. C on October 29, 2004, at 23:08:45
Sometimes our emotions get mixed up with memories of past hurts and it is difficult to separate the experiences from the feelings. Things are said that really stem from those past injuries, and people are hurt. We are not all skilled in the art of language or propriety, but I have grown to know all of you through these posts, and I know in my heart that you are all very sensitive, loving people, without exception. It is my deepest hope that we can find a way to see past the exteriors and find it in our hearts to heal these wounds. Sometimes the ones who are shouting the loudest are the ones who are hurting the most. I will not take sides in this matter . . . I love you all.
. . . jlynne
Posted by Dr. Bob on October 30, 2004, at 3:55:13
In reply to Re: Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas, posted by Mrs. C on October 29, 2004, at 23:08:45
> according to Trucker, the yo yo's are a click of women that excluded her from any comfort or friendship.
Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused.
If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please see the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
Follow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
Posted by trucker on October 30, 2004, at 10:13:02
In reply to Re: Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas, posted by jlynne on October 30, 2004, at 3:04:14
hey jlynne.. hows that phone bill coming.. me i need a better plan.. if ya come up with one let me know.. as i could stand a break from making someone else rich... has st helens been doing her stuff again??? now i hear they are expecting rainer to blow her cookies too.. hear anything about that?? as to your post below.. i am behaving and trying to be a good person... i understand that i haven't cornered the market on the pain system.. and i do understand that people hurt and when they do they say things they don't really mean.. me too.. i hope we can all heal.. this is why i am still here.. i know people said things they were saying in pain.. this is why i never said anything about the lashing of "i should respect my baby more..." which was meant to cut deep but i saw it for what it was.. love ya jl and sista's.. i have been on this site for probably two years or more.. i not going anywhere hun....
trucker
//////////////////////////////////////////////////> Sometimes our emotions get mixed up with memories of past hurts and it is difficult to separate the experiences from the feelings. Things are said that really stem from those past injuries, and people are hurt. We are not all skilled in the art of language or propriety, but I have grown to know all of you through these posts, and I know in my heart that you are all very sensitive, loving people, without exception. It is my deepest hope that we can find a way to see past the exteriors and find it in our hearts to heal these wounds. Sometimes the ones who are shouting the loudest are the ones who are hurting the most. I will not take sides in this matter . . . I love you all.
>
> . . . jlynne
Posted by trucker on October 30, 2004, at 10:19:10
In reply to Re: Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas, posted by Mrs. C on October 29, 2004, at 23:08:45
when people are lashing out at me they are leaving some other poor sole alone.... please show me all the threads where you all were helping me... i seem to remember two posts in the last 6 months... support????
trucker
Posted by trucker on October 30, 2004, at 10:34:16
In reply to Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas, posted by jlynne on October 28, 2004, at 17:33:15
people just don't understand..
trucker////////////////////////////////////////////> Hey, I am still here, and I don't plan on leaving any time soon:~) It is unfortunate that some of our sistas felt the need to leave our thread (and babble). I think we have all found some comfort here, and I honestly believe that we can re-establish our bond, if we really want to.
>
> Even in "real life" families there are times when hurt feelings get in the way of healthy communication, but just as in "real life" families, I believe it is possible to heal the wounds and continue toward emotional growth.
>
> I love everyone I have met in here, and I would love to see all of us find our way back together for the sake of healing. These threads are, after all, the best place in the world to practice relationship skills.
>
> I am here for anyone who is willing to give it a try, and I appreciate how hard it will be to come back after such an emotional break. Please, keep this in mind . . . these boards were set up by a group of people who are objective and, for the most part uninvolved with our lives. We, on the other hand, are real people reaching out to other real people, and we all need to learn how to deal with life in a healthier way.
>
> I am willing to stretch my emotional boundaries, if that is what it takes to bring people back, and I hope that everyone who left will look inside and recognize that we all need a better way to handle our emotions. Let's talk, ok?
>
> I love you all.
>
> ((((sistas))))
>
> . . . jlynne
Posted by Newwife on October 30, 2004, at 16:14:34
In reply to Re: Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas, posted by Mrs. C on October 29, 2004, at 23:08:45
when do you get on the yo yo site. i never see you online. let me know the best time to catch you. i need to fill you in on some things. i hope all is well with you. i am GREAT, better then ever actually. thanks to our captain that set us up over there. shes awesome! write me back. hope all is well with all you galls!
Posted by Dr. Bob on October 30, 2004, at 18:06:04
In reply to Re: Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas, posted by trucker on October 30, 2004, at 10:34:16
> the lashing of "i should respect my baby more..." ... was meant to cut deep
> people just don't understand..
Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down or jump to conclusions about them.
If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please see the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
Follow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above posts, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
Posted by Mrs. C on October 30, 2004, at 21:24:30
In reply to Re: mrs c??????????????????????????????, posted by Newwife on October 30, 2004, at 16:14:34
Hey Newwife,
Sometimes I go there before work in the mornings. But mostly I am on the computer on weekend nights. Those are the best times for me. Once in a while I get on on week nights if I am not doing homework. I look forward to chatting with you soon. I am going over to the other site after I kiss my little ones goodnight. Maybe you will be there too. Mrs. C
Posted by Mrs. C on October 30, 2004, at 21:33:33
In reply to Re: Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas, posted by trucker on October 30, 2004, at 10:19:10
Trucker,
I am going to say this as gently as possible so as not to offend anyone else on the site. I will not go back to search previous posts looking for posts that supported you. I know that they are there. Perhaps you are just so deeply hurt inside that you are choosing not to remember how much support you received. I know that I personally posted many times trying to comfort you. I also remember everyone praying for you when your friend passed away and when you had the fire. We were there for you. I think that maybe sometimes when we are hurt we tend to forget the good things that our relationships with others gave us and instead we focus on what we didn't get out of them. Just a thought for you. Mrs. C
Posted by Mrs. C on October 30, 2004, at 21:43:42
In reply to Re: Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas, posted by jlynne on October 30, 2004, at 3:04:14
Jlynne, I agree with your thought that the ones shouting the loudest are hurting the most. But my friend, everyone who comes to this site is hurting in some way. We all came here for acceptance and understanding. It is unthinkable that we should resort to being so hurtful just because we ourselves are hurting. Yes, we all need to heal and forgive. Perhaps if we asked for forgiveness and sincerely believed that we were wrong then others would be more willing to compromise. I have been so blessed in my life and one of my blessings is being able to put myself in the shoes of another person and to see things from their side. However, I cannot, for any reason see the need to be so cruel. It shows the true colors of the human being behind the words. Mrs. C
Posted by sexylexy on October 30, 2004, at 21:56:48
In reply to Re: Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas, posted by Mrs. C on October 30, 2004, at 21:43:42
I hate fighting!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by Mrs. C on October 30, 2004, at 22:07:09
In reply to Re: Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas, posted by sexylexy on October 30, 2004, at 21:56:48
Me too! I think I am going to stop coming to this site. Every time I come here I read something that upsets me and I have to reply. I apologize. I am so glad that I found this site. It got me through many difficult nights and I made so many wonderful and caring friends. I look forward to keeping in touch with them and continuing our friendships but I cannot come here anymore. It just makes me mad and I don't like to be mad. Bye bye guys! Mrs. C
Posted by trucker on October 30, 2004, at 22:12:07
In reply to Re: Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas, posted by Mrs. C on October 30, 2004, at 21:43:42
if you are so happy and hate fighting, why are you posting to it..
trucker
Posted by trucker on October 30, 2004, at 22:36:55
In reply to Re: Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas, posted by trucker on October 30, 2004, at 22:12:07
hey did anyone see the looner eclispe the other night.. it was neat... does the moon really affect people?? does anyone know, perfect timing for holloween
trucker
Posted by Dr. Bob on October 30, 2004, at 23:00:34
In reply to Re: Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas, posted by Mrs. C on October 30, 2004, at 21:43:42
> I cannot, for any reason see the need to be so cruel. It shows the true colors of the human being behind the words.
Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down. I've asked you to be civil, so now I'm going to block you from posting for a week.
If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please see the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
Follow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
Posted by sexylexy on October 31, 2004, at 10:58:37
In reply to Re: Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas, posted by Mrs. C on October 30, 2004, at 22:07:09
Trucker,
I have never been anything but nice to you, and you too me as well. I am not sure why you are mad at me but its fine. I will continue to pray for you success and for everyone who has come to Dr. Bob wonder website for soliace. He and the people here have helpped me more than they could ever know. Thanks for everything and best of luck to everyone.
Lexy
Posted by trucker on October 31, 2004, at 12:12:20
In reply to Re: Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas, posted by sexylexy on October 31, 2004, at 10:58:37
i not mad lexy.. how are ya?? been super busy myself and enjoyning the creating with wool..
truicker
/////////////////////////////////////////////////> Trucker,
> I have never been anything but nice to you, and you too me as well. I am not sure why you are mad at me but its fine. I will continue to pray for you success and for everyone who has come to Dr. Bob wonder website for soliace. He and the people here have helpped me more than they could ever know. Thanks for everything and best of luck to everyone.
> Lexy
Posted by anxious babe on October 31, 2004, at 21:20:18
In reply to Re: Trucker, Lexy, Mrs C . . .Sistas, posted by trucker on October 31, 2004, at 12:12:20
Hey I just came back to this site to see if anything has changed...but guess what? It's the same ol crap since I left and I wonder why?????
Well to all of my yoyo sistas I will see you on our wonderful new site and I look forward to chatting with all of you soon.
This site is obviously not what it use to be and especially since Mystic is not posting anymore.
love anxious babe
Posted by Newwife on October 31, 2004, at 22:21:58
In reply to Re: checking in, posted by anxious babe on October 31, 2004, at 21:20:18
i agree. hope you are well. happy halloween! BOO!
Posted by Dr. Bob on October 31, 2004, at 22:51:11
In reply to Re: checking in, posted by anxious babe on October 31, 2004, at 21:20:18
> It's the same ol crap since I left
Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down.
If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please see the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
Follow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
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