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Posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 17:19:36
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone-mystic, posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 11:56:22
WHAT I MEANT WAS I LIKED NEW BRIDE BETTER!!!!!
trucker
////////////////////////////////////////////////////////> i dont understand truckers message to me, but it does not sit right with me. i am taking it like a put down and that is the last thing i need right now. i am pretty upset mystic.
Posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 17:52:50
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone-mystic, posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 17:19:36
thats all you had to say. i like newwife better. i did not understand the four letter thing. no big deal, forget it.
Posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 17:53:26
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone-trucker, posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 17:52:50
Posted by anxious babe on October 10, 2004, at 18:15:27
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone, posted by mystic on October 10, 2004, at 10:26:53
Hey guys,
I agree with Mystic and her earlier posts about not wanting to come on the boards and read about negativity. We should all be here for one another. This is a place where we should be able to come to feel safe and to get the support we need when we are feeling down or share a kind word when we are feeling good.
New Wife, I think your name is beautiful and it reflects who you are and that is a new wife. I loved being a new wife and 5 years later I still love being a wife, so don't let anyone get you down about that. What is a name anyway? Who cares what we call ourselves and please don't leave because of Dr. Bob - it is his job to monitor the boards and make sure that everything stays in control. I don't know what happened, but I don't want you to leave, please reconsider.
Lexy, are you feeling better. You make me worried when I know that you are not doing well and then I don't hear from you. We have to all agree that when we post that we are not doing well that we can't disappear and make everyone wonder what's going on. Jlynne, I am glad to hear that you are doing better and I hope it continues. Mrs. C must really not be feeling well because she hasn't posted at all. I think Mystic and I will have to call her at home and see what's going on. The last time she wrote me on my personal email was that she had a sinus infection plus bronchitis. Please say prayers for everyone on this board past and present who is having a hard time whether it be mentally or physically.
Come on yo-yo's let's stick together and be the way we use to be ((((strong)))). Everyone needs everyone on this board and we can all make a difference in each others life, whether it's just a word of advice or an ear to listen. We are all going to have our bad and good days and this is what this board is for....to either come here and vent or come here and share a positive attitude so we can help someone have a better day.
Mystic - love ya girl! what else can I say we are like to to peas in a pod.
Well I am done preaching and I hope this posts helps everyone. Love to all.
anxious babe
Posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 19:11:37
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone, posted by anxious babe on October 10, 2004, at 18:15:27
what can i say, you always know the right thing to say. thanks for the smile you brought to my face. i guess i have am having a rough couple of days. you guys are great, i love you all so much-jessica
Posted by mystic on October 10, 2004, at 19:22:38
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone--babe, posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 19:11:37
Hey girlfreind thanks for coming to your senses...and no more talk about leaving..thank you very much ahahahah...Your freind mystic
Posted by Mrs. C on October 10, 2004, at 20:06:59
In reply to Re: Belly weight gain » ednababish, posted by jlynne on October 8, 2004, at 11:33:05
Hey Yo Yo's! Good to see that the board has been busy! I was pretty sick this past week and did read the board at all. I am feeling alot better and it was nice to see that there were so many posts. I have not been able to go through all of them yet but I plan too. Lexy, I hope that you are doing better. Ali, I will pray for you dear and it was nice to see your post. Jlynne, Anxious and Mystic you guys are the greatest and I love reading your posts. I miss everyone terribly and I feel so left out! Boo Hoo to me. But I plan to get back into things now that I am feeling myself again. Love you all! Mrs. C
Posted by anxious babe on October 10, 2004, at 20:33:42
In reply to Hey everyone, posted by Mrs. C on October 10, 2004, at 20:06:59
Hey Mrs. C,
It's so good to have to you back! I am so glad that you are feeling better. So what's new with you. We miss you! I will catch up with you later. I hope you have a good day off tomorrow.
I love having Monday's off as I am sure everyone does. Well like I said it is so good to have you back and I will catch up with you later.
Love,
anxious babe
Posted by jlynne on October 10, 2004, at 20:47:13
In reply to Hey everyone, posted by Mrs. C on October 10, 2004, at 20:06:59
Soooooooooo good to see you are feeling better. We have missed you much! We will have to think about a "welcome back" party, eh? I don't know, though . . . your parties take a lot out of me; Al and I tangoed ALL NIGHT LONG! (LOL).
Welcome back sweetie!
(((Mrs. C)))
. . . jlynne
Posted by jlynne on October 10, 2004, at 20:47:53
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone--babe, posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 19:11:37
Posted by anxious babe on October 10, 2004, at 21:46:56
In reply to (((newwife))) (nm), posted by jlynne on October 10, 2004, at 20:47:53
Well I am struggling with the Lexapro weight gain.....does anyone have any advice.
I don't know what I want to do - get off the lex and be anxious but thinner and happier or stay on the lex and risk gaining more and more weight.
I have been on the lex since March of this year and have already gained 12 pounds. When does it stop? or does it. The weight gain is starting to consume my every thought, but not enough to really do something about it. It is so weird this feeling. It's like a lack of motivation to really get serious.
Does anyone else feel this way. Any advice please!!
Anxious babe
Posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 22:35:57
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone, posted by anxious babe on October 10, 2004, at 18:15:27
now you see why trucker doesn't post... cause no one is there for me.. and i get road about being negative... maybe that is why i don't post. can't be bright and cheery all the time
trucker
Posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 22:45:58
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone-trucker, posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 17:52:50
it was a joke he he.. i guess you people don't want me around cause you weren't here for me when i was weaning down from lex, missing my best friend who wouldn't talk, and selling and buying a house too...yet you are quick to jump on me about somethng you should have understood..seems like everything here is one sided and selfish...enjoy
trucker
///////////////////////////////////////////////// > thats all you had to say. i like newwife better. i did not understand the four letter thing. no big deal, forget it.
Posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 22:47:10
In reply to RE:: i am not a bride anymore. i am a wife. :) (nm), posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 17:53:26
WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE??????????????????????
trucker
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Posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 22:51:32
In reply to Re: where is Trucker, posted by Mrs. C on September 27, 2004, at 21:15:34
when i do post i get jumped so don't worry it won't happen again
trucker
/////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////> Trucker, I hope that things are okay with you. I am very worried that you haven't posted and I pray that you are in a good place. But I fear that you are not and that you are hurting and alone. Please come back to post and let me know how you are. Mrs. C
Posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 22:52:59
In reply to RE:: i am not a bride anymore. i am a wife. :), posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 22:47:10
why the heck are you being so rude? in my opinion i was a bride on my wedding day, now i am a wife. nobody was jumping on you. i hardly know you and maybe i took what you wrote out of context,but i know i didnt when read your most recent posts. i was not aware that you were having problems, and i would have been more then happy to be a friend during that time. i was never given the chance. i am so sorry you feel sad and mad and whatever else. i just sensed some sarcasm and anger in your post. i am sorry you felt ganged up on. i never meant for it to be like that. i am not that type of person. sorry if you felt that way. i hope you are ok now, if not i will be glad to talk about it, or should i say write about it. hee hee.--jess
Posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 22:58:31
In reply to Re: where is Trucker » Mrs. C, posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 22:51:32
maybe you shouldnt if you are so mad
Posted by jlynne on October 10, 2004, at 23:22:12
In reply to Re: where is Trucker » Mrs. C, posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 22:51:32
Posted by verne on October 11, 2004, at 9:32:26
In reply to Re: where is Trucker » Mrs. C, posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 22:51:32
Trucker,
I don't post much on the social board. I have a hard time connecting to people cyberly. Anyway, I carefully read this entire thread and, believe me, you didn't do anything remotely wrong.
If anything, you were being good-natured and I guess it was misunderstood. I hope you keep posting as long as it helps you.
verne
Posted by ednababish on October 11, 2004, at 10:17:51
In reply to Re: struggling with the weight gain, posted by anxious babe on October 10, 2004, at 21:46:56
New Wife,
Try cutting back, or altogether cutting out, one indulgence--for me it's been lattes. Instead I take my coffee, mix it with some milk, and heat it in saucepan. Same creamy taste, 1/3 the calories. I also cut breads--and replaced with yogurt, low sodium soups, and cottage cheese to get the calcium and fiber and protein needed w/o wasting calories on high-fructose corn syrup and partially-hydrogenated fats. I try to avoid any breads with these two ingredients. And start walking--it will ease you into a fitness routine that you could live with. Plus, there's the added bonus of getting to see first-hand and regularly how crazy your neighbors are.
Good luck,
Edna Babish
Posted by trucker on October 11, 2004, at 10:41:42
In reply to Re: where is Trucker, posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 22:58:31
may be you should read the post.. i said new bride was romantic sounding!!!!!!!!!!!!! wife isn't.... take your meds
trucker
//////////////////////////////////////////////////////> maybe you shouldnt if you are so mad
Posted by mystic on October 11, 2004, at 11:04:28
In reply to Re: where is Trucker, posted by trucker on October 11, 2004, at 10:41:42
Wow trucker that last post was really really uncalled for and really mean..how could you say that to someone "take your meds" wow I just dont know what to say...For one I'm definately done on this post this is out of control...
Best of everything to everyone...I"M DONE!!!!>>mystic
Posted by sexylexy on October 11, 2004, at 11:28:52
In reply to RE::: Trucker, posted by mystic on October 11, 2004, at 11:04:28
Hey Ya'll,
Lets remember that we are on internet posting and we are all dealing with horrible mental illness. Its hard to understand what "tone" someone is speaking in when they are writing on the internet also, sometimes our sad thoughts and feelings make us lash out at the ones we love and turn to for support.
We all need to band together to defeat these diseases that are holding us down. We are much better together than alone. If someone needs to post negitive thoughts or feelings, this is a supportive and healthy place to get them out.
Remember above all that each of us has thanked God for all of the wonderful people we have met on this board. I know I do each night, I know that I would not have made it as far as I have without your love and support.
Just my two cents!
Lexy
Posted by trucker on October 11, 2004, at 12:20:13
In reply to Re: where is Trucker » trucker, posted by verne on October 11, 2004, at 9:32:26
i noticed there is pleanty of support for the oh i am gaining weight, and i think i may switch meds cause of the weight.. but when it came to me weaning off the meds, crying over my friend not having time for me, and the selling and buying of my house you all had pleanty to say about that belly thing, but nothing to say about my broken heart and no support for the most stressful part of my life, the buying and selling of my house.. not to mention the bankrupsty, forced buy the death of my unborn baby. that i carried to term and still am being torchered over years later.. this is why the house, i love has to be sold.. not bad enought i have a grave, instead of a birthday to celebrtate. then i have to loose my house too. and GOD knows what else.... gee i think a dead baby and the loosing of a house and a bankruptcy, caus e i am in no condition to work, is a little more important than that little belly buldge.
trucker
//////////////////////////////////////////////////> Trucker,
>
> I don't post much on the social board. I have a hard time connecting to people cyberly. Anyway, I carefully read this entire thread and, believe me, you didn't do anything remotely wrong.
>
> If anything, you were being good-natured and I guess it was misunderstood. I hope you keep posting as long as it helps you.
>
> verne
Posted by mystic on October 11, 2004, at 12:42:12
In reply to Re: where is Trucker, posted by trucker on October 11, 2004, at 12:20:13
Please trucker have some respect for your still born baby and not refer to he/she as a dead baby!!!!!!..that is sooo disrespectful...We did have time for you..I have posted many times asking how you are doing and about the house and comforting you when jlynne was too sick to help you...I have been there asking about the house and the sale of the house and sent you e-mails as to the death of a close friend...you need to go back and read because I HAVE BEEN THERE FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.....I DONT WANT TO HEAR IT ANYMORE..I have tried again and again and either you didnt write or you disappeared ..and when people are disappearing they are given their space and it has always been known ALWAYS..that we are all here for one another no matter what...!@!!...without having to say it everyday when someone is not responding!!!!!!!!!!!!!....I couldnt be any more mad than i am right now and this has got to stop....
I'm so sorry trucker that you have had to endure my complaining about belly weight..and my problems with my meds and I remember us going over your decision to go on the grapefruit diet and we all tried to help you with that and you just ended up fighting with everyone...so we have been there for you....You cannot help someone that doesnt want to be helped....
There is no reason to respond to this as I will not now or ever read these posts again...and I'm sure that Dr bob will not be pleased with this post...but to have you trash everyone for the things that they didnt do is an injustice to every kind loving sharing person on this post the people that i'm proud to call my friends and for the people that you shouldve called yours also...
I'm not like this and I have to tell you I couldnt be more ashamed of myself today for giving into this but didnt know what else to do...Good bye good luck and god bless...I hope that you got the response you were looking for it is alllll yours.....Mystic
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