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Posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 18:12:31
I was thinking. If you post something and have, say, 10 replies, is it necessary to post a reply to all 10 of those replies? In doing so, that means that you have 10 straight posts from yourself that may or may not say the exact same thing. I, with the faulty memory, may be contradicting myself, on accident of course. And it isn't as though I don't appreciate the suppport from everyone here, but the thought just occurred to me that those posters that I happen to skip may feel left out. So, Medusa, Queen of Etiquette, could you tell me the correct solution to this problem? And of course other people with proper (or even impropper) manners should feel free to reply as well(and is this line really necessary? I mean, I always poke my head in, even when not invited, doesn't everyone else?). I just hate seeing myself posting 30 times in a row. And I also hate skipping over people. And I really hate typing the same thing over and over again. Sometimes I'll type 3 or 4 different names in the subject line and that works. But what I really hate is cooking dinner. Any suggestions for that while I'm asking these tough questions? Any advice before I finish up the task I have on Psychobabble? I'm holding off until then...
Posted by jlynne on March 24, 2004, at 18:27:47
In reply to Babble Etiquette, posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 18:12:31
. . . chunk up some chicken breasts, season lightly with salt, pour a bottle of Classico Sun-dried Tomato Alfredo sauce over it (in a baking dish), bake at 375 degrees for half-hour to 45 mins; serve over noodles or rice.
As for the etiquette - how about "Thank you to everyone" for the subject line? Then everyone can read your update??
[now let's hope you read this before Dr. Bob re-directs it!] LOL ...jlynne
Posted by Fallen4myT on March 24, 2004, at 18:36:42
In reply to Babble Etiquette, posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 18:12:31
My personal opinion is to NOT check add name of previous poster if you are not prepared to take the time to respond to all posts in the same manner.
Posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 19:11:17
In reply to Re: Babble Etiquette, posted by Fallen4myT on March 24, 2004, at 18:36:42
Ok, now I don't follow that one... I just meant if you start a thread and receive numerous replies with similar answers, should you then be required to respond to all of the replies? Take now for instance, I just hate seeing my name twice in a row. It somehow reminds me that perhaps I should be doing something else, so I'm making 2, 2, 2 replies in one..... So, also Jlynne... That dinner sounds great.. Will you also cook it? And thanks for the suggestion. It didn't work this time because I had a question, but I'll try it out next time and I'll try to give you credit. Unless I forget your name, then I'll give someone else credit. But, believe me, there have been far worse times in the past when I have called out the wrong name.... Thanks again!
Posted by EmmyS on March 24, 2004, at 20:35:37
In reply to Re: Babble Etiquette » Karen_kay, posted by jlynne on March 24, 2004, at 18:27:47
Hi jlynne. I'm Emmy. I don't think we've met. Could you make that same dish with tofu please? I'm quite hungry.
I think Bob would only redirect this if he opens a Cooking Board, and that is highly doubtful....although you never know.
Take care.
Emmy
Posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 20:54:52
In reply to Re: Babble Etiquette » jlynne, posted by EmmyS on March 24, 2004, at 20:35:37
Now Emmy, this particular post could be redirected to admin if you are suggesting he open a Cooking board. I'm a stickler for civility and rules, you know? :) How are you doing hun?
Posted by EmmyS on March 24, 2004, at 21:18:51
In reply to Re: Babble Etiquette » EmmyS, posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 20:54:52
How am I? How am I? I'm...I'm....A skew. Miss Aligned. My brain needs adjusting. Ya know?
Em
Posted by All Done on March 24, 2004, at 21:36:59
In reply to Babble Etiquette, posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 18:12:31
Posted by All Done on March 24, 2004, at 21:37:25
In reply to Babble Etiquette, posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 18:12:31
Posted by All Done on March 24, 2004, at 21:37:55
In reply to Babble Etiquette, posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 18:12:31
Posted by All Done on March 24, 2004, at 21:38:28
In reply to Babble Etiquette, posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 18:12:31
Posted by All Done on March 24, 2004, at 21:38:54
In reply to Babble Etiquette, posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 18:12:31
Posted by All Done on March 24, 2004, at 21:39:25
In reply to Babble Etiquette, posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 18:12:31
Posted by All Done on March 24, 2004, at 21:39:49
In reply to Babble Etiquette, posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 18:12:31
Posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 21:43:36
In reply to Re: Babble Etiquette » Karen_kay, posted by EmmyS on March 24, 2004, at 21:18:51
You think you're discombobulated? Did you see All Done's post? (And my word of the day, btw...) At least you aren't posting 10 times in a row like she is.. When that begins to happen, then check back in... If you need to chat, let me know dear... take care. kk
Posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 21:44:07
In reply to individually (nm) » Karen_kay, posted by All Done on March 24, 2004, at 21:38:54
Posted by All Done on March 24, 2004, at 21:56:54
In reply to What's your deal, pickle? (nm) » All Done, posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 21:44:07
I just wanted you to see my name posted a bunch of times in a row. I know how you like that.
To be honest, though, I actually find myself in the same, ahem, pickle when I get a lot of responses. (Why pickle, anyway?) Sometimes, especially if it's a tough issue or I'm having a tough time, I will do one group response. I think that's okay, but you did a wonderful job on Psychological. Even though you see your name a bunch of times in a row, I know everyone is as pleased as punch to get an individual response from you!
Didn't kid say he was making dinner for you tonight, anyway? Frozen pizza or something like that?
Posted by jlynne on March 24, 2004, at 23:03:35
In reply to Re: Babble Etiquette » jlynne, posted by EmmyS on March 24, 2004, at 20:35:37
> I think Bob would only redirect this if he opens a Cooking Board, and that is highly doubtful....although you never know.
Hi, Emmy.
[...um, er, uh ... I actually thought I was on the Babble board till right after I pushed the button to confirm:~o]
I've been skipping around waiting for my gang to change their topic - they're all talking about periods and PMS . . . and I'm all through with that, so I haven't had anything to input for awhile.
This seems to be a lively group, here!
About the tofu question - the sun-dried tomato sauce is good on ANYTHING.
((Smiles)) ...jlynne
Posted by All Done on March 24, 2004, at 23:09:49
In reply to Re: Babble Etiquette, posted by jlynne on March 24, 2004, at 23:03:35
Hi, jylnne!
I just want to say welcome and it's nice to have you here!
Take care,
All Done
Posted by jlynne on March 24, 2004, at 23:28:52
In reply to Re: Babble Etiquette » jlynne, posted by All Done on March 24, 2004, at 23:09:49
> Hi, jylnne!
>
> I just want to say welcome and it's nice to have you here!
>
> Take care,
> All DoneThanks, AD. I don't know if I can keep up with you guys, though!
...jlynne
Posted by Fallen4myT on March 24, 2004, at 23:40:04
In reply to Babble Etiquette, posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 18:12:31
Karen I did read your post and understand that you may end up repeating yourself BUT you asked for relies to your question. I just think its proper to reply to all OR make a genreral reply with NO NAMES CHECKED...By doing that you will avoid hurt feelings and that pesky repeating replies for YOU also. I have seen people post and add the previous posters names to 4 out of 5 replies and not reply or acknowledge the 1 poster as if they had not taken the same time the others did and that is rude *in my opinion*. I imagine if I were that person I would not like that..Think how you would feel if everyone from tomorrow on did not acknowledge your posts to them? Even when you change the subject line to get their attention? Face it, it would be hurtful. I make a point myself to answer all or wait and make a general statement to all NO NAMES CHECKED if I don't want to reply to all. Your a smart lady you can reword the same old same old OR not check names. I do not start many threads but if I did..I think I would avoid checking names to avoid this issue..Hope this helps.
Posted by Elle2021 on March 25, 2004, at 1:19:03
In reply to Babble Etiquette, posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 18:12:31
Karen,
I don't think it's necessary to post a note to each specific person. Posting a general "thank you" seems to be sufficient to me. That is what I do. However, if someone has posted something that I want to discuss in depth, then I do post something to that person. I'm thankful for any and all advice I get. Another thing I want to mention is that sometimes I'm not in the best mental state to post anything at all. I hope that people understand I am still thankful, even when I forget or am unable to say so.
Elle
Posted by Karen_kay on March 25, 2004, at 23:01:21
In reply to Sweet not dill, right? » Karen_kay, posted by All Done on March 24, 2004, at 21:56:54
I'll stick with the plan to continue posting numerous replies in a row. My biggest problem is that I become easily distracted and tend to slide away from my orignal post rather quickly. Then I feel bad for not responding, and it appears I have no manners. Who me, no manners? What?
As for dinner.... Kid doesn't fix me dinner. We frequently skip dinner and head straight to the laundry room to tackle the pesky task at hand... Bet you didn't expect that one, did you? Ha! I'm full of surprises!
Posted by Karen_kay on March 25, 2004, at 23:05:11
In reply to Re: Babble Etiquette, posted by jlynne on March 24, 2004, at 23:03:35
I must say, All Done's been called quite a few things in the past but lively sure isn't one of them. Stick with us for a while and I'm sure you'll learn a few tricks. But I must warn you, we rarely talk about PMS. I do think that All Done's already been through her cycle. I think she's around 123 years old. But she gripes like a teenager..... You seem to fit in fine, jsut keep throwing those cooking tips kid's way so he can fix me some grub...
Posted by Karen_kay on March 25, 2004, at 23:25:15
In reply to Re: Babble Etiquette/ORIGINAL QUESTION » Karen_kay, posted by Fallen4myT on March 24, 2004, at 23:40:04
Now I understand. Thanks for explaining. Sometimes people have to say the exact same thing to me several different ways before I can understand what they are saying. As All Done requently says, I'm a bit slow at times. I've decided to just go ahead and tough it out. I just think my biggest problem is that I get easily distracted and tend to move on quickly. I like to jump around and then several days or weeks later see that I've neglected someone. I'll try to be better, promise! :)
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