Psycho-Babble Social Thread 284928

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calling Larry Hoover***Lar, you-who.............yo

Posted by Jai Narayan on November 29, 2003, at 7:57:59

Lar,
olly, olly in free I oh.....where did you go? Are you all right? Miss you.
ps my name is slightly changed...my computer had a fit and I lost some stuff and couldn't get back on and here I am with more of my name showing to the public....I love the name.
hope to hear from you.
*+*
Jai

 

all right Larry forget it. no more. I will stop. (nm)

Posted by Jai Narayan on November 29, 2003, at 18:41:18

In reply to calling Larry Hoover***Lar, you-who.............yo, posted by Jai Narayan on November 29, 2003, at 7:57:59

 

Re: all right Larry forget it. no more. I will stop. » Jai Narayan

Posted by Larry Hoover on November 30, 2003, at 7:20:02

In reply to all right Larry forget it. no more. I will stop. (nm), posted by Jai Narayan on November 29, 2003, at 18:41:18

What's up Jai? Did I do something wrong?

Whatever.

Lar

 

I was hurt cuz you didn't play with me.....peace?

Posted by Jai Narayan on November 30, 2003, at 7:55:20

In reply to Re: all right Larry forget it. no more. I will stop. » Jai Narayan, posted by Larry Hoover on November 30, 2003, at 7:20:02

> What's up Jai? Did I do something wrong?

No I thought I did and that's why you were not responding to my playful invitations. I thought I had found a person I could be silly with...I can learn how to do this.
>
> Whatever.
I guess I am so new to this that I don't know the flow and ebb.
>
> Lar
Sorry Larry
Peace?
Jai

 

vulnerable answer

Posted by Jai Narayan on November 30, 2003, at 9:11:57

In reply to Re: all right Larry forget it. no more. I will stop. » Jai Narayan, posted by Larry Hoover on November 30, 2003, at 7:20:02

> What's up Jai? Did I do something wrong?
>
Dear Larry, I like you. I was sad that you didn't answer my posting. I missed your input on the site. I was excited by our connection, maybe too much so. You have caught my imagination and attention and I wanted the exploring to continue but when you said you were tired and then dissapeared well I got sad. I reverted to being a child with you, it was so sweet and open. but your door seemed closed. I may be all wet and wrong but it looked like a closed door.
> Whatever.
I am confused by the whatever...what does that really mean? It sounds so flat.
>
> Lar
I want to stay friends...I want to stay connected. I miss you.
Jai Narayan

 

Re: vulnerable answer » Jai Narayan

Posted by Larry Hoover on November 30, 2003, at 11:38:29

In reply to vulnerable answer, posted by Jai Narayan on November 30, 2003, at 9:11:57

I'm gonna lump these together..

> > What's up Jai? Did I do something wrong?

> No I thought I did and that's why you were not responding to my playful invitations.

An invitation is just that....I don't feel chatty. I don't feel silly.

> I thought I had found a person I could be silly with...I can learn how to do this.

Sometimes, I guess.

> > Whatever.

> I guess I am so new to this that I don't know the flow and ebb.

The reason I like this environment is that I have control over my degree of interaction. That's about me.

> Sorry Larry

What for?

> Peace?

Sure.


> Dear Larry, I like you. I was sad that you didn't answer my posting. I missed your input on the site. I was excited by our connection, maybe too much so. You have caught my imagination and attention and I wanted the exploring to continue but when you said you were tired and then dissapeared well I got sad.

Please respect my non-response as a response. That's all. I'm glad you missed me. I'm glad you like me. That other guy will be back, eventually.

> I reverted to being a child with you, it was so sweet and open. but your door seemed closed. I may be all wet and wrong but it looked like a closed door.

I'm not answering the knock on the door.

> > Whatever.
> I am confused by the whatever...what does that really mean? It sounds so flat.

It is.

> > Lar
> I want to stay friends...I want to stay connected. I miss you.
> Jai Narayan

Fine. But it has to be on my terms too.

Lar

 

yup, it's a deal..thanks for responding (nm)

Posted by Jai Narayan on November 30, 2003, at 11:47:20

In reply to Re: vulnerable answer » Jai Narayan, posted by Larry Hoover on November 30, 2003, at 11:38:29

 

A great example of communication and boundaries (nm)

Posted by fallsfall on November 30, 2003, at 12:32:49

In reply to yup, it's a deal..thanks for responding (nm), posted by Jai Narayan on November 30, 2003, at 11:47:20

 

Re: vulnerable answer » Larry Hoover

Posted by Elle2021 on November 30, 2003, at 22:01:34

In reply to Re: vulnerable answer » Jai Narayan, posted by Larry Hoover on November 30, 2003, at 11:38:29

Oh Lars,
You sound depressed, I hope your doing well.
Elle

> I'm gonna lump these together..
>
> > > What's up Jai? Did I do something wrong?
>
> > No I thought I did and that's why you were not responding to my playful invitations.
>
> An invitation is just that....I don't feel chatty. I don't feel silly.
>
> > I thought I had found a person I could be silly with...I can learn how to do this.
>
> Sometimes, I guess.
>
> > > Whatever.
>
> > I guess I am so new to this that I don't know the flow and ebb.
>
> The reason I like this environment is that I have control over my degree of interaction. That's about me.
>
> > Sorry Larry
>
> What for?
>
> > Peace?
>
> Sure.
>
>
> > Dear Larry, I like you. I was sad that you didn't answer my posting. I missed your input on the site. I was excited by our connection, maybe too much so. You have caught my imagination and attention and I wanted the exploring to continue but when you said you were tired and then dissapeared well I got sad.
>
> Please respect my non-response as a response. That's all. I'm glad you missed me. I'm glad you like me. That other guy will be back, eventually.
>
> > I reverted to being a child with you, it was so sweet and open. but your door seemed closed. I may be all wet and wrong but it looked like a closed door.
>
> I'm not answering the knock on the door.
>
> > > Whatever.
> > I am confused by the whatever...what does that really mean? It sounds so flat.
>
> It is.
>
> > > Lar
> > I want to stay friends...I want to stay connected. I miss you.
> > Jai Narayan
>
> Fine. But it has to be on my terms too.
>
> Lar

 

Re: yup, it's a deal..thanks for responding » Jai Narayan

Posted by Larry Hoover on December 1, 2003, at 6:57:34

In reply to yup, it's a deal..thanks for responding (nm), posted by Jai Narayan on November 30, 2003, at 11:47:20

I hope I wasn't boorish....

Anyway, I overlooked one of your posts on alternative....I've answered it now.

Lar

 

Re: vulnerable answer » Elle2021

Posted by Larry Hoover on December 1, 2003, at 6:59:08

In reply to Re: vulnerable answer » Larry Hoover, posted by Elle2021 on November 30, 2003, at 22:01:34

> Oh Lars,
> You sound depressed, I hope your doing well.
> Elle

I hesitate to say depressed....I'm exhausted. I have other medical problems, aside from depression.

Thanks for your concern...I hope to bounce back before too long.

Lar

 

I'm your friend, Lar

Posted by Jai Narayan on December 1, 2003, at 7:22:32

In reply to Re: yup, it's a deal..thanks for responding » Jai Narayan, posted by Larry Hoover on December 1, 2003, at 6:57:34

> I hope I wasn't boorish....
>
If I felt as tired as you do I'm not sure how I would have been able to muster all the energy to respond. I still like you Larry, I will always like you. You have won my heart.
> Anyway, I overlooked one of your posts on alternative....I've answered it now.
>
You don't need to do that Lar. But thank you so much. If there's anything I can do at all, I'm here.

Yours
Jai Narayan

 

Re: vulnerable answer » Larry Hoover

Posted by EscherDementian on December 2, 2003, at 20:13:03

In reply to Re: vulnerable answer » Elle2021, posted by Larry Hoover on December 1, 2003, at 6:59:08

Hej friend, you ok?

"exhausted"? We must be twins this week... :)
(Tho' i'm a tad depressed to go with my exhaustion)
Is there anything i can do for you? Your assistance and words of encouragement for me meant much~ not too long ago...

Would one of my dumb ol' physics puns cheer you?
Been writing sad cynical mobius poetry, but it would cheer me to cheer a friend...

Take care
Escher

 

Re: vulnerable answer » EscherDementian

Posted by Larry Hoover on December 4, 2003, at 7:21:02

In reply to Re: vulnerable answer » Larry Hoover, posted by EscherDementian on December 2, 2003, at 20:13:03

> Hej friend, you ok?

Ya, this is routine.

I attribute this current "episode" to my chronic fatigue syndrome....I need restorative sleep, balanced with the right amount of exertion/down time, to maximize my functioning. My sleep deteriorated back in September, and remains screwed up. The cumulative effect of that produces a slump. Been there. Done that. Got the the t-shirt.

> "exhausted"? We must be twins this week... :)

I'm sorry to hear....

> (Tho' i'm a tad depressed to go with my exhaustion)
> Is there anything i can do for you? Your assistance and words of encouragement for me meant much~ not too long ago...

You did already. Thanks.

> Would one of my dumb ol' physics puns cheer you?

Sure....bring it on.

> Been writing sad cynical mobius poetry, but it would cheer me to cheer a friend...
>
> Take care
> Escher

You did. Thanks.

Take care of you,
Lar


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