Psycho-Babble Social Thread 270315

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I have good news!

Posted by fallsfall on October 17, 2003, at 16:44:32

Finally! Good news!

I have been volunteering at my local library since early September. I go about 5 hours a week. I put new children's books into the catalog and do some computer stuff.

5 years ago when I was starting to feel better from my first depression I volunteered there and then was hired as a part time children's librarian. It was a great place to work. When I got better enough, I got a full time job as a Software Engineer.

So, now they have a 10 hour/week paid opening at the library. I submitted my resume, and the Library Director told me today that as long as my references and background check come out OK that I get the job!!! (Why we have to do references and background check since I worked there before and volunteer there now neither one of us can figure out, but I will jump through the hoops)

I could always volunteer 10 hours, but it is a little different when it is a real job. When you get paid you can't just decide that you don't want to show up a lot - so it requires more commitment. You also get a different attitude from the staff - they aren't as indebted to you because, after all, now you are getting paid. And if you do something wrong they can get mad, whereas if a volunteer does things wrong (after reasonable training), they tend to just give that kind of work to a different volunteer.

I'll be doing the same kinds of things I do as a volunteer, plus running the desk sometimes and shelving and whatever else they want me to do.

It is such a wonderful place to work. 99% of the people who come to the library are really nice people. I like the other staff. Libraries are very orderly (well, probably not as orderly as you think), and that is good for perfectionistic people like me.

Now I just have to hope that therapy is not so taxing that I can't find the energy to give it 10 hours a week. I told my therapist that in a week like this was, that I wouldn't be able to put in 10 hours. He may have to push a little less (though I like the amount of progress we can make when he pushes). We'll have to see how it goes. And if I can't do the 10 hours, they can advertise the position (which they didn't do this time because I expressed interest), and I can go back to volunteering. That would be OK, and the library staff wouldn't think badly of me if that happened.

Finally, a win-win situation!

 

Re: I have good news!

Posted by Tabitha on October 17, 2003, at 17:32:08

In reply to I have good news!, posted by fallsfall on October 17, 2003, at 16:44:32

Congratulations, falls. It sounds like a nearly perfect part-time job. Quiet, surrounded by books and readers, a cross-section of humanity, and you get a paycheck. Good going.

 

Re: I have good news! » fallsfall

Posted by Ayla on October 17, 2003, at 17:36:29

In reply to I have good news!, posted by fallsfall on October 17, 2003, at 16:44:32

Yay!!! Way to go Falls!!! I am sooo happy for you how exciting! Well I just thought a big congratulations was in order so CONGRATULATIONS!!
I hope that you do well and enjoy yourself.
Ayla

 

Re: Hooray! Hooray! Hooray! » fallsfall

Posted by Dinah on October 17, 2003, at 17:38:36

In reply to I have good news!, posted by fallsfall on October 17, 2003, at 16:44:32

I know you can do it. And I know you enjoy doing it.

You've got me wanting to work in a lobrary. :)

 

congrats fallsfall! give it your best shot! yaay (nm) » fallsfall

Posted by octopusprime on October 17, 2003, at 20:35:15

In reply to I have good news!, posted by fallsfall on October 17, 2003, at 16:44:32

 

Re: I have good news! » fallsfall

Posted by HannahW on October 17, 2003, at 20:43:07

In reply to I have good news!, posted by fallsfall on October 17, 2003, at 16:44:32

Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful! Even more people (library staff) proclaiming they love you out loud! How can they help themselves? It's a wonderful testimony to your work and your personality. They got to try you out first, and they STILL wanted you!

I'm going to be a software engineer when I grow up, too! How cool are we? :)

Hannah

> Finally! Good news!
>
> I have been volunteering at my local library since early September. I go about 5 hours a week. I put new children's books into the catalog and do some computer stuff.
>
> 5 years ago when I was starting to feel better from my first depression I volunteered there and then was hired as a part time children's librarian. It was a great place to work. When I got better enough, I got a full time job as a Software Engineer.
>
> So, now they have a 10 hour/week paid opening at the library. I submitted my resume, and the Library Director told me today that as long as my references and background check come out OK that I get the job!!! (Why we have to do references and background check since I worked there before and volunteer there now neither one of us can figure out, but I will jump through the hoops)
>
> I could always volunteer 10 hours, but it is a little different when it is a real job. When you get paid you can't just decide that you don't want to show up a lot - so it requires more commitment. You also get a different attitude from the staff - they aren't as indebted to you because, after all, now you are getting paid. And if you do something wrong they can get mad, whereas if a volunteer does things wrong (after reasonable training), they tend to just give that kind of work to a different volunteer.
>
> I'll be doing the same kinds of things I do as a volunteer, plus running the desk sometimes and shelving and whatever else they want me to do.
>
> It is such a wonderful place to work. 99% of the people who come to the library are really nice people. I like the other staff. Libraries are very orderly (well, probably not as orderly as you think), and that is good for perfectionistic people like me.
>
> Now I just have to hope that therapy is not so taxing that I can't find the energy to give it 10 hours a week. I told my therapist that in a week like this was, that I wouldn't be able to put in 10 hours. He may have to push a little less (though I like the amount of progress we can make when he pushes). We'll have to see how it goes. And if I can't do the 10 hours, they can advertise the position (which they didn't do this time because I expressed interest), and I can go back to volunteering. That would be OK, and the library staff wouldn't think badly of me if that happened.
>
> Finally, a win-win situation!

 

Re: I have good news! » fallsfall

Posted by Emme on October 18, 2003, at 9:15:39

In reply to I have good news!, posted by fallsfall on October 17, 2003, at 16:44:32

That's great! They like you. You like them. It sounds like this could be really enjoyable. Have fun!

Emme

 

Thanks all! 8^) (nm)

Posted by fallsfall on October 18, 2003, at 15:00:11

In reply to Re: I have good news! » fallsfall, posted by Emme on October 18, 2003, at 9:15:39

 

Re: I have good news! » fallsfall

Posted by noa on October 19, 2003, at 11:19:30

In reply to I have good news!, posted by fallsfall on October 17, 2003, at 16:44:32

Congratulations! That's great!

I hope it works out. It sounds like a great job for you, since you know you enjoy it. Libraries are great.

Maybe working can take your mind OFF the drain of therapy sometimes?

Best of luck.

 

((((((((((falls))))))))) ! » fallsfall

Posted by Adia on October 19, 2003, at 15:52:24

In reply to I have good news!, posted by fallsfall on October 17, 2003, at 16:44:32

Dear Fallsfall,

I am so happy for you!!! Congratulations!!!! That´s wonderful news. You deserve it!!!
I am sure your therapist will help you so it gets a little easier too.
Sending you lots of support and hugs,
Adia.


> Finally! Good news!
>
> I have been volunteering at my local library since early September. I go about 5 hours a week. I put new children's books into the catalog and do some computer stuff.
>
> 5 years ago when I was starting to feel better from my first depression I volunteered there and then was hired as a part time children's librarian. It was a great place to work. When I got better enough, I got a full time job as a Software Engineer.
>
> So, now they have a 10 hour/week paid opening at the library. I submitted my resume, and the Library Director told me today that as long as my references and background check come out OK that I get the job!!! (Why we have to do references and background check since I worked there before and volunteer there now neither one of us can figure out, but I will jump through the hoops)
>
> I could always volunteer 10 hours, but it is a little different when it is a real job. When you get paid you can't just decide that you don't want to show up a lot - so it requires more commitment. You also get a different attitude from the staff - they aren't as indebted to you because, after all, now you are getting paid. And if you do something wrong they can get mad, whereas if a volunteer does things wrong (after reasonable training), they tend to just give that kind of work to a different volunteer.
>
> I'll be doing the same kinds of things I do as a volunteer, plus running the desk sometimes and shelving and whatever else they want me to do.
>
> It is such a wonderful place to work. 99% of the people who come to the library are really nice people. I like the other staff. Libraries are very orderly (well, probably not as orderly as you think), and that is good for perfectionistic people like me.
>
> Now I just have to hope that therapy is not so taxing that I can't find the energy to give it 10 hours a week. I told my therapist that in a week like this was, that I wouldn't be able to put in 10 hours. He may have to push a little less (though I like the amount of progress we can make when he pushes). We'll have to see how it goes. And if I can't do the 10 hours, they can advertise the position (which they didn't do this time because I expressed interest), and I can go back to volunteering. That would be OK, and the library staff wouldn't think badly of me if that happened.
>
> Finally, a win-win situation!


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