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Posted by tina on December 19, 2002, at 10:17:44
won't be back here again. I've learned my lesson. keeping mouth shut. point taken.
good luck to everyone. I hope 2003 is what you want it to be.
Posted by NikkiT2 on December 19, 2002, at 10:55:37
In reply to Done enough, posted by tina on December 19, 2002, at 10:17:44
Its good to hear from you...
I don't understand what this post is about??? Where has anyone told you to stop opsting or what ever???
Nikki
Posted by Mikhail99 on December 19, 2002, at 11:33:49
In reply to Done enough, posted by tina on December 19, 2002, at 10:17:44
> won't be back here again. I've learned my lesson. keeping mouth shut. point taken.
> good luck to everyone. I hope 2003 is what you want it to be.
Tina, what happened? Please let us know!
Posted by Dinah on December 19, 2002, at 12:21:57
In reply to Done enough, posted by tina on December 19, 2002, at 10:17:44
Tina, what's up?
I was just about to post asking you how you are doing. I know you're mad at us all for caring, but damn it we do.
If you're talking about the suicide thread, please don't think it was directed at you. The timing wasn't great, but it in no way meant that we wanted you to stop posting. WE DO NOT WANT YOU TO STOP POSTING.
If you're feeling hopeless, we don't want you to feel you can't post that.
Why do you feel you need to stop posting here? Yell at us if you want to, but please don't stop posting.
Posted by Ted on December 19, 2002, at 12:23:30
In reply to Done enough, posted by tina on December 19, 2002, at 10:17:44
Hi Tina,
The choice is yours but we _WILL_ miss you. I understand how you feel, but you must understand that we do indeed care for you.
I wish you peace, and if possible, eventual happiness.
Ted
Posted by gabbix2 on December 19, 2002, at 21:46:20
In reply to Re: Done enough » tina, posted by Ted on December 19, 2002, at 12:23:30
Tina I am sorry that you feel this way.
Its hard to say that and sound sincere but I really am. I feel a bit hypocritical, I'm not sure if thats even the correct word. Begging you to hang on, and then... what. I can't change your life, or take away your pain. I have a fierce internal battle going on with it, esp having been able to relate to you on so many different things and this wasn't an exception.I'll miss you, but it is your choice and if you change your mind you know we'd welcome you right back, and be happy that you were here.
Hope
Tina.
Posted by Phil on December 20, 2002, at 8:55:44
In reply to Re: Done enough, posted by gabbix2 on December 19, 2002, at 21:46:20
I'm not going anywhere that doesn't have french fries or chocolate until I have to.
I change my mind 5 times when trying to decide anything and once I make a decision, I second guess myself.
If you have any thought when you're dead, mine would be, "I miss my cat. Why didn't I just get help?" But that's me, I get a cold and think it's pneumonia. Anyway, there's no second guessing when you're dead. But I don't know that.
I also don't know about meeting up with friends or whatever..meeting George Washington? I think you are just dead. Lights out, game over. But I don't know that either.I guess I could go see a fraud, I'm sorry, a psychic, and contact my mother.
Psychic- I see a ring something about a ring(no) do the initials acb mean anything to you (no) your mother had 2 arms and 2 legs (yes yes!) she wants you to know that she's fine (oh, thank god)
B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T
Posted by kath on December 22, 2002, at 18:02:11
In reply to Done enough, posted by tina on December 19, 2002, at 10:17:44
Dear Tina -
> won't be back here again. *********Why?******
I've learned my lesson. keeping mouth shut. point taken. ****************What point? I don't remember anybody making any point.********
Tina - it's your choice if you don't come back, but nobody has told you not to or asked you not to. I hope you change your mind hunny. Ain't the same without you.
much love, Kath ((((((((Tina)))))))))))
xoxoxoxoxo
Posted by Anna Laura on December 24, 2002, at 4:56:30
In reply to Done enough, posted by tina on December 19, 2002, at 10:17:44
> won't be back here again. I've learned my lesson. keeping mouth shut. point taken.
> good luck to everyone. I hope 2003 is what you want it to be.I just wanted to say that i can feel you're loaded with pain and even anger and that you're probably right.
You wanted to be helped but you felt attacked instead (i'm not inside your head, i'm just trying to understand may be i'm wrong).
Death and suicide are a cultural taboo and i believe that this issues are always handed superficially and morally; as far as i am concerned, i couldn't handle the matter in the "right way", as i really wanted to - i can't speak for the others - 'cause i was afraid to say the wrong words and to add more pain and chaos to your pain. Forgive me please if i've done wrong.
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