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Posted by LiLi80 on April 15, 2002, at 3:37:33
i got the phone crod tied it to the shower rail thing and tried to do it. then i got scared of pain again, and went online to find a gun, for weeks i was looking for cyanide pills to ship to the US , but no luck on that. so i come up with a story to get a gun cause no one will just sell one to me , w/o a story. and i get this guy josh, who is the only one who will talk to me, and he turns out not to own one, but we talk, i confess my real story and he is a prelaw student at BU who said he could help me get a lawyer, but now he is talking about nothing...he cant help me
no one can
Posted by scared on April 15, 2002, at 5:00:08
In reply to i was already to do it, posted by LiLi80 on April 15, 2002, at 3:37:33
maybe its time to forget about all the legal crap and just concentrate on getting better
the quest for revenge is destroying you
Posted by Fi on April 15, 2002, at 11:53:40
In reply to i was already to do it, posted by LiLi80 on April 15, 2002, at 3:37:33
A suicide hotline (find one via http://www.befrienders.org/bidir/centre.html), a sympathetic health professional...
And maybe have a look at http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/spagebw.htm
No-one may be able to make your problems disappear, but maybe they can help you cope with them a little easier.
Fi
Posted by Phil on April 15, 2002, at 17:42:26
In reply to Please talk to someone? » LiLi80, posted by Fi on April 15, 2002, at 11:53:40
Believe me. DEAD IS WORSE THAN LIVE. You think life gets rough? Wait til you try to party in heaven on a Saturday night.
LiLi80, I don't know how to help you. If you were family, I'd come tackle you and take you to the ER.
You need help now. Tell me where you are..I'm bored at work, I'll drive you! WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET SUICIDE OUT OF YOU THINKING.
Sar did herself in and a few short weeks ago she had happy times and would have again. But once you're dead....There are no second go-rounds.
WILL YOU HELP US HELP YOU???
Posted by shelliR on April 15, 2002, at 22:15:19
In reply to i was already to do it, posted by LiLi80 on April 15, 2002, at 3:37:33
LiLi,
What's going on in the therapist department?
Do you still have a therapist? One you feel good about? How about a pdoc. I know at some point they were giving you different advice.Maybe having a strong connection to both a therapist and a pdoc, sort of a team for you, might help you. Sometimes the attachment to a therapist can pull you through until you find your own resources.
Besides "listening to you", is there also another way we can help you.
all of us want to.
Shelli
Posted by lili80 on April 16, 2002, at 12:50:30
In reply to Re: i was already to do it » LiLi80, posted by shelliR on April 15, 2002, at 22:15:19
I know people tell me that the law thing is what is bringing me down, but its the onl;y time when i feel any sense of control. I want to screw the *****s that took my life away. I need a lawyer. Anyone who lives in MA and knows a probono discrimination lawyer please give me some info. I am tired of no one believing me, maybe if I get my school to pay threw the nose, i will not be angry anymore. Its a long shot, but letting it go, doesnt work. Its the only time when i feel energy is when i think i can get them back. Maybe if i did then everyone will stop pitying me for being "crazy" and they can have proof that i am not. ie winning a lawsuit. I need to do this for me. I need to know that the good guy can win. But i dont have the resources. Anybody know a lawyer in MA, please....
lili
Posted by fi on April 18, 2002, at 5:41:11
In reply to please help!!!!!!! anyone?, posted by lili80 on April 16, 2002, at 12:50:30
Sorry- I dont know of a lawyer or the US system (if you ring up an ordinary law firm that charges, will they have details of others that dont?)
I respect that you want to take legal action, and seek legal help. Can I please ask you to consider getting psychological help as well? For some support while you are going thru such a very tough time.
Fi
Posted by ST on April 21, 2002, at 17:03:07
In reply to Re: please help!!!!!!! anyone? ¯ lili80, posted by fi on April 18, 2002, at 5:41:11
Pleeeeaaase listen to wise Phil. Get a therapist. you are so smart and have so many thoughts going on in that head of yours, that you need a pro to help you sort things out. Or do you have one? Go for the lawsuit, I say....when you're dead you certainly can't do it, so stay here with us.
Sarah
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