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Posted by galtin on October 9, 2001, at 23:15:40
In reply to Re: Seduced and Abandoned soon to be a major motion » kazoo, posted by Wendy B. on October 8, 2001, at 10:20:01
> > > yikes! don't blame Rosa...
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> > Yikes, Wendy dearest, let's blame Osama and be done with it.
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> totally fine, in my book anyway... (grumble, grumble, 'sick of them peace-niks')
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> > Besides, the concept of "blame" has been deemed socially unacceptable when insurance companies made this a no-fault world back in the last millennium.
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> hell, mon! i got lots 'o blame to hand out, to lots 'o folk... line up, guys and gals!
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> > In the manner of Jerzy Kosinski, "I like to pinch.", so can I pinch you?
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> #1: we know he kinds of trash ol' Jerzy wrote!
> #2: save the pinches for Willow, she needs 'em more than i do...
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> > kazoo
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> lots of love,
> and a pinch back,
> just for good measure,
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> W.Wendy and Kazoo,
A number of years ago, before he killed himself, obviously, I had dinner with Kosinski and his girlfriend. He didn't pinch me, but it was still quite an evening.
galtin
Posted by galtin on October 9, 2001, at 23:19:16
In reply to Re: Abandonment and Rejection » galtin, posted by Rosa on October 8, 2001, at 11:15:18
> I did not make the statement you are referring to.
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> I know several "recovering" alcoholics and they are very nice people. Until his stepfather becomes willing to accept his alcoholism, I do not see very much chance of his having a relationship with him.
>Rosa,
I now realize my mistake. Wendy energetically pointed it out to me.
I apologize for my carelessness.
galtin
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> > ^^^^^^^^^^^^
> > > Unless your friend is willing to accept his stepfather's alcoholism, and all the nasty abuse that goes with it, then the only way he can possibly achieve any sort of bonding is by becoming like his stepfather, and even that has no guarantee of working. Alcoholics are nasty creatures and they know it, too. I find them debasing, disgusting and degrading. Alcoholics have this rotten habit of directing their delirium toward those don't deserve it, and for that reason alone they're not worth any kind of affection, sympathy or compassion.
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> > Rosa,
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> > Since we were not asked for our views of alchoholics, I am thinking that your categorical condemnation of them comes from painful personal experience. I can't think why else a person would make such harsh, judgmental statements. Not to mention, inaccurate.
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> > galtin
Posted by sar on October 9, 2001, at 23:33:14
In reply to Re: Seduced and Abandoned soon to be a major motion, posted by galtin on October 9, 2001, at 23:15:40
dear rosa,i feel too inexperienced to comment on the family situation, but i just wanted to add to this thread that not all alcoholics are the monsters kazoo makes them out to be.
alot of monsters are doomed to be alcoholics.
i got real lucky. 90% of the alkies i know are sweethearts. here's a controversial startement: when i was arrested for DWI, the cops reported to my mother that i was the sweetest, most co-operative arrested drunk they'd ever encountered.
i've learned to not push relationships. as kristi mentioned, the harder you push, the more likely they are to fall away. i've found that it's best to be patient and simply ley things BE.
> A number of years ago, before he killed himself, obviously, I had dinner with Kosinski and his girlfriend. He didn't pinch me, but it was still quite an evening.
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> galtinno shit?! well do tell the details! i had no idea he'd killed himself. i read half of *pinball* a couple of years ago and liked his sense of humour...i'll have to research him...how did you happen upon this dinner, and what did he order, and how much did he have to drink :) ?
welcome to psb, galtin...
sar
Posted by kazoo on October 10, 2001, at 2:31:42
In reply to Re: Seduced and Abandoned soon to be a major motion, posted by sar on October 9, 2001, at 23:33:14
> ... when i was arrested for DWI, the cops reported to my mother that i was the sweetest, most co-operative arrested drunk they'd ever encountered.
!
Posted by sar on October 10, 2001, at 10:38:29
In reply to Re: Seduced and Abandoned soon to be a major motion » sar, posted by kazoo on October 10, 2001, at 2:31:42
> > ... when i was arrested for DWI, the cops reported to my mother that i was the sweetest, most co-operative arrested drunk they'd ever encountered.
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> !laughing...i guess i got myself there, eh?
Posted by Wendy B. on October 10, 2001, at 12:21:14
In reply to Re: Seduced and Abandoned soon to be a major motion, posted by galtin on October 9, 2001, at 23:15:40
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> Wendy and Kazoo,
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> A number of years ago, before he killed himself, obviously, I had dinner with Kosinski and his girlfriend. He didn't pinch me, but it was still quite an evening.
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> galtin
galtin,the only reason i spoke so 'energetically' was so that rosa wouldn't feel horrible! sorry...
the reference to the 'trash' kosinski wrote was a silly response to kazoo's silliness... i admire Kosinski very much as an author.
like sar, i'd love to hear the dinner-party story, especially the part about what you ate and drank and how much... what was his girlfriend like? how did you know him?
best,
wendy
Posted by Jane D on October 10, 2001, at 13:14:57
In reply to Re: please be civil, posted by Elizabeth on October 9, 2001, at 13:56:37
> > > Alcoholics are nasty creatures and they know it, too. I find them debasing, disgusting and degrading. Alcoholics have this rotten habit of directing their delirium toward those don't deserve it, and for that reason alone they're not worth any kind of affection, sympathy or compassion.
> >
> > Sorry, I missed this before. Please don't post anything that others could take as accusatory or put them down, and please be careful not to overgeneralize.
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> I was pretty upset to read this too. Drug addicts are demonized by society every day -- can't we rise above that here? Especially (but not exclusively) since there are alcoholics and other addicts reading and posting to these boards.
>
> -elizabethElizabeth - Upset by the words or by the sentiments? Addicts of all kinds do cause serious, destructive, problems for the people around them. I don't see anything wrong with reminding people that if they can't give an addict enough support that the problem is often in the addict and not in them. And I don't see any problem with reminding addicts of this either. - Jane
Posted by Elizabeth on October 10, 2001, at 13:53:43
In reply to Re: please be civil » Elizabeth, posted by Jane D on October 10, 2001, at 13:14:57
> Elizabeth - Upset by the words or by the sentiments?
Both.
> Addicts of all kinds do cause serious, destructive, problems for the people around them.
Yes, although I wonder if that would happen if they had safe, legal substitutes available to them (benzos in the case of alcoholism).
> I don't see anything wrong with reminding people that if they can't give an addict enough support that the problem is often in the addict and not in them.
I don't either, but the post I was referring to went much, much further than that, describing alcoholics as "debasing, disgusting and degrading" and adding that "they're not worth any kind of affection, sympathy or compassion."
-elizabeth
Posted by Rosa on October 10, 2001, at 15:37:33
In reply to Re: please be civil » Jane D, posted by Elizabeth on October 10, 2001, at 13:53:43
We need to remember that some children from alcoholic and dysfunctional homes may have been abused sexually by someone, whether it was a relative or not. That goes for boys as well as girls. Many of us may have some of the same issues that we are dealing with through self-help groups.
> > Elizabeth - Upset by the words or by the sentiments?
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> Both.
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> > Addicts of all kinds do cause serious, destructive, problems for the people around them.
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> Yes, although I wonder if that would happen if they had safe, legal substitutes available to them (benzos in the case of alcoholism).
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> > I don't see anything wrong with reminding people that if they can't give an addict enough support that the problem is often in the addict and not in them.
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> I don't either, but the post I was referring to went much, much further than that, describing alcoholics as "debasing, disgusting and degrading" and adding that "they're not worth any kind of affection, sympathy or compassion."
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> -elizabeth
Posted by Elizabeth on October 11, 2001, at 11:52:36
In reply to Re: please be civil » Elizabeth, posted by Rosa on October 10, 2001, at 15:37:33
> We need to remember that some children from alcoholic and dysfunctional homes may have been abused sexually by someone, whether it was a relative or not. That goes for boys as well as girls. Many of us may have some of the same issues that we are dealing with through self-help groups.
I understand that (although there are plenty of child molesters who aren't alcoholics, too), and I really feel for people who've been sexually abused in childhood -- that's just about the worst thing I can imagine happening to a person. But I would hope that would not lead to stereotypes and generalizations. Some people posting to this board are addicts, and others (including myself) have loved ones who are addicts. I'm sure you can understand how hurtful such remarks (implying that alcoholics are child molesters, calling them unworthy of love or compassion, etc.) can be.
-elizabeth
Posted by Rosa on October 11, 2001, at 14:44:02
In reply to Re: alcoholics » Rosa, posted by Elizabeth on October 11, 2001, at 11:52:36
The reference was to alcoholic and dysfunctional homes which includes substance and process addictions (alcohol and drugs, and relationship and romance addictions as well as sexual addiction).
I did not change the heading, perhaps I should have.
> We need to remember that some children from alcoholic and dysfunctional homes may have been abused sexually by someone, whether it was a relative or not. That goes for boys as well as girls. Many of us may have some of the same issues that we are dealing with through self-help groups.
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> I understand that (although there are plenty of child molesters who aren't alcoholics, too), and I really feel for people who've been sexually abused in childhood -- that's just about the worst thing I can imagine happening to a person. But I would hope that would not lead to stereotypes and generalizations. Some people posting to this board are addicts, and others (including myself) have loved ones who are addicts. I'm sure you can understand how hurtful such remarks (implying that alcoholics are child molesters, calling them unworthy of love or compassion, etc.) can be.
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> -elizabeth
Posted by Rosa on October 11, 2001, at 15:23:23
In reply to Re: alcoholics » Rosa, posted by Elizabeth on October 11, 2001, at 11:52:36
Elizabeth,
I did not make the original comment you were referring to.
What I said was, "we need to remember that some children from alcoholic and dysfunctional homes may have been abused sexually by someone, whether it was a relative or not. That goes for boys as well as girls. Many of us may have some of the same issues that we are dealing with through self-help groups."
Posted by Gracie2 on October 11, 2001, at 21:24:14
In reply to Re: please be civil » Elizabeth, posted by Jane D on October 10, 2001, at 13:14:57
Jane-
Congratulations on your exemplary lifestyle.
-Gracie
Posted by Lisa Simpson on October 12, 2001, at 5:43:57
In reply to Re: please be civil » Elizabeth, posted by Jane D on October 10, 2001, at 13:14:57
Yes, you are right, alcoholics and addicts do cause problems for the people around them. I can't argue with that. But *all* people who have a lot of health problems cause problems for the people around them. And that is what I think people tend to forget - alcoholism and addiction are illnesses, just as much as pneumonia or cancer - it's just that it's primarily a mental thing rather than a physical thing. Because after all people don't drink themselves into a stupor or start taking pills for no reason - they are usually suffering inside in some way to make them do it. Oh, I'm not very good at explaining myself, it's just that I feel no matter what your problem is, everyone has a right for help and sympathy. And alcoholics and addicts hurt too.
Lisa
Posted by Elizabeth on October 12, 2001, at 10:51:52
In reply to Re: Alcoholics and Addicts » Jane D, posted by Lisa Simpson on October 12, 2001, at 5:43:57
> ... And that is what I think people tend to forget - alcoholism and addiction are illnesses, just as much as pneumonia or cancer
...or depression or manic-depression. Are bipolar folks unworthy of compassion, too? They can make relationships very difficult, after all.
> Because after all people don't drink themselves into a stupor or start taking pills for no reason - they are usually suffering inside in some way to make them do it. Oh, I'm not very good at explaining myself, it's just that I feel no matter what your problem is, everyone has a right for help and sympathy. And alcoholics and addicts hurt too.
I think you did a fine job of explaining yourself.
-elizabeth
Posted by Rosa on October 12, 2001, at 17:14:33
In reply to Re: Alcoholics and Addicts » Lisa Simpson, posted by Elizabeth on October 12, 2001, at 10:51:52
What is your policy concerning the misuse of drugs? What do you consider a slip?
> > ... And that is what I think people tend to forget - alcoholism and addiction are illnesses, just as much as pneumonia or cancer
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> ...or depression or manic-depression. Are bipolar folks unworthy of compassion, too? They can make relationships very difficult, after all.
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> > Because after all people don't drink themselves into a stupor or start taking pills for no reason - they are usually suffering inside in some way to make them do it. Oh, I'm not very good at explaining myself, it's just that I feel no matter what your problem is, everyone has a right for help and sympathy. And alcoholics and addicts hurt too.
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> I think you did a fine job of explaining yourself.
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> -elizabeth
Posted by Cass on October 13, 2001, at 17:48:57
In reply to Re: Seduced and Abandoned soon to be a major motion, posted by galtin on October 9, 2001, at 23:15:40
I haven't followed everything in this thread so I don't know how much of this Kosinski talk is facetious, but I don't think Kosinski wrote trash, and if galtin had dinner with him, that must have been an interesting night. Jerzy Kosinski is the ultimate survivor even though he committed suicide. I hear that he committed suicide because he was very ill and suffering. I admire anyone who has suffered the depths of other people's inhumanity and still has the courage to talk about it (being that a lot of people try to blame the victim for their misfortune.) Here's to Kosinski.
Posted by Wendy B. on October 13, 2001, at 20:31:56
In reply to Re: Seduced and Abandoned soon to be a major motion, posted by Cass on October 13, 2001, at 17:48:57
Dear Cass,
I clarified my statement in my next posting:
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> galtin,
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> the only reason i spoke so 'energetically' was so that rosa wouldn't feel horrible! sorry...
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> the reference to the 'trash' kosinski wrote was a silly response to kazoo's silliness... i admire Kosinski very much as an author.
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> like sar, i'd love to hear the dinner-party story, especially the part about what you ate and drank and how much... what was his girlfriend like? how did you know him?
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> best,
>
> wendyIn other words, I was just sparring a little with Kazoo when I wrote that.
(gosh, now I feel bad)
Wendy
> I haven't followed everything in this thread so I don't know how much of this Kosinski talk is facetious, but I don't think Kosinski wrote trash, and if galtin had dinner with him, that must have been an interesting night. Jerzy Kosinski is the ultimate survivor even though he committed suicide. I hear that he committed suicide because he was very ill and suffering. I admire anyone who has suffered the depths of other people's inhumanity and still has the courage to talk about it (being that a lot of people try to blame the victim for their misfortune.) Here's to Kosinski.
Posted by Cass on October 13, 2001, at 21:56:19
In reply to Re: Seduced and Abandoned, again » Cass, posted by Wendy B. on October 13, 2001, at 20:31:56
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> (gosh, now I feel bad)
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> Wendy
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But now I feel bad that you feel bad!!
Cass
Posted by Wendy B. on October 13, 2001, at 22:35:40
In reply to Re: Seduced and Abandoned, again » Wendy B., posted by Cass on October 13, 2001, at 21:56:19
> > >
> > (gosh, now I feel bad)
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> > Wendy
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> But now I feel bad that you feel bad!!
> Cassugh! it's an ugly little cycle...
in order to break it, and for some major comic relief, read the thread below entitled "Gas." it's priceless...
kind regards,
wendy
Posted by Elizabeth on October 14, 2001, at 10:03:25
In reply to Re: Alcoholics and Addicts » Elizabeth, posted by Rosa on October 12, 2001, at 17:14:33
> What is your policy concerning the misuse of drugs? What do you consider a slip?
Can you be clearer as to what your question is? "Policy concerning the misuse of drugs" is awfully broad.
-e
Posted by Rosa on October 15, 2001, at 8:13:59
In reply to Re: Alcoholics and Addicts » Rosa, posted by Elizabeth on October 14, 2001, at 10:03:25
Does this group have any such guidelines concerning what they consider to be misuse of drugs or a slip?
A slip is when after having abstained from alcohol or drugs for a period of time, while in a 12-step program, one goes back out and uses alcohol or drugs.
How do you describe self-medication?
Here are some guidelines concerning the misuse of drugs for alcoholics.
1. Remember that as a recovering alcoholic your automatic response will be to turn to chemical relief for uncomfortable feelings and to take more than the usual, prescribed amount. Look for nonchemical solutions for the aches and discomforts of everyday living.
2. Remember that the best safeguard against drug-related relapse is an active participation in a program of recovery.
3. No member plays doctor.
4. Be completely honest with yourself and your physician regarding use of medication.
5. If in doubt, consult a physician with demonstrated experience in the treatment of alcoholism.
6. Be frank about your alcoholism with any physician or dentist you consult. Such confidence will be respected and is most helpful to the doctor.
7. Inform the physician at once if you experience side effects from prescribed drugs.
8. Consider consulting another doctor if a personal physician refuses or fails to recognize the peculiar susceptibility of alcoholics to sedatives, tranquilizers, and stimulants.
I believe that the guidelines for drug addicts is more strict.
^^^^^
> > What is your policy concerning the misuse of drugs? What do you consider a slip?
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> Can you be clearer as to what your question is? "Policy concerning the misuse of drugs" is awfully broad.
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> -e
Posted by Elizabeth on October 15, 2001, at 19:39:22
In reply to Misuse of Drugs » Elizabeth, posted by Rosa on October 15, 2001, at 8:13:59
> Does this group have any such guidelines concerning what they consider to be misuse of drugs or a slip?
This group? You mean Psycho-Social-Babble? I think that, with the exception of nonsupportive (i.e., mean or rude) remarks (and certain other types of content, such as encouraging people to do something that's illegal), there are no rules governing post content. I think it's generally agreed that each individual needs his own treatment and that it's ultimately between the individual and his treater(s).
> A slip is when after having abstained from alcohol or drugs for a period of time, while in a 12-step program, one goes back out and uses alcohol or drugs.
I would leave out the 12-step part and say that if a person uses his DOC (and not just any drug)while trying to abstain as part of a program of recovery, that would be a slip. There are addiction treatments that have been proven effective and that don't require or use a 12-step approach.
> How do you describe self-medication?
Many people don't receive any treatment (or don't receive adequate treatment) for mood and anxiety disorders (and other psych disorders, but these are the primary ones). When they come across and try "hard" drugs (i.e., addictive drugs such as alcohol, opioid agonists (heroin, etc.), cocaine, amphetamine (and similar drugs), and some of the older types of "minor tranquilizers" such as methaqualone or barbiturates), they discover that the drugs seem to fix whatever problem they're having (depression, chronic pain, panic attacks, social phobia, posttraumatic stress, anger-control problems associated with various conditions (such as bipolar disorder and ADHD), etc.), so they start using it regularly. Because their drug use is not supervised by a doctor, it's hard for them to keep a limit on the amount they use, and they often (perhaps almost always) end up becoming addicted. (Even if they're not addicted, though, it's still self-medication.)
Some people do this because they aren't aware (or don't want to believe) that what they have is a psychiatric disorder which can be treated. Others, however, have tried to get treatment, but it has not worked, often because doctors are reluctant to prescribe the most effective treatments (such as benzodiazepines for anxiety disorders or stimulants for ADHD) or only prescribe them in sub-effective doses. In some cases the effective treatment is not recognized as "legitimate" by the medical establishment (e.g., opioids for certain cases of treatment-resistant depression)
I am not an addict; but I do love a former addict, and I can appreciate what he goes through. I've been clinically depressed (on and off) since I was 14 years old, and there's no doubt in my mind that if I'd had a mind to, I would have sought out heroin myself as an adolescent and probably would have become addicted. After trying many, many treatments, none of which had been completely effective, I finally happened upon hydrocodone (when I had my wisdom teeth removed). When I mentioned this to a psychopharmacologist who I was seeing for a consultation (after phenelzine pooped out on me), he thought of buprenorphine, an opioid that is relatively non-addictive (it's in the lowest controlled-substance category in the US, Schedule V) and is safe in overdose. The drug, which is used in many other countries as substitution therapy for opioid addiction and is approved here for pain, had recently been the subject of a paper that this consultant had published in the Journal of Clinical Psychopharmacology about a small clinical trial in depressed patients for whom other treatments had failed to work. A couple of years after I first met with the consultant, I had tried practically everything that my doctor and I could think of, and we decided it was time to try buprenorphine. My doctor spoke to the consultant, who had more experience using opioids in depression than just about any other psychiatrist, and decided that he was comfortable prescribing it to me. It works, although it has all the typical side effects of full-agonist opioids (nausea, constipation, dry mouth, pruritis). I am pretty sure I'm not unique in being preferentially responsive to opioids; I can only assume that others like me usually take the other path and become heroin addicts. My aforementioned boyfriend is one of these people. I do not see him as weak or immoral. He is what I could have been if I hadn't been lucky enough to live within walking distance of Harvard Medical School. And yes, it angers me when people say that addicts are decadent, evil, subhuman. They are not.
> Here are some guidelines concerning the misuse of drugs for alcoholics.
I think that these rules are a good template to start from for a person who's trying to design a treatment program for addiction, although there is no single program that will work for everybody. (Addicts are unique human beings too.)
> 1. Remember that as a recovering alcoholic your automatic response will be to turn to chemical relief for uncomfortable feelings and to take more than the usual, prescribed amount. Look for nonchemical solutions for the aches and discomforts of everyday living.
I'm not convinced that it's that simple. Many addicts lack resilience, the natural ability to cope and adapt. Learning coping skills can help, but in the end it may not be enough. For others, their drug use relieves daily stress or pain due to a situation that nobody could tolerate by themselves, or to a trauma from which they have never fully recovered. In these cases, help is needed to get out of the intolerable situation or to heal the injury caused by trauma; and again, medical treatment may still be needed.
> 2. Remember that the best safeguard against drug-related relapse is an active participation in a program of recovery.
Always a good idea. But I've noticed that there are very few such programs in which the addicts are treated as the suffering human beings they are. Much of "treatment" seems to consist of convincing the addict that he is a bad person.
> 3. No member plays doctor.
"Member" of...?
Generally it's a good idea for people in support groups not to "play doctor;" but this can mean different things to different people. I think it's fine for people to share information with other group members. I don't think it's okay to pressure another person to become involved in a particular type of treatment. (Of course, I don't think it's okay for doctors to pressure or coerce patients into a particular type of treatment, either.)
Doctors can become addicts -- anesthesiologists, for obvious reasons, seem especially vulnerable. I think it's certainly fine for a doctor in a support group to share medical knowledge with other group members.
> 4. Be completely honest with yourself and your physician regarding use of medication.
I believe it is the treater's responsibility to prove to the patient that he will not be punished for honesty. This is the only way that a trusting therapeutic alliance can be formed.
> 5. If in doubt, consult a physician with demonstrated experience in the treatment of alcoholism.
Always a good idea, although who you should consult probably depends what exactly your "doubts" are about.
> 6. Be frank about your alcoholism with any physician or dentist you consult. Such confidence will be respected and is most helpful to the doctor.
Unfortunately, too often patients are punished for honesty.
> 7. Inform the physician at once if you experience side effects from prescribed drugs.
Another good idea, although it's probably not wise to make a big fuss about minor side effects! :-)
> 8. Consider consulting another doctor if a personal physician refuses or fails to recognize the peculiar susceptibility of alcoholics to sedatives, tranquilizers, and stimulants.
...or if the physician rules out the use of these drugs as treatments, based on a history of alcoholism. I think I went into this issue earlier.
I'm not convinced that alcoholics are especially liable to abuse tranquilizers, although they are probably liable to use more than the prescribed amount if the prescribed amount is inadequate! And I don't see any reason why they would be prone to stimulant abuse.
> I believe that the guidelines for drug addicts is more strict.
Alcoholics are drug addicts. Alcohol happens to be a legal drug; for some reason, the federal government acknowledged that a Constitutional amendment was required in order to prohibit alcohol, but they argue (in support of the Controlled Substances Act and successive drug legislation) that the commerce clause permits criminalization of other drugs, including some substances which occur naturally in the human body! Very inconsistent and intellectually (not to say legally) dishonest, IMO.
So, you still didn't answer my question: what do you mean when you ask, "What is your policy concerning the misuse of drugs?" (I don't have a lot of "policies," seeing as I'm not a government or a corporation. :-) )
-elizabeth
Posted by galtin on October 16, 2001, at 6:12:44
In reply to Misuse of Drugs » Elizabeth, posted by Rosa on October 15, 2001, at 8:13:59
> Does this group have any such guidelines concerning what they consider to be misuse of drugs or a slip?
>
> A slip is when after having abstained from alcohol or drugs for a period of time, while in a 12-step program, one goes back out and uses alcohol or drugs.
>
> How do you describe self-medication?
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> Here are some guidelines concerning the misuse of drugs for alcoholics.
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> 1. Remember that as a recovering alcoholic your automatic response will be to turn to chemical relief for uncomfortable feelings and to take more than the usual, prescribed amount. Look for nonchemical solutions for the aches and discomforts of everyday living.
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> 2. Remember that the best safeguard against drug-related relapse is an active participation in a program of recovery.
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> 3. No member plays doctor.
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> 4. Be completely honest with yourself and your physician regarding use of medication.
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> 5. If in doubt, consult a physician with demonstrated experience in the treatment of alcoholism.
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> 6. Be frank about your alcoholism with any physician or dentist you consult. Such confidence will be respected and is most helpful to the doctor.
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> 7. Inform the physician at once if you experience side effects from prescribed drugs.
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> 8. Consider consulting another doctor if a personal physician refuses or fails to recognize the peculiar susceptibility of alcoholics to sedatives, tranquilizers, and stimulants.
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> I believe that the guidelines for drug addicts is more strict.
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> ^^^^^
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> > > What is your policy concerning the misuse of drugs? What do you consider a slip?
> >
> > Can you be clearer as to what your question is? "Policy concerning the misuse of drugs" is awfully broad.
> >
> > -eThe general guidelines for the use/non-use of prescription meds by recovering alcoholics is as follows.
1. Any use of psychoactive substances without a prescription is a relapse.
2. Obtaining and using such substances from a doctor under false pretenses is a relapse.
3.At times alcoholics/drug addicts may need to take pain medication.
4.But some will refuse.
5. Exceeding the prescribed dose of a medication can be considered a relapse, depending on how much, how often, the FDA schedule of the medication,and whose talking.
6. The term "slip" refers to a short-term relapse, several days to a week or two. A relapse usually characterizes a prolonged return to substance/alcohol abuse.
6. Most alcoholics today are "dually" addicted -- "a drug is a drug is a drug,"as the saying goes.
7.Many alcoholics will give potentially addictive medications to a family member or a friend for dispensation and discuss the situation with other recovering alcoholics. Secrecy breeds slips and relapses.
8.A number of recovering alcoholics will disagree with one or more of the above statements, and there is no authoritative tribunal to resolve these differences.
galtin
Posted by Rosa on October 16, 2001, at 7:37:12
In reply to Re: Misuse of Drugs Elizabeth, posted by galtin on October 16, 2001, at 6:12:44
> The general guidelines for the use/non-use of prescription meds by recovering alcoholics is as follows.
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> 1. Any use of psychoactive substances without a prescription is a relapse.
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> 2. Obtaining and using such substances from a doctor under false pretenses is a relapse.
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> 3.At times alcoholics/drug addicts may need to take pain medication.
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> 4.But some will refuse.
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> 5. Exceeding the prescribed dose of a medication can be considered a relapse, depending on how much, how often, the FDA schedule of the medication,and whose talking.
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> 6. The term "slip" refers to a short-term relapse, several days to a week or two. A relapse usually characterizes a prolonged return to substance/alcohol abuse.
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> 6. Most alcoholics today are "dually" addicted -- "a drug is a drug is a drug,"as the saying goes.
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> 7.Many alcoholics will give potentially addictive medications to a family member or a friend for dispensation and discuss the situation with other recovering alcoholics. Secrecy breeds slips and relapses.
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> 8.A number of recovering alcoholics will disagree with one or more of the above statements, and there is no authoritative tribunal to resolve these differences.
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> galtin^^^^^
Thanks for your comments, I agree.
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