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Posted by shar on November 2, 2000, at 10:32:13
Hi, Judy.
Just thought I would bug you a little and see how you're doing. If you get a chance to check in, please do. Whether things are good or bad, or if you feel like a failure or a success, we're with you.
Shar
Posted by judy1 on November 2, 2000, at 14:58:07
In reply to Judy1 -- How goes it ??, posted by shar on November 2, 2000, at 10:32:13
Dear Shar,
I just started crying when I saw your note. I can't believe anyone would be concerned about me, thank you for posting. I would much rather be numb than the way I feel now which is just an incredible feeling of self-loathing. I'm sorry I sound like this- I know my doc would probably say I am having depressed thoughts. Even knowing that doesn't really change anything. How do you deal with it? (And I guess cutting isn't the answer) Thanks, Judy
Posted by noa on November 2, 2000, at 15:36:54
In reply to Re: Judy1 -- How goes it ??, posted by judy1 on November 2, 2000, at 14:58:07
Judy, are you taking any medication?
The reason I ask is that my experience has been that the cognitive work of therapy only works to a point unless my medication is working. So, I can understand the idea that my depression causes me to think self-critical thoughts, but it doesn't make me *feel* differently. Only when I finally got on the right combo of meds have I been able to really use the cognitive understanding.
Posted by judy1 on November 2, 2000, at 16:52:48
In reply to Re: Judy1 -- How goes it ??, posted by noa on November 2, 2000, at 15:36:54
Dear Noa,
I don't know how to do those arrow things to your name. I'm sure Dr. Bob has instructions somewhere, but my brain is obviously not working well. I am on meds- depakote, klonopin, celexa and risperdal. But I just started back because I didn't take any when I was pregnant. And I missed taking them yesterday I think. Do you think they might be making me worse? I ordered the book about cutting that you suggested on Dr. Bob's page- it went right to Amazon where I have 1-click ordering from my manic days. I hope it helps me. Take care, Judy
Posted by noa on November 2, 2000, at 17:26:27
In reply to Re: Judy1 -- How goes it ??-Noa, posted by judy1 on November 2, 2000, at 16:52:48
I hope so, too, Judy. Yes, I think that if you just started back on meds, maybe they haven't reached full therapeutic potential yet. And if you missed yesterday, perhaps, with some of the meds, you might be feeling that, but I don't know any specifics about these meds. I know that if I miss my effexor dose one day, I feel cruddy for a day or two. Recently, I missed a few serzone doses and had a few lousy days following that. For me, taking the meds very regularly has become essential.
To do the arrows: when you post a follow up message, look for a little box, under the subject line box, that says "add name of previous poster". That will do the little arrows, but only to the previous poster, so if you read a few at a time, keep in mind which was the most recent read.
Posted by coral on November 2, 2000, at 17:41:42
In reply to Re: Judy1 -- How goes it ??, posted by judy1 on November 2, 2000, at 14:58:07
Dear Judy,
You're in my prayers. There is no way I can even begin to imagine the pain you're experiencing, but please know that you're not alone. I'm so glad Shar posted to you (what a compassionate lady!), it nudged me to remind you that I've thought about you a great deal since learning of your trials. On Halloween night, I stumbled into the edge of the porch and gashed my foot. It hurt like hell. I admit my first thought was to make sure I wasn't permanently impaled on the porch, but my second thought was of you. I am so glad that you now realize that cutting isn't the answer. There is help available, but grief takes time. If only I could turn the clock ahead for you . . .
Please know you're in my thoughts and prayers.
Coral
Posted by judy1 on November 2, 2000, at 18:14:22
In reply to Re: Judy1 -- How goes it ??-Noa, posted by noa on November 2, 2000, at 17:26:27
I posted on the other board to ask about the meds. Thanks for your thoughts (and the arrow advice)- Judy
Posted by judy1 on November 2, 2000, at 18:21:18
In reply to Re: Judy1 -- How goes it ??, posted by coral on November 2, 2000, at 17:41:42
Dear Coral,
Thank you for your kind words. I'm so sorry about your foot- are you okay? I guess this is what makes me really sick- I honestly don't feel it when I'm cutting, it's like I'm not there. The worst part is going to the ER, and having a Dr. who won't numb the wound before giving stitches. It makes me feel even worse about myself. That's why I was lucky to have my family doctor do it this time. Take care, Judy
Posted by shar on November 2, 2000, at 18:23:08
In reply to Re: Judy1 -- How goes it ??-Noa, posted by judy1 on November 2, 2000, at 16:52:48
I'm really glad to hear that you are getting back onto your meds. I'm assuming they were helpful when you were on them previously? It may take some time, but it seems like a good positive step for you to take, and I'm glad to hear it.
I'm so glad you ordered that book also. You may end up with some really good and helpful insights about cutting. Of course you must know it's a relief to hear you are doing better with that.
Keep posting! and take good care.
Shar
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