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Posted by rnny on January 14, 2010, at 13:16:40
This is old news that I feel this way but honestly, it has been 'hell' since she retired. Essentially I haven't had any therapy since. I have been meeeting T's or starting therapy and then running into "problems" with the T. For sure I haven't had any stable therapy since she retired over a year ago and I have given it a chance too. It is not like I haven't. I have seen two people kind of long termish who are different than her but absolutely nothing came/ or has come from the sessions. I am just venting here. I feel I need still more long term counseling and wonder if I will every meet someone like my old T. She was so classy. I really rely on therapy. Maybe too much. The idea of not having a T in my life upsets me, makes me anxious. T is who I run to with all my problems. Is that wrong? Is that a problem in itself? I have no one else to run to, that's why. Sorry for the rambling. But I am alone in this world and the T plays a vital role.
Posted by Dinah on January 14, 2010, at 20:46:57
In reply to So sad my old T retired, posted by rnny on January 14, 2010, at 13:16:40
I can't quite imagine seeing anyone, should my therapist cease to see me for some reason, without being angry that they weren't my therapist.
Of course, my therapist wasn't anything like my therapist is now for the first few years.
I definitely think it's possible to find a new therapist that suits, although to my mind it likely is as challenging as finding a new spouse.
I'm sorry your old therapist went and retired on you. I wish they wouldn't do that.
Posted by rnny on January 14, 2010, at 20:58:34
In reply to Re: So sad my old T retired » rnny, posted by Dinah on January 14, 2010, at 20:46:57
Thank you Dinah....XO
Posted by TherapyGirl on January 16, 2010, at 17:12:34
In reply to So sad my old T retired, posted by rnny on January 14, 2010, at 13:16:40
I'm sorry too, Rnny. It's getting harder for me the longer I'm away from my T, so I'll probably be right in this same space with you before long. I hate that for both of us.
You've made good arguments for your need for therapy. I hope you will continue to look for a T who clicks with you. There is one out there somewhere.
((((((((((((Rnny))))))))))))
Posted by rnny on January 18, 2010, at 14:48:25
In reply to So sad my old T retired, posted by rnny on January 14, 2010, at 13:16:40
Thank you guys......
Posted by rnny on January 18, 2010, at 14:48:43
In reply to So sad my old T retired, posted by rnny on January 14, 2010, at 13:16:40
Thank you guys......
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