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Posted by Angela2 on May 4, 2008, at 9:15:26
I have been talking to a friend from high school on facebook. She is really awesome and I like her a lot. She said that we should hang out becuase we live in the same area. And thats when I brought up that I have anxiety and panic disorder. I was so excited to hang out with her and told her so. And then yesterday was sort of a crummy day and thats when I told her about my issues. She hasn't written back yet. Although I only wrote her yesterday. I am feeling a little insecure about it today. But I think I did the right thing. What do you guys think? I have only been talking to her briefly, but I really feel like she will understand. Although, I still have some worries like what if I told her too soon. What if she's disappointed we can't hang out as soon as she wants. What do you guys think?
Posted by Angela2 on May 4, 2008, at 12:05:02
In reply to I just told a friend about my issues, posted by Angela2 on May 4, 2008, at 9:15:26
She wrote back! I'm so happy. I was just worried because of the weight of personal information I gave her. And she told me she thought I was brave and she respected me for that and that she would not tell anyone. she also said she would meet me somewhere I felt comfortable going. I'm so happy! I have a friend!
Posted by Phillipa on May 4, 2008, at 12:17:14
In reply to Re: I just told a friend about my issues, posted by Angela2 on May 4, 2008, at 12:05:02
Angela congratulations. Hope you have fun. Phillipa
Posted by I need a hug on May 5, 2008, at 3:40:39
In reply to Re: I just told a friend about my issues » Angela2, posted by Phillipa on May 4, 2008, at 12:17:14
Angela,
I've probably read most of your threads but I think this is the first time I've ever posted anything. I have major anxiety D/O and have trouble leaving my house. When I read this thread, I just had to write and tell you how happy I am that you have found a friend. She seems very understanding but what really got me was that she she was so thoughtful that she offered to meet at a place that was comfortable for you. I hope this turns out to be the beginning of a wonderful friendship for both of you. Have a great time. Let us know how it goes. HUGS
Posted by Dinah on May 5, 2008, at 8:11:45
In reply to Re: I just told a friend about my issues, posted by Angela2 on May 4, 2008, at 12:05:02
Posted by llurpsienoodle on May 5, 2008, at 10:06:01
In reply to Re: I just told a friend about my issues, posted by I need a hug on May 5, 2008, at 3:40:39
Hi Angela,
I'm so proud of you! You reconnected with an old friend, and you were able to open up. I think it's wonderful, and knowing you, her response is totally appropriate-- who wouldn't want to hang out with you?you're a star!
-Ll
Posted by Angela2 on May 5, 2008, at 12:54:55
In reply to Re: I just told a friend about my issues, posted by I need a hug on May 5, 2008, at 3:40:39
oh my gosh I am so touched by your post! Thanks you! I didn't know people read my logs, lol. Figured ppl thought they were boring. ((((I need a hug)))) Thank you again for making me feel like I matter here. Hugs to you too.
Posted by Angela2 on May 5, 2008, at 12:57:07
In reply to Re: I just told a friend about my issues » I need a hug, posted by llurpsienoodle on May 5, 2008, at 10:06:01
Thank you Ll, you rock. Yeah I figure that if I tell someone (not just anyone, someone I feel like I can trust), it's ok becuase then they will understand me, I won't be living a lie, and they will be able to help me too. You post made me feel good. thanks!!!
Posted by Angela2 on May 5, 2008, at 12:57:39
In reply to :-) (nm) » Angela2, posted by Dinah on May 5, 2008, at 8:11:45
Posted by Angela2 on May 5, 2008, at 12:58:52
In reply to Re: I just told a friend about my issues » Angela2, posted by Phillipa on May 4, 2008, at 12:17:14
Thanks Phillipa! :-)
Posted by Angela2 on May 5, 2008, at 12:59:30
In reply to Re: I just told a friend about my issues, posted by Angela2 on May 5, 2008, at 12:58:52
Posted by rskontos on May 5, 2008, at 16:23:26
In reply to Re: I just told a friend about my issues » I need a hug, posted by Angela2 on May 5, 2008, at 12:54:55
Angela, I read your posts too, I don't always reply either, just so you know you have a wide audience :)
We care even if we don't always write back. Sometimes I haven't a voice to speak but I still care sweetie, and I am glad you found a friend and the courage to tell her your concerns. Way to be brave.
rsk
(I said concerns versus secrets because secrets seem a nasty word and concerns seems easier you know)
Posted by I need a hug on May 6, 2008, at 3:25:44
In reply to Re: I just told a friend about my issues » I need a hug, posted by Angela2 on May 5, 2008, at 12:54:55
Angela,
Thanks for the hugs. I really needed them. LOL AND YOU DO MATTER. I find your posts inspiring. I can relate to them. I read posts but don't respond much but it's not because I don't care. I have chronic pain and sometimes it's hard for me to sit and type. Like RSK said, she reads and she cares but sometimes she can't find the voice to respond. Others might be dealing with their own issues right now and not be able to offer support but that doesn't mean they don't care. Basically, when you can give support, give it. When you need support, ask for it. But DON'T ever think you don't matter. YOU DO! All the best to you and your new friend. HUGS
Posted by Angela2 on May 6, 2008, at 14:02:57
In reply to Re: I just told a friend about my issues » Angela2, posted by rskontos on May 5, 2008, at 16:23:26
aw, thanks rskontos. thanks for the encouragement too. Yeah I wasn't sure who reads my posts,, if it's a lot or a little. I guess it odesn't matter as long as I find it therapeutic. Although it definitely feels good to know that people care! take care.
Posted by rskontos on May 6, 2008, at 20:14:02
In reply to Re: I just told a friend about my issues » rskontos, posted by Angela2 on May 6, 2008, at 14:02:57
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