Psycho-Babble Psychology Thread 821507

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There is this boy at school who has a crush on me.

Posted by Happyflower on April 4, 2008, at 6:19:10

He is only 18 and I am in no way attracted to him (he looks 12 yr. old "Oppie" to me). But he is relentless with this crush. I have told him he needs to find a girl who is available to him because I am married and way too old for him (39). But he won't let go, he says he knows he can win my heart. I have told him outright that he will not "win me over".
Makes me think of when I become a T, and how I will probably have clients who will fall in love with me and will have to deal with that. In a way it is practice for the future I guess. He says he wants me to show him the ropes, and I tell him no, I won't do that. He is relentless that is for sure.

 

Re: There is this boy at school who has a crush on me. » Happyflower

Posted by nfc on April 4, 2008, at 9:01:30

In reply to There is this boy at school who has a crush on me., posted by Happyflower on April 4, 2008, at 6:19:10

wow he spells confidence, i need to take notes from him and i'm way older too. lol. hmmm...he isn't dangerous is he? and he wants u to show him the ropes???? eekk is he for real or just tryin' to b big pimpin'?

tellem no its illegal, u must respect me as I'm much older, married etc etc i'm my own individual making a firm decision etc etc (while thinking how do I get this kid moved to another class or another skool that is - ok not that far) as long as nothing is wrong upstairs (at least not seriously) w/ him this should pass. but yeah he probably needs a T. probably best its not you though.

ah them 18 year old years. oh wait he should b graduating soon. whew. just a little while longer.

i thought the crush i had on someone was crazy. oh wait it really was. human behaviour. sometimes oh how strange.

keep us posted.

nfc

 

Re: There is this boy at school who has a crush on » nfc

Posted by Happyflower on April 4, 2008, at 10:37:13

In reply to Re: There is this boy at school who has a crush on me. » Happyflower, posted by nfc on April 4, 2008, at 9:01:30

Naw, he isn't dangerous, he doesn't stalk me or anything. The only reason I saw him that day was because I was at school on a day I am not ordinary there. But he had a crush on my English prof too who is even older than me. So who knows? At first I thought it was kinda cute last semester, but when I saw him again, I was surprised he is still carrying the torch still. young love, so cute, but I am not young. lol

 

Re: There is this boy at school who has a crush on » Happyflower

Posted by Phillipa on April 4, 2008, at 12:34:14

In reply to Re: There is this boy at school who has a crush on » nfc, posted by Happyflower on April 4, 2008, at 10:37:13

I'd say be very careful for your reputation. Surely a self-esteem booster. But still. Phillipa

 

Re: There is this boy at school who has a crush on » Phillipa

Posted by Happyflower on April 4, 2008, at 12:49:42

In reply to Re: There is this boy at school who has a crush on » Happyflower, posted by Phillipa on April 4, 2008, at 12:34:14

Hi Phillipa,

I am not interested in him at all, he isn't even my type, he is no way getting anywhere with me. lol
I tried in the beginning to not hurt his feelings and turn him down gently, but now I just tell him that he needs to find a girl who is available and closer to his age. I am certainly not a Mrs. Robinson. lol

 

Re: There is this boy at school who has a crush on

Posted by nfc on April 4, 2008, at 15:46:14

In reply to Re: There is this boy at school who has a crush on » Phillipa, posted by Happyflower on April 4, 2008, at 12:49:42

sorry i'm not too informed. but uh who's Mrs. Robinson? is she one of those teachers who did the deed w/ one of her students and then went to jail for it? I never did learn too much about them stories. Were the teachers sane or what? Or did they really find their students so attractive they were willing to have sex w/ them?

nfc

 

Re: There is this boy at school who has a crush on » Happyflower

Posted by maxime on April 4, 2008, at 17:42:13

In reply to Re: There is this boy at school who has a crush on » Phillipa, posted by Happyflower on April 4, 2008, at 12:49:42

It is good practice for you I guess. I tutor a younger man every week and he has a crush on me. He keeps asking me to do things with him (not sexual, just things like video games etc.). I have told him that I can only be his tutor and that's it. He still asks me out, but he will give up eventually.

Maxime

 

Re: There is this boy at school who has a crush on » nfc

Posted by Phillipa on April 4, 2008, at 20:17:45

In reply to Re: There is this boy at school who has a crush on, posted by nfc on April 4, 2008, at 15:46:14

Mrs Robinson is an older woman in an old movie who was intimate with a much younger man. I so remember the movie. Phillipa

 

Thanks for the info (nm) » Phillipa

Posted by nfc on April 5, 2008, at 6:55:16

In reply to Re: There is this boy at school who has a crush on » nfc, posted by Phillipa on April 4, 2008, at 20:17:45

 

Re: the movie was 'The Graduate'

Posted by caraher on April 5, 2008, at 9:19:31

In reply to Re: There is this boy at school who has a crush on » nfc, posted by Phillipa on April 4, 2008, at 20:17:45

"Mrs. Robinson, you're trying to seduce me."

A young Dustin Hoffman... the church scene at the end was pretty funny.

And of course, "Plastics"

 

Re: the movie was 'The Graduate' » caraher

Posted by Phillipa on April 5, 2008, at 18:50:34

In reply to Re: the movie was 'The Graduate', posted by caraher on April 5, 2008, at 9:19:31

That's it!!!! Great movie loved it at the time. Phillipa


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