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Posted by Happyflower on January 22, 2008, at 20:50:37
Freudenstines Eighth Floor PSYCHOtherapy
Nothing is the same now that its personal not professional.
Denied feelings are as invasive as your yellow Trumpet Vine
Growing on your newly constructed backyard pergola.
Does she know what you think about when you water it?
Seducing me as you tell me you ate those chocolate vaginas,
Secretly mind f*ck*ng me while inside of her
While thinking of my strong trumpet player lips buzzing.
Does she know you say what she doesnt know wont hurt her?
Shared Super bowl birthdays, Sunburst racing, red tomatoes and
Whipping out those orthotics while Grandma Moses looks on.
Isnt Life Strange by the Moody Blues you burned for me,
Does she know why her blueberry bush bears more blueberries?
Eyes frozen on each other at the gym tell me everything you want.
Remember the oath to do no harm?
Does that apply to your wife as well?
Oh, yeah, you did tell me you are a very good liar.
Posted by Happyflower on January 23, 2008, at 8:22:13
In reply to My 1st therapy experience poem**Triggers***, posted by Happyflower on January 22, 2008, at 20:50:37
Sorry if my poem offend some people, but this stuff happened to me and I fired him, it was hell.
Now I have a better T, got more done in 6 months than in 2 1/2 year with old T.Therapy can suck, and when they bend the boundaries it does feel good, makes you feel special, but in the end it sucks. Be happy for the boundaries I say.
Posted by zazenducke on January 23, 2008, at 8:26:52
In reply to My 1st therapy experience poem**Triggers***, posted by Happyflower on January 22, 2008, at 20:50:37
May the golden trumpet blossom vine strangle his pergola until it falls off!!!!!!!!
what a creep.
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> Freudenstines Eighth Floor PSYCHOtherapy
>
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> Nothing is the same now that its personal not professional.
> Denied feelings are as invasive as your yellow Trumpet Vine
> Growing on your newly constructed backyard pergola.
> Does she know what you think about when you water it?
> Seducing me as you tell me you ate those chocolate vaginas,
> Secretly mind f*ck*ng me while inside of her
> While thinking of my strong trumpet player lips buzzing.
> Does she know you say what she doesnt know wont hurt her?
> Shared Super bowl birthdays, Sunburst racing, red tomatoes and
> Whipping out those orthotics while Grandma Moses looks on.
> Isnt Life Strange by the Moody Blues you burned for me,
> Does she know why her blueberry bush bears more blueberries?
> Eyes frozen on each other at the gym tell me everything you want.
> Remember the oath to do no harm?
> Does that apply to your wife as well?
> Oh, yeah, you did tell me you are a very good liar.
>
Posted by Phillipa on January 23, 2008, at 12:43:15
In reply to Re: My 1st therapy experience poem**Triggers***, posted by zazenducke on January 23, 2008, at 8:26:52
Happyflower read your thread on admin so are you staying I hope so. Love Phillipa
Posted by Happyflower on January 23, 2008, at 14:41:30
In reply to Re: My 1st therapy experience poem**Triggers***, posted by Phillipa on January 23, 2008, at 12:43:15
Well you all know me by now, just because I say I am leaving, I haven't yet. But there are some things I won't deal with either, I am a straight forward kind of girl, so I say it as I see it. Which gets me blocked, oh well. But I have cut way back, this is just a poem I had to write for class, so I thought I would post it. But you won't see me much, but I won't be totally gone though. But I will probably change my name soon.
Posted by Happyflower on January 23, 2008, at 14:42:14
In reply to Re: My 1st therapy experience poem**Triggers***, posted by zazenducke on January 23, 2008, at 8:26:52
Hey I like your line better, mind if I use it? lol
Posted by star008 on January 23, 2008, at 16:38:16
In reply to My 1st therapy experience poem**Triggers***, posted by Happyflower on January 22, 2008, at 20:50:37
happy flower,,
I am so sorry for your experience..there are creeps everywhere you go.
Posted by Kath on January 23, 2008, at 18:39:01
In reply to My 1st therapy experience poem**Triggers***, posted by Happyflower on January 22, 2008, at 20:50:37
Jeez Louise - talk about professional misconduct.
I'm all for revenge. I don't think the T should be allowed to get away with that!!!
I wonder if you're the only one he's behaved this way with & I hope that someone tells whatever authorities need to know about this to protect innocent people.
This type of thing could EASILY be more than someone could handle & could end in them taking their life.
((((((((((((((((((((((((you)))))))))))))))))))))))
NOBODY deserves to be treated this way HF.
luv, Kath
Posted by Happyflower on January 23, 2008, at 18:55:05
In reply to Re: My 1st therapy experience poem**Triggers*** » Happyflower, posted by Kath on January 23, 2008, at 18:39:01
yes, it all happened, and I am so sad about it and what is even bothers me more is that I still have those feelings for him (like soul mate). I wish I could hate him, but I can't.:(
Posted by Kath on January 23, 2008, at 19:09:39
In reply to Thanks star and Kath, posted by Happyflower on January 23, 2008, at 18:55:05
> yes, it all happened, and I am so sad about it and what is even bothers me more is that I still have those feelings for him (like soul mate). I wish I could hate him, but I can't.:(
Of course you'd still have those feelings....
If ya had them - ya can't just go "click" & turn them off.
He had no right......NO RIGHT!!!!!!!!!
I am such a vengeful bitch, that I hope he "gets his"....but that probably doesn't make you feel a bit better!!!
A couple of cliches:
For you: time heals all wounds
For him: time wounds all heels
Once again: ((((((((((((((((((you))))))))))))))))
Kath
Posted by sunnydays on January 23, 2008, at 19:43:50
In reply to Thanks star and Kath, posted by Happyflower on January 23, 2008, at 18:55:05
I'm sorry you feel so negatively about your experience with your T. It sounds like you are angry and hurting to me. I will admit I am a little confused because I never heard you describe anything inappropriate when you were seeing your T - there were things I had the impression you imagined he thought and felt based on what could have been innocent comments on his part, but I never heard you say anything about him acting any way other than professionally. I just wonder if your anger (which you have every right to have, and I don't know the full story, just what I'm remembering you wrote) is changing your memories of your time with him so that you are seeing everything negatively instead of remembering some of the positive confidence it seemed like he gave you.
I wrote this very carefully because I DO NOT want to hurt or offend you. I just was wondering, and was trying to offer a little something to think about. But it really was meant gently, and not at all as a way to take anything from how you feel or what your experience was.
sunnydays
Posted by star008 on January 23, 2008, at 20:02:15
In reply to Thanks star and Kath, posted by Happyflower on January 23, 2008, at 18:55:05
i wish u could hate him too.. In time perhaps.. the damage they do in meeting their needs is truly terrible..Your poen was dark, distressing and wonderfully written. I read it several times.. You are gifted even though this one was so hard to write and so painful
Posted by Happyflower on January 23, 2008, at 21:12:01
In reply to Re: Thanks star and Kath » Happyflower, posted by sunnydays on January 23, 2008, at 19:43:50
Hi Sunny,
I am okay, I am glad you posted. You are probably right, my hurt feelings are tainting my total experience with him. But those things did happen, I didn't write about a lot of that stuff because I as ashamed of it because I cared so much for him and I knew he was doing wrong. I do admit, there was some good that came through therapy with him, and that is something that even his hurt can't take away from me. But the hurt is unimaginable in what happened at the end and the next 6 months later. With therapy and a lot of EMDR, I am almost at peace with it now. Now I don't care if I see him ever again, and that has taken 6 months to be able to say that. My last 2 session really focused on the hurt and anger and helped so much. But I needed to fire him, things got to personal between us and when it was evident I needed therapy still, well lets just say you can't go back. Thanks Sunny for your support
Posted by Happyflower on January 23, 2008, at 21:13:06
In reply to Re: Thanks star and Kath, posted by Happyflower on January 23, 2008, at 21:12:01
Posted by Happyflower on January 23, 2008, at 21:16:43
In reply to Re: Thanks star and Kath » Happyflower, posted by star008 on January 23, 2008, at 20:02:15
Thanks for reading my poem, it was hard to write but there was something in me that needed to do it. I am taking a creative writing/art class that is suppose to be about our selves, so it is a wonderful addition to my therapy. I don't see myself as a writer, but lately it has been pouring out of me so much. Most are dark, but my prof says he likes that after reading all day about the sunshine and roses growing. lol Thank you so much!
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