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Posted by Muffled on November 30, 2007, at 12:13:58
I think Rk mentioned it.
http://www.youtube.com:80/watch?v=iLi0yBmPe0k
I watched it now proly 20x.I sent it to T.
I like how her Ikid is not alone. She is with her Ikid and holds her hand, and Ikid looks at her.
I bet that Ikid don't feel so alone.
I watch it proly 20x more.
That she and her man hold their child close at the end. It is good. It gonna be Ok for that kid.
It has a happy ending.
I like that.
Thx Rk.
M
Posted by sunnydays on November 30, 2007, at 15:02:47
In reply to This video, kelly clarkson, posted by Muffled on November 30, 2007, at 12:13:58
Yeah, I love that about that video too. Love it.
sunnydays
Posted by rskontos on November 30, 2007, at 16:18:56
In reply to This video, kelly clarkson, posted by Muffled on November 30, 2007, at 12:13:58
You are welcome sweetie.....that song I have played maybe 100 times. In situation it was my mom doing the running around thing.....I cry through the whole thing......
But it does have a happy ending......I like happy endings....rk
PS I told you muffled you will have a happy endings and your babies are lucky to have you as their mom....you Ikid wants you to mama her too I think and to know she is ok.
Posted by star008 on November 30, 2007, at 16:29:40
In reply to This video, kelly clarkson, posted by Muffled on November 30, 2007, at 12:13:58
hey muffs..i was driving down the road the other day behind a school bus.. you know, big PIA cuz you have to stop every ten feet for them to let a kid off??? I watched a little girl get off the bus and go to her driveway where her mom was waiting.. Mom picked her up and spun her in big circles.. She was so happy to see her.. the image stayed in my mind and I thought about how wonderful it was for that little girl to be loved so much.. We are supposed to parent ourselves now.. I don't want to...
Posted by rskontos on November 30, 2007, at 18:46:04
In reply to Re: This video, kelly clarkson, posted by star008 on November 30, 2007, at 16:29:40
Star my T tells me over an dover the same dang thing and I want to scream no way I am tired of doing everything for everything. for me when my mom didn't want to do something yours truly did it. The grocery buying, the bills, the errands, taking care of the younger children, breaking into my father's business cuz they argued about money, keeping her affairs a secret from everyone, cleaning her house when she didn't want to, cleaning the kitchen after dinner, after while making dinner, and so now that mine children are grown I don't want to parent myself. I can just get over it I want to say to her. Do I sound bitter I am sorry I am raving I am sorry.........
That is good that little girl is happy. It is good for all those children out there that have good parents. I want to tell T furr getaboutit when she says you need to parent yourself. Maybe later like Scarlett says, I will think about it tomorrow......man oh man my eyes are burning bad......rk
Posted by star008 on November 30, 2007, at 21:08:17
In reply to Re: This video, kelly clarksonpossible triggers, posted by rskontos on November 30, 2007, at 18:46:04
my T tells me to parent my innner kids the way I parented and love them... oh yuck.. why don't I want to??It is so hard.. They are so sad and so stuck.. how to I parent myself?? I don't know how to do that. Loving my real children was different.. mine are grown now too and I suppose it is the perfect time to parent myself. ahhh if I only knew how.. ohh if I only wanted to.. It seems hard to try and parent myself when no one parented me.
Posted by rskontos on December 1, 2007, at 14:30:22
In reply to Re: This video, kelly clarksonpossible triggers » rskontos, posted by star008 on November 30, 2007, at 21:08:17
Yep I agree................Too bad we couldn't freeze stuff like in the video...sigh...rk
I know Star I don't want to parent me either.
Curiously Muffled, did your T tell you to try and parent you or IKid yet?rk
Posted by Muffled on December 1, 2007, at 14:49:47
In reply to Re: This video, kelly clarksonpossible triggers, posted by rskontos on December 1, 2007, at 14:30:22
As for the parenting thing, my T has said the same, MANY times. She has to say everything to me MANY times....
I don't wanna parent my ikids either.
For various reasons I expect.
Partly I feel ripped off, why SHOULD I have to ANYways...
Partly I don't wannna cuz I just don't like some of them...
Partly cuz MOST of them got NO use for ME!
Partly cuz I am an inconsistant parent at best...
Partly cuz I still deny...
Partly, cuz I dunno what to do w/them...
Partly cuz they can't/won't hear me some of them...
ALOT of reasons......
)))))))))))))))))))
My favorite time of the day is when i p/u my irl kids at school. I LOVE to greet them with a BIG smile of love. I never get tired of it. You'd think it would wear off, but it doesn't. I may have been a poor mother in so many ways, but I do love my kids.
M
Posted by rskontos on December 1, 2007, at 15:16:11
In reply to Thanks for replies guys., posted by Muffled on December 1, 2007, at 14:49:47
Posted by Muffled on December 1, 2007, at 16:59:51
In reply to Re: I bet you are a good mom muffled (nm), posted by rskontos on December 1, 2007, at 15:16:11
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