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Posted by sunnydays on April 19, 2007, at 22:01:49
Sorry I haven't been responding. I appreciate everyone's responses who has posted to me, I just can't answer them right now. I have to go home for the weekend, and I'm afraid. I don't know what it will be like, and I miss my T. He wasn't at work today either. I'm really hoping he'll back tomorrow and he'll email me so I have something to hang onto over the weekend. I just am so scared that if I leave he'll be gone for a really long time again. It's not rational, but it's what I'm afraid of. I wish he was my dad. He would take care of me really well, and he'd hug me and he'd listen to me, and he'd comfort me when I was sad, and he wouldn't hit me. And I'd get to see him all the time. God, I want that so so bad. How am I ever going to make it through this weekend?
sunnydays
Posted by Phillipa on April 19, 2007, at 22:10:42
In reply to afraid **trigger?, posted by sunnydays on April 19, 2007, at 22:01:49
Sunnydays one day at a time. What makes you feel your therapist will be gone a long time? Not familiar with your history is home not safe. And you don't have to answer. Love Phillipa will be thinking of you.
Posted by Daisym on April 20, 2007, at 1:17:27
In reply to afraid **trigger?, posted by sunnydays on April 19, 2007, at 22:01:49
You will make it through and come back next week to find your therapist well and healing. Hold on to that. Hold his words of caring in your heart. Put something in your pocket that reminds you that you aren't really alone - you can touch it and think of your therapist.
I'm sure he is sending you good thoughts and shared strength. Me too.
Hugs,
Daisy
Posted by JoniS on April 20, 2007, at 15:08:28
In reply to afraid **trigger?, posted by sunnydays on April 19, 2007, at 22:01:49
Hi SunnyDays
Thanks for your posts. This one and the one above. I was really relating to the things you wrote. I often miss my T really bad, even if I just go 10 days between sessions. The only time I really have to wait longer is at holidays or vacations.I get freaked out and think I'm supposed to be finishing up my therapy too. Last week when we were talking about that my T said "You are denying yourself those feelings..." because I told him I want to be differentiated and mature and independent.
Like you I often wish that I could just snuggle in my T's arms and feel warm and save and loved. So many times I wish that I could have a hug when I leave his office on a rough day.
I also envy him cause he seems like he "has it all toghether" I know these are all typical responses of people in therapy, but it's still hard to accept reality.
I hope you have a geat weekend and you can do something fun and enjoy the sunshine.
Warm Hugs,
Joni
Posted by muffled on April 23, 2007, at 14:59:45
In reply to afraid **trigger?, posted by sunnydays on April 19, 2007, at 22:01:49
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